Playing with children is not only the happiest time for children, but also leaves countless warm pictures in the hearts of parents.
This is also the reason why many parents resolutely do not work overtime on Saturdays and Sundays, and must accompany their children.
A few days ago, the picture of Lin Zhiying and his wife taking their son to the go-karting yard has aroused the attention of many people.
As can be seen from the photo: Lin Zhiying, who stood outside the field and watched her son drive a go-kart, was very proud and proud inside.
Although he complained about driving 59 laps, he didn't know that he was tired, and even his father was tired.
However, it can be seen from its movements that it is still in a state of relish.
Lin Zhiying is a well-deserved good father in the hearts of many netizens, whether it is in the company of KiMi when he was a child, or the guidance of hobbies, he maintains a state of equality with his children.
More importantly, when many people see the picture, although they are wearing white short sleeves, they still show their strong arms, which must also provide KiMi with good strength.
In the process of playing with children, not only can the time between parents and children become more enjoyable, but more importantly, children can be educated more deeply and make them more excellent.
For every parent, if you want to educate your child in the process of playing, you may wish to start from the following aspects.
【How to educate children in play】
1. Do more puzzle games
In the process of playing games with children, parents can choose more puzzle games.
Puzzle games, although the operation is very complicated, but it takes some time.
However, in the process of operation, not only can children do it by themselves, but also complete the development of intelligence.
If parents can patiently guide, the form of children's thinking will become more open.
In addition, the benefits of doing it yourself are very large, and they have powerful benefits for the way of thinking and the establishment of a sense of space.
2. Encourage children to do hands-on operation
In the process of accompanying their children to play games, many parents are very impatient and can't wait to help their children complete their tasks.
For example, when drawing with children, it is believed that the pictures created by children are not beautiful, and parents are completely in a state of labor.
In this case, the meaning of playing with children is completely lost.
Parents should encourage their children to do more, not only to cultivate their problem-solving skills, but also to integrate them into the learning process and enhance their sense of achievement.
3. Cultivate the spirit of not giving up
In the process of playing games with children, full of challenging and difficult problems, it is likely that children will have feelings of withdrawal.
In this case, parents should give their children more powerful encouragement as much as possible and cultivate the spirit of not giving up.
If once any difficulties are encountered, the child has the idea of retreating, if the parents condone it this time.
The next time a problem is encountered, the child's first thought is to withdraw, not to find a way to solve the problem.
Only by cultivating the spirit of children who do not give up, this ability will be rooted in the hearts of children, so that they can have stronger competitiveness in the future.
4. Cultivate children's strong self-confidence
In the process of accompanying children to play games, although their performance is not perfect, the result is far from the expectations of parents.
However, parents should also maintain a stronger tolerance as much as possible.
Constantly encourage children, let them do things more perfectly, gradually cultivate their self-confidence, let them know: they can also achieve perfection.
As long as children have such confidence, in the future learning and life, they can face many difficulties independently, and at the same time, they can also develop good habits and lay a strong foundation for the future.
5. Pay attention to the cultivation of thinking ability
In the process of playing with children, although the fun can not be ignored, parents should pay as much attention as possible to the development of their thinking ability.
Solutions to everything are varied.
The parent's mind is in a state of solidification, and although it may be the best solution, it is not necessarily the best for the child.
Therefore, as a parent, we should try our best to let the children think of their own way, rather than being in a state of doing everything for them.
Only in this way can children's thinking be fully developed, so that their curiosity can be satisfied and their satisfaction with solving problems can be developed.
These abilities can be gradually formed in the process of playing with children, but no matter what, parents must pay more attention to the power of encouragement, which will not only have a powerful effect on children, but also make them more excellent.
【Author's Message】
Lenin once said that as long as you are willing to study, you will certainly be able to learn.
Playing with children is a happy thing, not only the children are happy, but the parents' mood is also very happy.
Smart parents, while accompanying their children to play, will also deliberately make guidance to better educate their children.
If you want to educate your children in play and develop various abilities, the above methods will definitely bring you a powerful boost.
It will surely make children fall in love with learning, and at the same time, it can also make their thinking more open, laying a solid foundation for future learning and life.
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