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Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

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During the Three Kingdoms and Two Jin Dynasties, a group of maverick figures with extremely special characteristics in Chinese history emerged, some of whom had handsome faces and outstanding talents; some of whom had ugly appearances and absurd behaviors; some of whom had miserly personalities and indulged in life...

Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

But they left an exclusive term for future generations - Wei Jin Fengliu!

Later generations of literary and poetry, when writing articles and lyrics, were more or less influenced by the Wei and Jin scholars, and even many literati in later generations regarded the "New Language of the World" that recorded the words and deeds of Wei and Jin people as a pillow treasure, and everyone wrote comments from generation to generation.

In this issue, I would like to share with you a small story from "The World Speaks a New Language" - Ruan Xian's "Race Must Not Be Lost".

Ruan Xian is one of the Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest, a famous musician and literary artist.

Among the Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest, Nguyen Ham is also known for his laissez-faire behavior.

Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

For example, when Ruan Xian was following his uncle Ruan Zhi and celebrities to exchange feasts and drinks, everyone did not use small cups, but used a large urn to fill wine, everyone sat around to drink, once a group of pigs smelled the wine, Ruan Xian did not care at all, after removing the upper layer of foam, he drank it directly. Later generations directly said that Ruan Xian drank with the pigs.

All the Nguyen can drink, and zhongrong to the clan gather together, do not reuse the regular cup to drink, with a large urn to serve wine, sit around, drink each other. When a herd of pigs comes to drink, they go straight to it and drink it together. - "The New Language of the World: Ren's Birthday"

Moreover, Ruan Xian also looked down on the people in the family to show off their wealth,

At that time, there was a custom that every year on the seventh of July, everyone had to take out their clothes to dry.

The Nguyen family is a big family, and every year on July 7, each family will take out their most luxurious clothes to dry, which means that my family is doing well. And each family uses this as a show off and secretly competes.

Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

As a result, Ruan Xian arrived on the day of July 7, specially took out the coarse cloth calf nose pants he wore for work, hung them in the middle of the yard with a bamboo pole, and everyone said that you are sick, good not to dry a pants?

Ruan Xian said: Since you can't be exempt from vulgarity, let's dry this.

Nguyen Trung Đạng and infantry lived in the south of the road, and Zhu Nguyen lived in the north. North Nguyen is rich, South Nguyen is poor. On The 7th of July, North Nguyen Thanh Sun sunbathed, all sarong brocade. Zhongrong hung a large cloth with a pole and a nose in the atrium. People or weird. Answer: "I can't avoid the vulgarity, talk about Fuer'er." ——" The New Language of the World: Ren's Birthday"

However, the most excessive thing Nguyen Ham has done, compared with drinking with pigs and drying his pants, is a very shocking act in ancient times and in the present.

Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

Picture note: Mulan is the story of the Xianbei people

Ruan Xian has an aunt, the aunt has a maid of the Xianbei tribe, this Xianbei girl should look very beautiful, Ruan Xian and this Xianbei maid got along well, and also agreed with the aunt to keep this maid to herself.

But not long after, Nguyen Ham's mother died, and Nguyen Ham's aunt also had to return to a distant place. According to the ancient rules, parents must keep filial piety for three years, and those who become officials must resign from the government to keep filial piety, and they cannot marry wives and concubines during the period of filial piety, otherwise they are not filial piety!

In the Wei and Jin dynasties of the Two Han Dynasties, filial piety was second only to conspiracy to rebel. Cao Cao's killing of Kong Rong's three clans was to give Kong Rong a crime of filial piety.

However, when Ruan Xian was keeping filial piety, he heard that his aunt's family had left, and the maid who had been left behind also followed, and his heart was anxious. At that time, Ruan Xian had a guest riding a donkey to hang filial piety, and Ruan Xian directly wore filial piety clothes and rode the guest's donkey to chase.

Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

After chasing his aunt, he left the maid behind, but there was no extra car, and Ruan Xian returned on a donkey with the humble maid.

Some people who saw it were very surprised, and Ruan Xian said directly: "The race must not be lost." "It means that the humble girl is pregnant, and I can't let the children and grandchildren of the Ruan family wander outside." Admit to messing around during the period of filial piety without admitting to self-confession.

Ruan Zhongrong was a humble concubine of the xianxing aunt's family. And the mother is mourned, the aunt should be moved far away, and the first cloud should be left as a maid, and if it is hairy, it will definitely go. Zhongrong borrowed a donkey, focused on self-pursuit, and rode back tired. "Race must not be lost." "That is, the mother of haruka also." - "The New Language of the World: Ren's Birthday"

It can be said that in any period of Chinese history except Wei and Jin, no one dared to do such a thing that violated secular morality! He did this, and he must be greeted by the scorn of all sectors of society!

Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

However, in the Wei and Jin dynasties, alone in Ruan Xian, this kind of shocking thing is perfectly normal, and even written poems by posterity to praise the true temperament!

Shan Tao, one of the Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest, directly said to Ruan Xian, "All things cannot be moved." Guo Yi, another famous scholar at the time, said that he was "intoxicated" when he saw Ruan Xian. ”

On the surface, Ruan Xian appears to be a "scumbag", who has an affair with his aunt and maid, making people pregnant. However, unlike the readers who most of the romance works of later generations appear in the face of "chaos and abandonment", such as Li Jia, the scumbag in Du Shiniang; Zhang Sheng, the scumbag met by Cui Yingying; and Zhang Sheng's prototype, the great poet Yuan Shu of the Tang Dynasty...

Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

Ruan Xian never cared about his reputation and identity, and never shyly covered up, even if he met his favorite maid, even if he borrowed a donkey to chase, he had to chase it back, willing to be responsible for the maid, willing to take responsibility.

This is Nguyen Ham's true disposition, how many readers in the past and the present can do Nguyen Ham like this, for the sake of love to challenge the etiquette?

Ruan Xian had an affair with a foreign maid, why did later generations praise him? Dai Jianye: He lived a frank life

Dai Jianye, a professor of Central China Normal University who is famous for explaining "The New Language of the World", a doctoral supervisor, and a video that has been played hundreds of millions of times on the whole network, said directly when talking about this paragraph:

Nguyen Ham publicly expressed his concern for the maid, precisely because he himself had no worries. We might as well ask ourselves: Who lives as spontanely as Nguyen Ham? Who lives as candidally as Nguyen Ham?

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