Home is the starting point of a person's growth, and a family will affect a child's life. Meng Mu tirelessly carried out the three moves, just to give her children a better family atmosphere, which shows the importance of family to the growth of children. The meritocracy of society, his excellence is by no means shown in a single generation, but is cultivated in the family environment.
When the child has not yet developed an understanding of the world, everything in the family gives him the first enlightenment. Good family education and harmonious family atmosphere will play a great role in people's morality, thoughts and will.
The older generation of people are naturally well aware of the importance of the family, they often say: "There are three empty houses in the family, and the children and grandchildren are poor for generations", and which three empty spaces are these three empty? For modern people, is there any truth to such a way?
The study cannot be empty, it is knowledge
In a home, if you want to cultivate people with both moral integrity and ability, the study cannot be empty. The study is not only a space, but also represents the knowledge of a home. "Black hair does not know how to study early, white hair fang regrets reading late", many people who dropped out of school early in society, when recalling their school days, always regret, why did not do homework without distraction, but wasted a good time.
But in fact, many people, not stupid, can not learn, but since childhood lack of interest in reading, interest is the best teacher. In ancient times, in order to make children happy to read, Jews put honey on books and told children that "books are sweet" to stimulate children's interest in learning.
Today, when the material living standard has been greatly improved, many people have a study room above their homes, but there are few books. Neither pay attention to education nor do they have the habit of daily reading, so that over time, the family will lack cultural literacy. A study room should not only have real books, but also the whole family should use this to cultivate the atmosphere of reading and learning, and the interaction between parents and children can make the family more prosperous.
The dining table cannot be empty, it is cultivation
The ancients often said that "the dining table cannot be empty" does not mean that there is nothing on the dining table, but refers to a sense of ceremony that the whole family must sit around the table when eating, so that the home is full of fireworks. Since ancient times, Chinese civilization has a lot of rules on the dining table, the elderly first move chopsticks to show respect, eat eight points to leave room, etc., this small table carries the family culture of Chinese.
Everyone sat together in front of the meal and tasted the food together, which is a manifestation of the prosperous and pleasant atmosphere of the family. But when the table is empty and there is no food to import, it is necessary to reflect on whether the people in the family are too lazy, and it is difficult to support the family; there are few people at the table, not much conversation, and whether the relationship between relatives in the family has become distant, and what kind of estrangement is waiting for the family to resolve; when eating, through the behavior of the family members eating, you can also reflect on the upbringing of the family.
Ancient Confucius paid great attention to the etiquette of eating, and when he ate at the dinner table, he advocated "eating without speaking" to improve his cultivation in behavior. As Confucius's most proud protégé, When Yan Hui traveled with Confucius around the world, because he did not eat for a long time, when he saw rice at the dinner table, he forgot the teacher's teaching and grabbed the rice with his hands.
After seeing Confucius's gesture, Yan Hui was shocked and quickly corrected what he had done. It can be seen that a dining table is not only a support when people fill their stomachs, but also a highlight of the depth of people's etiquette.
Windows can not be empty, is visionary
Windows in the home not only carry the role of ventilation and ventilation, but more importantly, bring people light, appreciate the airtight room and a wider area. In the past year, the wind and clouds have changed, and many people have "closed their ears and do not close their doors, and they only read the books of the sages." Society is in constant change, if you are only immersed in your own world, you can't keep up with the pace of social progress, for a long time, it seems to be immovable, but in fact it is retreating.
"Window" means the "window" of looking at society, in a home, only when people continue to look through the window, listen to everything, do everything, and use new ways to refine their thoughts, so that the family can move forward together. On the contrary, the people in the family are lazy and never think of making progress, so the family can only watch others through the window to envy the good life of others.
brief summary
The ancients often said that "the home is not empty", in fact, does not only refer to the study, dining table, window these three objects, but more profound is the cultural truth behind the objects, these objects pinned on the ancient people's simple vision of family prosperity and talent.
Home is a small country, only a small family can live well, life can flourish, and society can prosper. However, modern people have paid little attention to these statements, but the core of "home" has remained unchanged throughout the ages, and the yearning for "home and everything" has been consistent.