Reverse Thinking: When you feel cornered, be sure to know this mindset!
When you encounter great difficulties and feel that you have no way out, you can only think of one last way.
You have to tell yourself that this method must be wrong!
For example: they encounter market reasons, business bankruptcy, debt, real estate has long been mortgaged, small loans are unable to repay, relatives and friends block the door all day to ask for debts...
What would you do?
I don't live myself, or I run away to escape, I break a jar and break it, and I pretend to be dead with a thick skin...?
These are all wrong mindsets!
Be sure to make yourself understand that the so-called desperate is just a "feeling" in your own inner thoughts.
It feels like this thing is the most illusory and useless thing!
In real life, you can now recall that there were countless "feelings" in your mind.
Have you seriously thought about what kind of "feeling" you have caused you any substantial loss?
For example: Do you feel that the company's leaders do not approve of your work?
Do you feel that your friends are not as good to you as they used to be?
Do you feel like your partner doesn't love yourself anymore?
You feel that it is very simple to do this thing, it can definitely be done, why did it end up being a mess?
It feels like this thing is just a virtual intangible product, mostly from the outside world's influence on you.
If you think of your "feelings" as real beings, it will greatly affect your accurate judgment of the nature of things!
So I feel that this thing is the most unreliable!
Feeling cornered?
Such a version is too common in daily life, and many people cannot get out of it, and this ideal cannot be realized in the boredom and helplessness.
This feeling can only make you extremely irritable in your heart, or even collapse, this mentality for the solution of the problem, wool thread does not help.
What the believer wants to convey to you is that when you feel cornered, you must first let yourself abandon this illusory feeling!
As for what should I do?
From ancient times to the present, ancient and modern, At home and abroad, there have long been countless people who have given you the correct answers and examples!
Calm yourself down and see what others do when they encounter this situation?
Find at least 50 methods, pick out the one that best suits your current situation, and try to do it.
If one method does not work, it will be another method, and if it does not work, multiple methods will be implemented at the same time.
For example, debt repayment, it is natural, most people do not necessarily have to let you pay it immediately?
It is enough to see that you have the courage and responsibility to repay the money.
The solution is that every month, everyone, you have to pay back some first, so that others can see your actions.
Of course, there are many more ways to solve it.
In fact, the more you encounter this dilemma and challenge?
On the contrary, the more you can unleash your own incomparably powerful potential and complete tasks that you could not complete before.
Sometimes, being cornered is life's greatest gift to you.
It's like you're opening a blind box and not knowing what the gift inside is, it may be either a surprise or a shock.
When you meet all that you think, don't think, fright and fear...
There is nothing in this world that can make you afraid.
Because of the fears that are much greater than these, you have already experienced them, and nothing can bring you down.
Remember: when you have the "feeling" of being cornered, when there is only one answer in your brain...
You've already thought it wrong!
You can even jump out of the current dilemmas and problems and let your thinking rise to another dimension.
The best way to solve your own problems is usually, how do you solve someone else's problem?
When you let go of the obsession with self-perception and devote yourself to helping solve other people's problems, your own huge problems will be solved and eliminated into invisibility.
Never let your thinking be limited, when you fully open up your thinking dimension, you will find...
I always have countless options and possibilities!
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