According to the "Inscription of Mencius", when Mencius lived near a cemetery when he was young, he learned to play the game of funeral. His mother said that it was not suitable for her children to live, and then moved to the market, after which Mencius learned the shouting and trading of small stalls and vendors, Meng Mu moved to the side of the palace, and finally Mencius learned the etiquette of bowing in and out of the imperial court. This is also the story of the "Three Migrations of Meng Mother" that was widely circulated later in order to develop good educational habits for her children.
In the autumn of 2009, the Chutian Metropolis Daily reported the story of "A Mother Who Cut Her Liver and Saved Her Son for Half a Year and Traveled 10 Kilometers a Day," and since that day, media outlets across the country, including state media and local reports, have reported on the story of the "mother who ran away." All kinds of reports followed, until the news boom reached its climax in November, when "Runaway Mother" and his son began liver surgery, after which she gave a high-profile interview, which can be said to be well-known. The following fall, she was elected one of the top ten moving Chinese.
It can be seen from this that the power of maternal love is not only found in ancient stories, and we are immersed in the care of maternal love all the time without realizing it, perhaps we often ignore the existence of this love. The story of the "violent mother" that touched countless Chinese people in 2009 made us feel the great maternal love that created miracles in an ordinary and great story. 12 years ago, "violent mother" Chen Yurong cut her liver to save her son, what is her current situation?
I. Why "Stormy Mother"
The "violent mother" who touched China is called Chen Yurong, she is amiable and kind, and her character in the village has also been widely praised. Unfortunately, her son, Ye Haibin, was diagnosed with liver disease when he was 13 years old, and because he did not receive timely treatment, Ye Haibin's condition deteriorated in 2005 and he had to stay in the hospital for observation and treatment. The doctor said that he wanted to treat Ye Haibin's condition, and the current condition could only rely on liver replacement surgery.
It is just that the cost of 300,000 yuan is difficult for ordinary families to afford, and in desperation, Chen Yurong's family chooses to treat conservatively first.
After three years like this, instead of getting better, Chen Yurong's condition deteriorated again, and Chen Yurong was determined to exchange his liver for Ye Haibin according to his son who was tormented by the disease, and no longer sat still. However, the day did not go according to people's wishes, and after the doctor's examination, it was found that Chen Yurong's liver fat content was too high and it was not suitable for liver transplantation. Although at this time, the family said that they could also change Ye Haibin's liver, and Chen Yurong, a stubborn mother, believed at this moment that as long as she lost weight successfully, the fat content of the liver was low, and she could undergo liver transplantation and save her child's life.
According to the doctor's advice, Chen Yurong is not suitable for a lot of exercise, so in early 2009, she chose to walk ten kilometers a day to lose weight. She lost 8 kilograms in these 7 months, and when she checked the content of liver fat again, she met the conditions for surgery.
Finally, in November of the same year, she got her wish, and after a three-hour operation, she changed her son's liver.
Second, why did the "violent mother" move China
Aizi is a mother's commonality, but the most touching part of Chen Yurong is her tenacity and persistence, not bowing to fate. That's the key and the essence. Although her path to liver donation was once blocked, she was saddled with tremendous psychological pressure and was almost on the verge of extinction. But Chen Yurong lost weight with amazing perseverance and kicked off the stumbling block of liver donation. This has also aroused everyone's love and helped the family tide over the difficulties. Her way of losing weight is very simple, that is, by walking, by walking. The more simple it is, the more helpless it is, the more it can impress people.
It's true that many people will vent their emotions by sprinting, but how does this mother feel when she "runs away"? give food for thought. Imagine a helpless mother on a long embankment, sprinting to save her child's life, that determination in despair, that bitterness, that firm motherly love that believes that miracles will happen, and it literally crushes our hearts. That's why she single-handedly touched China.
At that time, she lost weight every day, and everyone in the village knew it, but no one knew why she lost weight, and some people even mistakenly thought that she was losing weight for "old and pretty", even so, she was still tight-lipped and unwilling to explain. Today, 11 years later, Chen Yurong's family has lived a peaceful life. Worried that she would not be able to find a job due to her old age, Chen Yurong chose plastic surgery, but this decision was misunderstood by the people in the village, and her reputation was affected. She still doesn't explain it to others. I don't feel like I've done anything great, I'm just fulfilling the responsibilities of a mother, and everything stems from her great maternal love.
epilogue
Chen Yurong faces the setbacks of life and has the inner strength that everyone is worthy of envy and pursuit. As long as we use our hearts, we can find that maternal love exists in our daily lives, rooted in our deepest consciousness and emotions. This love does not need to be divided into high and low, and will not be separated by pluralistic values, because maternal love itself is simple and lasting, infiltrating the hearts of every ordinary person. When we are dejected because of the hardships of life, this undoubtedly provides us with the spiritual motivation to overcome difficulties.
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