Fukuhara loves melon, who is suspected of cheating, and ferments too quickly.
When the rice sister was still immersed in not holding hands and not kissing, and not being photographed living in the same room late at night can also be regarded as suspected of cheating, more exciting news came.
Fukuhara's beloved husband Jiang Hongjie, looking at Sven Wen Yushu Linfeng, did not want to be exposed by the Japanese media as a man who eats soft rice and is good at PUA.
His own strength is not good, and he actually dares to verbally violence against the world-class cute Fukuhara Ai of the National Hand Realm.
Female branch girl, biaozi? Is this what people say?
Local netizens can't help but scold, let it "be a person."
Thinking back to when Jiang Hongjie came to the mainland to participate in the variety show "Happiness Trio", all the happy scenes were pretended, and Sister Rice really felt extremely afraid of thinking carefully!
Of course, after calming down, I can't figure out what I can't figure out even more is why Fukuhara Ai, who has been tolerant of such a man who gets along day and night, knows his temperament, and knows that his family is like a vampire moth, who has such good conditions?
After the suspected cheating and marital bullying were exposed, she took the lead in apologizing and personally wrote an apology letter.
With this question, Sister Rice went to learn about Xiao Ai's growth experience, and found some reasons from it, which seemed to be able to explain why she was unladylike and unclear.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >01, mom is more like a coach</h1>
Ai Fukuhara, who was born in 1988, embarked on the path of table tennis by chance.
In Japan's patriarchal environment, her brother clearly assumed the higher expectations of his parents.
Therefore, when I was very young, my parents would stare at my son to play table tennis, and Ai Fukuhara just took a look at it by the way, so that it was convenient for adults to take care of it.
Unexpectedly, the brother lacked talent, and Ai Fukuhara, who was 3 years old and 9 months old, showed extraordinary ability after contact.
From then on, her life was destined to be tied to table tennis.
It was also from that time that she lost the childhood of an ordinary child, and she could not enjoy the gentleness of her parents without rules.
Playing table tennis well has become the only hope of a far-sighted mother. Even at first, my mother just wanted to accompany Ai Sauce for a while by playing table tennis.
Fukuhara's beloved mother was Chiyo Fukuhara, and she was a very beautiful woman when she was young.
Sober, calm, relaxed, can be used to describe her.
She is well aware of Fukuhara's stubbornness, so when her daughter is sleepy and tired and shouts to give up, she is not comforted, but with Rou Kegang:
"Little love don't be too spoiled, don't want to practice, even if you don't want to practice, 5 balls to practice or not to practice, you must."
Whenever the mother said this, the love sauce will not only not give up, but will arouse the desire to win or lose, while crying breathlessly, while sobbing and answering:
"Practice! Keep practicing! ”。
Under the gentleness, Chiyo actually has a stern heart.
Therefore, the little love sauce that embarked on this road has almost no choice to give up, and in addition to playing ball, childhood is still playing ball.
When Ai Fukuhara first appeared on television, she had just entered elementary school.
At that time, she was only 100 centimeters tall, facing an opponent who was much older than herself, and ran to her mother crying for the first time. As a child, she desperately desires her mother's care and comfort.
However, watching her daughter run over, the calm Chiyo just opened the palm of Ai Fukuhara's hand and said, "Take a look, what is this?" ”
Above, it reads "Concentration, timing." ”
After calming down, Xiao Ai Sauce won the first game of the second grader who was older than himself.
But after that, she cried again because of irregular serves and lost the game.
At this time, Chiyo still looks at the gentle and gentle, and then warns her not to cry, and asks her to apologize to her opponent
In Mom's view, irregular serves are disrespectful to the performance of the game.
"Even if you're only four years old, rules are rules."
Even though it was only that small, Ai Fukuhara was still required to be sensible, self-motivated, and courteous.
In addition to this, there is independence.
Fast forward to 2001, when Ai Fukuhara was 12 years old, and under her mother's long-term education, she learned to hide her emotions and no longer cry at will.
