The girlfriend said that she didn't feel like I broke up and how to get it back? There is freshness in love, men have women, or disappointment in men leads to no feelings, so what should be done in this situation?
1. Communicate with your girlfriend
If you feel that you are doing a good job and can't find the reason, you can communicate with your girlfriend and where you should improve. If the girlfriend is because she has passed the love preservation period, or the heart belongs to another, then you should stop holding out hope and let everything go with the flow.
2, make yourself more attractive, so as not to make her "no feeling"
She "has no feelings" for you, not that you have any irreconcilable contradictions, the essential reason is that you can't attract her, so the most effective way to save her is to enhance your charm and re-attract her.
3. Tolerance and respect
The biggest mistake that straight male cancers are most likely to make is to reason with girls, and to reason after the relationship is broken or even broken up, which is even worse. If you think that the breakup is because the girl is not right and wants to try to save your girlfriend through reasoning, then I can only tell you that redemption is impossible, never possible!
Therefore, the most correct way to get along with your girlfriend is that no matter what she says, you should not rush to oppose whether your feelings are beneficial or not, otherwise it is easy for her to think that you are against her everywhere.
If you have the opportunity to do something together, you must not be as picky and even sarcastic as before. Try to be as calm as possible, be more tolerant and show your respect. And when women break up or break up, they often propose to be friends. When you encounter such a situation, you should also calmly accept it and try to start with friends.
4. Think differently and understand each other's needs
Girls are more emotional, so most of the breakups are caused by the other party ignoring themselves and not getting the needs they want emotionally. Therefore, after suffering a breakup, boys should recognize this, constantly examine themselves, reflect on themselves, know how to think differently, and understand the needs of their girlfriends. Don't always take care of yourself, only take care of yourself when eating, watch movies only care about yourself, do everything is only about yourself, then there is no point in making a girlfriend. Of course, the girlfriend will also feel that she has no sense of existence, even if she is willing to reconcile with herself this time, it is inevitable that she will break up with herself next time because of this matter. Therefore, only when you understand others and understand each other's needs, can you better consolidate this relationship and let love be saved and heated up.