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Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

At the age of 17, Dao Lang left a letter and ran away from home with a belief in music.

However, on the road of pursuing music, the first thing that walked into him was a love.

The two married and had children and lived a happy life.

But 40 days after the birth of the child, everything came to an abrupt end.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

The wife left an envelope and said goodbye to Daolang. The attitude of determination is the same as when Dao Lang ran away from home for music.

Dao Lang had to turn his sad emotions into motivation and write one song after another.

At that time, he performed everywhere with sad emotions, but he was once again lit up by love in Hainan.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

He met Zhu Mei, and the lives of the two were different, but they sparked love.

Under the love and companionship of Zhu Mei, Dao Lang took love to happiness and also to the peak of his career.

As Dao Lang said, "Without Zhu Mei, there would be no future for me." The two have come hand in hand to this day, turning the most delicate love into the longest confession of affection.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Dao Lang was born in 1971, he also has an older brother above, the parents of the brothers are literary and artistic workers, under the influence of the family environment, Dao Lang gradually became obsessed with music.

As Dao Lang grew up, he became more obsessed with music.

His parents saw that he loved music so much that they asked him to study at a special conservatory, but Dao lang didn't think so.

At the age of 17, Dao Lang left a letter and ran away from home.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

He wants to go far away, to pursue the dream of music. In the journey of his dreams, he met many like-minded friends, and also formed a band "Scalpel", touring various places, but unfortunately there has been no fire.

There was no fire, no source of income, and it wasn't long before the band disbanded. This made him very sad and depressed.

And it was then that he met Yang Na.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Yang Na is a dancer, and the two have a pursuit of art, and they have endless words for each other.

At the stage of being a friend, Dao Lang developed a lot of good feelings for Yang Na.

In order to be able to pursue Yang Na, he played a small number of romantic cells, took Yang Na to see the starry sky at night, and wrote a love song for Yang Na.

Under daolang's gentle attack, Yang Na walked with him.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Under the catalysis of love, two people have the idea of wanting to get married, but this is not favored by the family.

Yang Na's family was very uneasy when they saw that Daolang did not have a stable job.

Dao Lang's parents felt that Yang Na had a marriage and was very unreliable.

But even so, it did not prevent the two from being together, Dao lang and Yang Na impulsively married, and gave birth to a daughter.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

But after the calmness of the impulse, everything will always find that everything is absurd, Yang Na and Dao Lang are.

40 days after giving birth to her daughter, Yang Na left a letter and left home.

"You can't give me the life I want, I'm gone, don't look for me again", Daolang looked at Juanxiu's font, only to feel that his eyes were black.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Although it was written word for word not to look for it, Dao Lang still couldn't control it. He looked for the place where the two had walked, but did not see Yang Na's footprints.

Finally, he remembered Yang Na's mobile phone number and grabbed the last straw and called.

"Wait for me for eight days, I'll get back to you in eight days"

Dao Lang heard Yang Na's words, and hope rose in his heart, in order to hear the answer for the first time, Dao Lang almost did not dare to sleep, and only slept for two hours a day. But after waiting reverently, it did not bring good luck.

Eight days later, Yang Na did not hear back.

Only then did he realize that it was all over.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

There was no way, Dao Lang had to take his daughter to live with him.

But Dao Lang performed everywhere, and he was not at ease with the child himself, and the parents knew about it and took the child to the house.

Let Dao Lang roam outside by himself.

Putting the child in the parents' home has reduced Daolang's burden a lot, but the failed marriage still makes Daolang very depressed.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

He didn't have any idea of going around doing gigs, hysterical gigs on stage.

After repeated catharsis, Dao Lang's mood recovered a lot, and even wrote a song for this bad marriage.

Kids.

And the network also has a song "Impulsive Punishment" was also born, but Daolang gave up.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

In the music, Dao Lang slowly walked out of the shadows.

And the next love is also quietly coming.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

One day in 1993, Dao Lang went to Hainan to perform, and after the performance, he ate with his friends.

And at this dinner, there was also a person who looked out of place, Zhu Mei.

"This is the host from Xinjiang."

Someone saw that Dao Lang's eyes had been glued to Zhu Mei's body, and immediately made an introduction.

It's just that Dao Lang's interest in Zhu Mei is not very big, knowing the name and position, there is no more exploration, but Zhu Mei looks at Dao Lang from time to time, and the curiosity in his eyes cannot be concealed.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

After this brief meeting, the two were acquainted.

Because of Daolang's talent, Zhu Mei always chatted with him or went to see his stage, and after each performance, the two people had to sit down and drink and chat.