However, after waterloo, a little girl who was regarded as a genius since childhood, she suffered unprecedented "humiliation".
Yes, she lost miserably to the Chinese team member He Zhili, and was publicly commented by the other party that "everyone is too fussy, in China, there are 1,000 players like Ai Fukuhara." ”
A 12-year-old child, when encountering such a situation, how sad he is in his heart can be imagined.
However, Ai Fukuhara is not just an ordinary child, but also the hope of the Japanese table tennis world.
Therefore, in order to make her more successful, Chiyo sent her to China to study, and she was alone, "if you want her skills to be better, you can't interfere with the children."
Adults are still alone in a foreign land, thinking of their relatives every festive season, let alone a child.
But what can be done? The arrow had to be sent on the string.
In order to live, Ai Fukuhara, who came to China, had to carry her luggage, wash her clothes, eat alone without relatives and for no reason, desperately integrate into the collective, and strive to learn professional knowledge.
In addition, she also has to endure the absence of her mother's love, and her favorite field has no familiar figure, and she is often a little lonely, and she can only grit her teeth and insist.
In a way, Xiao Ai Sauce's childhood mother is absent.
Chiyo, as the mother of the "Genius National Hand", is very qualified, and through constantly tempering her children, she has cultivated a tenacious Fukuhara Ai.
But as a "Fukuhara love mother", she did not give her daughter too much warmth and softness outside of training, and she was not so much a mother as a coach.
In addition, she also has a completely absent but stubborn father, which makes it even more difficult to appreciate the warmth of home.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02, paternal love is missing</h1>
Being treated as a commodity by her family and providing for her whole family by herself is not a rare thing for Ai Fukuhara.
After all, she was already like that more than twenty years ago.
Fukuhara's father, Takehiko Fukuhara, was a former businessman who ran a construction company and did not know how to play table tennis.
However, in the 1990s, due to poor management and debt problems, the company declared bankruptcy, and the family without a source of income had to rely on Xiaoai Sauce to raise.
At that time, although she was only a few years old, she was often able to receive advertisements and endorsements because of her cute appearance and excellent skills.
The lament is that Xiao Ai Sauce has the talent to be responsible for playing, her mother Chiyo has a professional eye to be responsible for training, and the arrogant father wants to interfere with a foot, comment with an unprofessional eye, and affect her daughter's training.
You know, Japan has always been a patriarchal country, so even if he is wrong, Chiyo is difficult to oppose, and Ai Kofukuhara has no right to speak, so he can only do it.
Unsurprisingly, under his interference, Xiao Ai Sauce lost several times.
But every time he lost, Takehiko Fukuhara did not reflect on his own problems, but threw the pot to the training method, and quickly made changes, bringing a bad impact on his daughter.
What is even more unbearable is that all the money earned by the daughter is taken by her to pay off foreign debts, which seems to be a matter of course.
In Fukuhara's memory, his father did not have any temperature.
Being pampered, being cared for, being cared for, is an experience she has never had before.
What she felt was more that property was exploited and that private life was interfered with.
At the age of 20, Ai Fukuhara spread a love affair with Kei Nishikori, the Prince of Tennis.
At that time, the weekly magazine photographed the two holding hands and kissing. Even if it is a sister-brother love, it still exudes a sweet breath.
It is worth mentioning that they are alumni, and the parents of both sides have known each other for many years, and there have been rumors of "finger-to-belly marriage".
However, his father Takehiko did not care about his daughter's "first love".
If, at first, he only cared about whether his daughter's love affair would affect the competition, "as elders we don't think they have really established a relationship, but I hope that they can promote each other and achieve better results in their respective sports." 」 ”
Then in the future, it is completely necessary to sacrifice love to maintain the future, "Countless examples have proved that love has an impact on competition, and she may be temporarily confused by Kei Nishikori." ”
Even when two young people love thickly, the love sauce is once loose, and they want to enter marriage, no one still cares.
Because of her father's words, she was blamed by the chinese people for not doing her job.
