Gallery of Masters | Claude Monet, French painter, representative figure and founder of Impressionism.
Be brave and venture out of your comfort zone.
Stop self-denial
"I can't talk, my emotional intelligence is too low..." "I'm a failed person, and I still haven't achieved anything..."
In life, we are often sullen because we are not perfect. But know that no one is perfect.
Maybe you're not good at words, but you have excellent mobility; maybe you're talented, but you're hard at what you're good at.
From today onwards, stop blindly self-deprecating, learn to believe in yourself, appreciate yourself, and see the shining points in yourself. Only when you embrace yourself will the world open up to you.
Stop repeated remorse
Do you often spend your time regretting what you did or didn't do?
"If only I had prepared better that time..." "If I hadn't made that mistake in the first place..." Repeated remorse would have plunged myself into endless mental consumption.
Momentary reflection can push us forward, and long-term remorse will only make us difficult.
Instead of falling into a past that can't be changed, let it go. After all, we can't change the past, but we can decide the future.
Gallery of Masters | Claude Monet
Stop falling into negative emotions
There are many things that we can't change, but we can decide how we treat things.
Negative people, always caught in the shadow of failure and confusion, let small problems trigger bad emotions, and further amplify the problem.
Truly optimistic people do not blindly put themselves in a decadent and pessimistic mood. Because they understand that instead of being sullen and unhappy and making things worse and worse, it is better to face the ups and downs with a more positive attitude.
Stop paying too much attention to other people's eyes
The reason why many people are always unhappy is because they care too much about the eyes of the people around them.
A casual glance from a colleague will make you think about the west; a friend's unintentional words, you ponder for half a day.
Paying too much attention to other people's opinions and evaluations will make you constantly consume yourself in sensitive emotions. Please learn to let go of excessive attention to others and focus more on self-growth.
Only by shifting the focus of life to yourself can you live your own shining life.
Gallery of Masters | Claude Monet
Stop setting limits on yourself
Sometimes, the reason why you feel that others can do what you can't do is not because you don't have such strength, but that you acquiesce to an "insurmountable" restriction.
Because you are not from a professional background, you give up your dreams; because you are a new person, you dare not fight for opportunities.
For those who aspire, every stage of life is fresh, energetic, and has unlimited possibilities.
So, be brave and venture out of your comfort zone.
When you have the courage to challenge yourself, you can see the bigger world and enjoy a different life.
Light up "Watching" and make yourself a little happier every day!
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