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Recently, "Chasing the Love Family" as a family light comedy, well received by the audience, Guo Jingfei played by Qi Tianyou and Tan Zhuo played by Xiao Nan, in the play is a couple of points and points.
Why is qi Tianyou and Xiao Nan's road to love so bumpy and bumpy? Is it because of the three views, or because of the third party? In fact, the most fundamental reason is the emotional and psychological differences between the two people.
Qi Tianyou is the second son of the Qi family, an associate professor of the university's Chinese department, and the most powerful candidate for the head of the department. It can be seen from the play that Qi Tianyou has a good tutor, a polite and conservative personality, and his character is absolutely no problem.
Xiao Nan, the owner of a car beauty company, is a kind person, has a big grin, is very bold, and is also very good at human sophistication. She is not only the Qi family's "Ding Hai Shen Needle", but also the "big sister" in the industry.
Husband and wife, one has the knowledge and status to shine the lintel, and the other has the brain and courage to make money and support the family. Although the two have very different personalities, they are also a perfect match.
So what's their problem?
Qi Tianyou, unable to let go of the literati's clean wind and arrogance, is not accustomed to the smooth sophistication of businessmen, but habitually enjoys the wife busy making money and supporting the family.
Xiao Nan, in the name of loving him, took care of everything, and his enthusiasm became "orders" in the eyes of the other party, until he pushed the other party farther and farther.
Qi Tianyou's literati pride is reflected in many aspects.
He and his disciple Huang Chao are colleagues, Huang Chao teaches at the university while also has his own company, and he is quite sleek in his handling of people. In contrast, Qi Tianyou is much more polite and conservative, although Huang Chao has repeatedly thrown olive branches to him, but Qi Tianyou is not moved.
On the surface of the plot, Qi Tianyou is immersed in his own ivory tower, engaged in learning and research, and is not moved by money.
But it is undeniable that it is precisely because Xiao Nan has shouldered all the big and small affairs of the family that he can teach so comfortably, maintain his own purity, and show the arrogance of the literati. It's just that he has always been praised as the "proud son of heaven", and he didn't realize it.
It wasn't until he quit his job as a university professor and was repeatedly frustrated by the encouragement of his first love girlfriend to write a script, that he slowly understood how arrogant he was before.
When someone holds up the burden of life for him, literature can be his dream and pursuit.
When the things he loves become a means of survival, when the words he regards as treasures become commodities and are judged, he begins to realize how dependent he is on Xiao Nan, and Qi Tianyou who has Xiao Nan is free.
When Qi Tianyou was expected to be promoted to the head of the department, his wife Xiao Nan was really happy for him, and he did not hesitate to pay for it and help Qi Tianyou Zhang Luo invite his colleagues to dinner.
When Qi Tianyou was framed and blackmailed by the students, Xiao Nan, in order not to affect her husband's career development, even if she knew that the other party was blackmailing, did not hesitate to sell her new shop and raise money to help her husband.
When Qi Tianyou's department head announcement was revoked, Xiao Nan ran to the school leader's office to theorize.
All this was because Xiao Nan loved Qi Tianyou too much.
In her eyes, Qi Tianyou's affairs were the most important things. However, in the name of love, she helped Qi Tianyou to do everything and forcibly added her kindness to Qi Tianyou. She was touched by herself, but she made the other person breathless. In the end, her kindness can only become superfluous.
Xiao Nan was kind enough to help Qi Tianyou invite his colleagues to dinner, but he did not expect that inviting guests to give gifts before her husband's promotion to the head of the department was officially announced was a very sensitive and inappropriate thing, so that Qi Tianyou's situation became very embarrassing and embarrassing.
Later, colleagues returned the gift sent by Xiao Nan to Qi Tianyou, which also confirmed this. After Qi Tianyou's promotion to department head entered the publicity period, colleagues congratulated him one after another, jokingly asking him to entertain, but Qi Tianyou could gladly accept it.
This shows that Qi Tianyou is not a person who does not understand the world at all.
Despite her husband's objections, Xiao Nan insisted on selling the new store and secretly sent 800,000 yuan to the extortionist without Qi Tianyou. However, Xiao Nan had just given money here, and Qi Tianyou had called the police over there, and the facts of the case had also come to a conclusion, and Qi Tianyou had proved his innocence.
Xiao Nan's 800,000 is a float, and her kindness has become superfluous again. In her opinion, this is a selfless manifestation of her love for Qi Tianyou; but in Qi Tianyou's view, this is to condone the villain's gain power.
Both are very assertive and can't persuade each other, so they both solve the same thing in a way that they think is right.
When Qi Tianyou's promotion to the head of the department was shelved, Xiao Nan secretly ran to the school leader's office to block the door and the theory. She was eager to protect her husband, and she couldn't see her husband suffer losses, but she once again let Qi Tianyou lose her image in front of her leading colleagues, and her kindness became superfluous again.
If we don't think about it, we will be worthless for Xiao Nan, no matter what happens to her husband, she will be the first to rush to the front. But every time she was too aggressive, too impulsive.
She treats each other's affairs as her own, does not ask opinions, does not ask right or wrong, and makes there is no sense of boundary between husband and wife.
In the vast sea of people, all sentient beings, two people can walk together and marry, what a precious fate.
Everyone is a thoughtful, independent individual, and how can we ask the other to follow their own preferences and wishes exactly?
No matter what happens, just remember that it is enough to love each other. As long as that person is sincere to you, as long as that person only has you in the eyes, why should others care too much.
True love is that even if it is noisy and noisy, it is divided and merged, but it cannot be separated.
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