Someone said:
"A person will meet 29.2 million people in a lifetime, and the probability of us meeting is 0.000049. In the end, the probability of being able to complete a lifetime without abandoning is only 0.000008. ”
When we get married, we also regard each other as the only one, and swear that we are willing to accompany each other for life and old age, regardless of poverty, wealth, or illness.
But if you met someone you liked more after marriage, what would you choose?
01
Many people say that they meet true love after marriage, in fact, because they have a strong sense of freshness about things they have not received, not necessarily true love, it is really appropriate.
Just like the lyrics of Eason Chan: what is not obtained is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear.
Man is not only a human being, but also a creature with high emotions, thinking, needing, and stirring. What binds us is only that piece of paper and the traditional sense of morality, but it does not restrain our hearts.
When our feelings after marriage are bland and coupled with the usual poor communication, people have a sense of emotional emptiness. At this stage, when I meet a person who thinks I am the most loved in this life, all the repression bursts out in an instant, and for a while the love is thick and intoxicated. At this moment, this life is not Qing Mo married, and the other is the glue state of non-Jun Mo married.
02
The reason why a lover can become a lover is that two people have an emotional attachment to each other.
Many so-called "more suitable destined true love in this life that I met after marriage" are just my own hallucinations and excuses for finding new love for myself. And this illusion is usually unreliable.
Anyone who has a little experience with each other knows that how men and women feel about each other is one thing before they live together, and it is another thing after living together.
It's like you're traveling to another city and loving it to death; it's really just spending money to enjoy the best parts of the city. If you really move to this city, it may not be so.
Everyone is an adult, if there is no certain condition and courage or choose to treat the current people well. After all, once true love turns it into life, it is comparable to building the Great Wall, and love alone cannot last long.
No matter how great love is, in the end, it is still a life. Substitution is always a palliative rather than a cure.
03
In "Journey to the West", the Supreme Treasure said to Zixia in a dream, I am lying to you. Zixia smiled and replied: Lie to deceive! It's like a moth. Knowing that he will be injured, he will still throw himself into the fire. Are you saying Zixia is stupid? Sometimes we can't analyze love with inherent concepts.
In a thorny and bumpy love, some people resist, some people have no choice but to compromise, some people get their wishes, and more people lose to reality.
It's not that they're not brave, it's just that they make people up, and they always love to tease the innocence of their lovers.
So, if you don't want this relationship to cost you half a life, please remember: "Returning her to the sea of people is sober and interesting." ”
Although I have experienced many ups and downs, there are too many inseparable. But the results are often not so satisfactory, and persistently going on will only hurt both sides. Why not let this unforgettable feeling be remembered in your heart, so that the two of you have no complaints or regrets.
Write at the end
Love is important, but marriage has a bottom line, we must be responsible for keeping the bottom line, if it is really true love, it should not be difficult for you. Some love is used to remember in the heart, not to be obtained. Affectionate, polite, I think this sentence is very correct.
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