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There is a strange phenomenon in the interaction between men and women, I don't know if everyone has noticed it? The average beautiful woman marries a man who is not good? And some handsome men, the wives they marry are not very beautiful. Although this is not a universal phenomenon, in life, there are often such examples. There is a saying in the countryside, I don't know where it came from, called, Heiwa married Bai Ni. Another sentence, which everyone should be familiar with, is a flower planted on cow dung. These two sentences are what I want to express.
What I want to say is that, in fact, what seems to be incomprehensible just shows that some feelings that seem impossible turn out to be. So, once you meet someone you like, make a bold confession and go after it. Don't worry too much, otherwise, you're likely to miss a relationship. Of course, being rejected, trying, or being rejected, know how to let go, do not dwell on the line.
There was a male netizen who sent for help, he said that he had encountered difficulties and did not know what to do? He said --
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"I liked a tall and mighty girl, is there something wrong with that?" Why do so many people satirize me? I'm 28 years old, five years ago, and I had a failed relationship and then never talked about it. A few months ago, the company came a new colleague, he she is very tall, height of more than 1 meter 75, weight is estimated to be at least 70 kilograms or more, when she first came, everyone was bright, frightened by her tall, powerful, strong and strong. But I actually, inexplicably like, can say love at first sight. But I did not dare to say that after suppressing it for several months, I still could not suppress this good feeling for her.
Two days ago, I plucked up the courage to suddenly confess to her in front of my office colleagues, at that time, she did not refuse or agree, I was embarrassed, I did not know what to do. Afterwards, some colleagues talked about me, made fun of me, reminded me of good relationships, and asked me what I thought. Say I'm hungry and don't choose food. Say we can't do anything like that. It felt like none of them were blessing me, encouraging me, supporting me. I'm in a bad mood these two days, I feel very embarrassed, am I doing something wrong? Can't I like tall and mighty women? ”
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Siege Reply:
Hello. I can understand your mood, you don't have to worry, first calm your emotions, I will channel it with you. If you are all single, no matter what the conditions, you pursue the person you like is not wrong, you can like, you can like, no matter what others say, since you really like it, don't be affected, just go your own way.
I'm just reminding you that for the opinions and opinions of others, you can only refer to and choose to do it yourself. You didn't say your height and weight, I think it should be inferior to this girl, right? Or does it seem like a lot of contrast? If so, it may be the reason why others are talking about it. However, you don't mind, if this girl also likes you and can accept you, then naturally you can communicate.
The question is, you fell in love with her at first sight, only met for a short time, just got along, didn't have a relationship, do you really know her? Or do you really think she's a good fit for you? In addition to appearance, personality, living habits, how to behave in the world, etc., do you know each other? So, I think your problem is, too much of a rush, or a little too direct. You don't have to confess so quickly, since it is a colleague who can contact more, near the water tower platform first get the moon, you can understand first, and then it is not too late to confess in public after confirmation. Your question is here. You're confessing now, to put it bluntly, that her attitude is that she doesn't want to embarrass you too much or doesn't know how to answer you.
Now that you have said that, adjust your mindset, don't be influenced, don't feel embarrassed yourself, and continue to go in the state of a colleague. Let's take a look.
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