As they spent more and more time together, Zhu Mei also changed from curiosity to admiration for Daolang.

She knows Daolang's musical talent, knows Daolang's talent, knows Daolang's spirit of not accepting music, and also knows Daolang's first failed marriage.

A genius, but also a poor person, makes Zhu Mei like and protect Daolang.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Therefore, she ignored Dao Lang's penniless body and insisted on silently liking him. And Zhu Mei's fierce feelings, Dao Lang also felt it, but he didn't know what to do, he had a daughter himself, and he felt that he was not worthy of Zhu Mei. But it can't hide the appreciation for Zhu Mei.

The relationship between the two was twisted until a car accident occurred.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

That day, Dao Lang and his friends rode motorcycles on the street, and as a result, an accident occurred.

The motorcycle overturned, and Dao lang threw himself directly off the motorcycle. Except for the tears in the shoulders, the rest of the body is a number of abrasions, fortunately, not serious.

This matter also reached Zhu Mei's ears.

When she saw Dao lang, it was in the hospital, dao lang was lying on the bed, and when she saw Zhu Mei's arrival, a smile immediately appeared on her face.

Zhu Mei was originally very worried, but looking at the grinning Daolang, her mood seemed to relax a lot.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

She didn't cry out and sat next to Dao Lang with a smile, and did the same for the next few days, taking care of him.

This time, the distance between the two people was shortened.

Friends watched the two get along more and more naturally, and also joked with each other that they might be together.

And the reality is indeed as friends think, after leaving the hospital, Dao lang and Zhu Mei walked together.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

After being together, Dao Lang seriously thought about the future of the two, thought about it, or wanted to go to Beijing to develop.

But Zhu Mei was full of sorrow.

Dao Lang saw that Zhu Mei looked wrong and wanted to ask what was going on, but he never got a reply, and after several days, Zhu Mei slowly opened his mouth.

Zhu Mei's mother is in Xinjiang, her health is not good, and she is unable to move, Zhu Mei has been close to her mother since she was a child, and she is very worried after knowing her mother's physical condition, and wants to go home to accompany her mother.

And she also knew that Dao Lang wanted to go to Beijing to break through the dream, and her heart was very unhappy.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

However, what she did not expect was that Dao Lang heard this and agreed without saying a word.

He wants to go to Xinjiang with his girlfriend Zhu Mei, and he can postpone his dream in order to postpone it.

Zhu Mei looked at Dao Lang's swearing eyes, and her heart was very moved, she knew that she had not chosen the wrong person.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

In 1995, Daolang accompanied Zhu Mei to Xinjiang, and soon after, in 1997, they were officially married.

Zhu Mei knew that Dao Lang also had a daughter, so he proposed the idea to live with his stepdaughter, and Dao Lang did not expect Zhu Mei to be so understanding, and his heart was touched.

Zhu Mei knew that the stepdaughter might not like herself, or was not used to the environment, and thought of every way to restore the environment in which the stepdaughter lived before.

Let her arrange the room by herself, take her to eat Xinjiang delicacies, under the gentleness of Zhu Mei, the stepdaughter slowly liked her.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Later, Zhu Mei had her own child, but she was still very good to her stepdaughter. Do not let the stepdaughter feel any grievances.

In addition to taking care of her mother, Zhu Mei will also take her two daughters out for a walk or go to see Dao Lang's performance together.

That is Dao lang is not hot, the performance fee is also gone, Zhu Mei did not have any complaints, she held the eldest daughter in one hand, the younger daughter in the other hand, looking at the daolang who sang for the dream, feeling very happy.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Most of the time, it was Zhu Mei who took the children.

One day, the three of them went out, the little daughter pointed to a place and shouted at her father, Zhu Mei turned her head curiously, but found that there was no shadow, as long as a sign said "knife cutting noodles" three words.

Zhu Mei and her stepdaughter looked at each other and smiled. The younger daughter is not very old, does not know many words, and even daolang's name is only the left half of the knowledge, which also makes the younger daughter mistakenly think that as long as she carries the word "knife", she is her father.

After returning home, Zhu Mei told Dao Lang about this matter, and Dao Lang was very happy to hear it, and he also secretly rubbed it in his heart and swore that he must catch fire.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

The customs and customs of Xinjiang also provided a lot of spiritual foundation for the daolang fire.

Because Zhu Mei took care of his family, Dao lang was able to have a lot of time to go out to collect wind, and he looked at the Xinjiang people who could sing and dance, and his heart spontaneously gave birth to a sense of intimacy with Xinjiang.