After getting off the plane and walking out of the airport once, 60 reporters surrounded her with machines to visit her about her relationship.
At that time, the love sauce with tears in his eyes could only bow his head and apologize, "I didn't expect to cause such a big commotion, I'm really sorry, I also hope that I can have a higher leap in the table tennis game, so I will try harder." ”
Unfortunately, within a few months, the sports couple parted ways under pressure from all sides.
It is impossible to say that this matter does not hurt Fukuhara Ai.
Because in this year, her father Takehiko, who used the money she earned to pay off debts and interfere in the relationship, was kicked out of the house by the mother and son, and there was no contact with each other for the next 5 years, until his death, he did not see each other for the last time.
Since then, Chiyo and Takehiko have also divorced, which shows that the couple's relationship is not good.
Growing up in such an environment, Sister Rice must have fukuhara's expectations for marriage and family, not too high.
After all, she had never seen her parents feel affectionate and respectful of each other.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >03, the short -cherished"</h1>
The arrival of Jiang Hongjie made Fukuhara Ai experience a rare warmth.
In fact, the acquaintance of the two is not a sudden sexual encounter, but a foreshadowing since childhood.
When they were in the 5th grade of elementary school, the two of them had a relationship at the East Asian Junior Games.
Because The little love sauce is too cute, Jiang Hongjie is deeply impressed by it.
Although they did not interact with each other for many years, at the end of a competition after adulthood, he finally plucked up the courage to add Ai Fukuhara's social account and gradually entered each other's hearts.
At that time, Jiang Hongjie was completely different from today's Jiang Hongjie, gentle and considerate, understanding, and respectful of girls, and there was no machismo at all.
After determining his intentions, he bravely confessed.
The funny thing is that because of his parents, Ai Sauce treats feelings more conservatively and insecurely.
Before the relationship was confirmed, Jiang Hongjie had already begun to ask her if she would come to Taiwan after she got married, leaving her very speechless: "I am not married yet, how can I talk about this?" ”
At the same time, she couldn't help but suspect that the other party was Aquaman, "Like he is very handsome and tall, will he say such a thing to other girls?" ”
After that, she thought about it for a month, and she couldn't read back the message sent by the man.
Jiang Hongjie was patient, even if the woman had not moved for such a long time, she was not angry, but quietly waited.
Afterwards, he learned that Ai Sauce was hesitant because he longed for a stable family and was afraid that the transnational too little sense of belonging, and quickly took action.
He took Ai Fukuhara to Taiwan to visit and meet his parents.
At that time, Jiang Hongjie's parents looked like a loving father and mother, and they were very considerate of the love sauce, and Jiang Hongjie's mother would even sleep with him.
Then, he took Ai Fukuhara on a tour of his house in Tainan and solemnly gave her one of the keys: "I hope you can become the hostess of this house." ”
Because of this romantic and down-to-earth operation, Ai Fukuhara agreed to the relationship.
It wasn't long before the two men, longing for a family, quickly entered the city.
Even at that time, Fukuhara Ai's highest score ranked 4th in the world, maintaining the top 10 for a long time, all kinds of large and small medals have been won, in Japan's advertising and endorsement fees annual salary equivalent to nearly NT$100 million, and Jiang Hongjie's highest ranking is 79, currently more than 200, has won relatively few medals, the value is only a few tenths of her, by the media as "married", love sauce is also at all costs.
In order to reassure him, Jiang Hongjie once made a promise: "What you want to do, I will fully support you." You don't need to make any changes. ”
Originally, this transnational marriage was envied by others.
But I don't know how, Jiang Hongjie, who hugged the goddess, gradually changed.
Because of the influence of the traditional concept of "putting the husband first" in Japan, after marriage, Fukuhara Ai gradually became the husband-oriented from the beginning of the pursuit, and even did not have the right to speak at home.
As long as I am with Jiang Hongjie's family, "I may speak a quarter, let Xiao Jie speak, because I am the wife, the feeling of taking three steps back and walking." ”
At first, these were tolerable.
However, with the passage of time, Jiang Hongjie and his family seem to be getting more and more advanced.
According to Japanese media reports, fukuhara loved to have severe morning sickness when she was pregnant with her daughter, about 7 times a day, which was very uncomfortable, but was blamed by her husband for "such a (fetus in the belly) has no nutrition at all."
And once she eats a little more, the other party will dislike her fat.
Body insults are nothing, and what is more difficult to accept is personality insults.
Once, the two went to the dentist together, because they had to open their mouths during the examination, and the act of loving sauce was considered debauched by her husband and was scolded, "You are a female supporting woman." ”
Many small things in daily life, Jiang Hongjie is not willing to satisfy the love sauce.
The two go to the stationery store together, and Ai Fukuhara wants to buy a notebook, but hesitates in a variety of colors and asks him which one to buy.
He said in public that he did not understand, and said in a bad tone: "Isn't there at home, the book you recorded the baby has not been used up, why do you want to buy it again!" ”
At that time, Ai Sauce felt very strange and asked: "Is your elementary school math English language a book?" I take my own money to buy my own book, you don't let it? ”
At this point, Jiang Hongjie said impatiently, "You go to buy, you go to buy." ”
There are many more such small things.
Even after the birth, all the housework at home, Jiang Hongjie also let it go. Whenever the love sauce is not cleaned or cleaned up in time, it will be constantly nagged and criticized.
What makes it difficult for netizens to accept is that during the marriage, Fukuhara Ai was not only bullied by her husband's spirit, but also her mother-in-law and sister-in-law did not let people worry.
The same Japanese media reported that after marriage, Jiang Hongjie successfully broke into the entertainment circle because of his wife's relationship, and fiercely circled a wave of good feelings in the mainland variety show "Happiness Trio".
After that, the Jiang family repeated the same trick, so that their daughter also used this relationship to debut.
What is extremely frightening is that the daughter of the Jiang family stepped on the sister-in-law's position, but she lacked respect for the love sauce and often made things happen. Some insiders broke the news that he had a serious princess disease, "always be the boss, always bully people." ”
She will share the private life and dynamics of Ai Sauce online without saying hello, and post family photos.
When Fukuhara Ai proposed to her husband that she did not want to do so, Jiang Hongjie did not care, but relayed the matter to her sister, resulting in Ai Sauce being scolded by her sister-in-law, "You hurt our family atmosphere has become very bad!" ”
As for her mother-in-law, Ai Fukuhara was once very speechless.
Privately, the other party used words such as "golden hen" and "cash cow" to describe her, which made her extremely uncomfortable.
But in the same way, she told Jiang Hongjie her attitude, and the other party ignored it and turned to complain to her mother, resulting in a worsening relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Even if Fukuhara loves to send his mother-in-law a diamond ring and praises each other's good cooking skills, he can't change his good looks, but instead exchanges it for a sentence of "Look, the Japanese are unique flattering words" to taunt.
Mom like a coach, dad absent, husband changed, mother-in-law, sister-in-law difficult, 5 people work together, creating her marriage tragedy, love sauce is really too painful!
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks</h1>
Again, because of the family since childhood, Fukuhara Ai does not know how the real loving couple is.
For Jiang Hongjie, she repeatedly endured.
After giving birth to a child, it is even more difficult to leave.
Now, after the suspected cheating incident was exposed, Jiang Hongjie did not come forward to explain, but took the opportunity to show loyalty: "My love for her has not changed." ”
At the same time, he attributed the couple's contradictions to "the cultural run-in problem of exotic love."
But in the past interview, Ai Sauce revealed that he is a very practical person, if there is a gunfight, he will run away with the child at the first time, instead of turning back to save his wife.
Such a him, and the image of the past in front of the public is completely different, is it really worth a second chance?
Sister Rice only hopes that Ai Fukuhara can polish her eyes, see clearly, and don't wronged herself!
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Author: CHEN
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