The more people I saw, the more I learned, and the more I made Dao Lang burst out a lot of inspiration. Wrote a lot of songs. But it also made Dao Lang uneasy.

At that time, Daolang and his family were crowded in a small house, but he was still busy with things that could not see the future, which made him very frustrated, fortunately, his wife Zhu Mei had always supported him.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

It wasn't until 2004 that Daolang became popular overnight.

"Western Love Song" and "The First Snow of 2002", these two songs instantly spread all over the country, in small shops on the side of the road, in taxis, and in the mouths of the road.

Everywhere there was the sound of a knife lang.

Everywhere there is the name of Dao Lang.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

The album "The First Snow of 2002" has sold 2.7 million copies, and this is only a regular sales.

If you count the sales of pirated copies, there can be at least 10 million copies.

Dao lang's fire also made many people find him, hoping that Dao Lang would accept him as an apprentice, but he had no definite plan.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

In 2005, he went to visit Master and got a girl from His master's mouth named Yun duo.

The teacher said that Yun Duo was very talented and hoped that Dao Lang would take her as an apprentice.

Master spoke, Dao Lang naturally took over, and when he returned, he consulted with his wife and where to place the clouds?

Yun Duo was just an adult at the time, and Zhu Mei saw that she was too young to let her live outside alone, so she let her live in the house.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Since then, Yun Duo has moved into the home of Dao Lang and Zhu Mei, and their lives are not as bloody as people think, and even very warm.

At work, Dao Lang has a lot of guidance for clouds.

However, in life, Zhu Mei has become a person she cannot obtain, and in private, she tries her best to make Yun Duo's life more comfortable.

Whenever she feels the tenderness of Zhu Mei, Yun Duo will feel grateful in her heart, and she will regard her as a good teacher and mother in her heart.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

At that time, Daolang was on fire, and Zhu Mei quit his job in order to take care of his family, willing to be the pillar behind him.

The relationship between the two is getting better and better.

But the fire brought not only luck and opportunity, but also pressure and negative news.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Daolang's fire made many singers feel unwilling and doubt whether he would sing in the end.

Yang Kun was even more suspicious, is Dao Lang's music really music?

In the newspapers and magazines of major newsstands, words such as "Daolang", "Song", "Ugly" and "Unbearable" have impacted Daolang's brain.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

This frustrated him, and the increase in performances reduced the time spent creating.

Dao Lang was very depressed for a while.

Zhu Mei looked at Dao Lang's appearance and guessed what the reason was, she didn't understand music, but she would always encourage Dao Lang to do it and write.

When Dao Lang went to the recording studio, she would also be silently on the sidelines, giving him silent encouragement.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

It is the silent companionship of his wife Zhu Mei that makes Daolang's heart slowly calm down, and he voluntarily reduces his performance time and spends more time creating songs.

But even so, the voice of doubt has never stopped.

In 2010, Daolang was selected as an "influential singer" by virtue of his sales, which would have been a happy thing.

But the appearance of Na Ying changed the taste of this matter.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

As a judge, Na Ying did not support or understand Dao Lang's music at all.

As a result, it caused a scolding war between Na Ying fans and Dao Lang fans, and the protagonist of the incident, Dao Lang, after years of being questioned, also generally knew why this was so.

In 2011, Dao Lang held a "Thank You" concert, 30 songs, three hours, Dao Lang sang on the stage, fans sang loudly below.

This performance made people think that Daolang would go to a higher level, but unexpectedly, he chose to quit the singing world.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

For the news of quitting the music scene, Zhu Mei was the first to know, she did not ask why, she only had to knife Lang for many years of pressure, perhaps quitting is a better choice.

After quitting, Dao Lang has been silently making music, while his wife takes care of the family and does not let him be distracted by the family's affairs.

It wasn't until 2020, 2021, that Dao lang released a new album and new music.

In addition, he still did not participate in the show or participate in the performance, but lived a small life with Zhu Mei.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him
Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

Daolang can get to this day, and can have 2.7 million sales results.

It stems from his own strength and inspiration, and also from his wife Zhu Mei. It is Zhu Mei's full support that allows Dao Lang to devote himself to music.

As Dao Lang said, if there was no Zhu Mei, there might not have been such a big achievement.

With the companionship of empathy and the love of trust, Daolang and Zhu Mei can meet each other, which is the greatest happiness in their lives.

Daolang's wife, Zhu Mei: Choose a poor and white Daolang and be willing to be the woman behind him

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