When working hard in society, it is impossible to go smoothly, and there will always be different setbacks to exercise. When you are in a difficult situation, hungry and cold, you can make a comeback again if you make the right choice, but if you are occupied by the wrong thoughts, it is difficult to turn over.
People in ancient times have personally experienced the period of poverty, but many people have not been knocked down by reality, but have ushered in another village of willows and flowers. The truth of this is that the common saying is that "people are poor and do not think of three people, no money and no greed", this quite reasonable sentence has been passed down from generation to generation by the world, and when people are poor, which three people do not think? What are the three desires of those who are not greedy?
People are poor and don't think about three people
First and foremost is the "nobleman". When people are poor, looking at the miserable life around them and the rich and leisurely days of others, a great gap will be formed in their hearts. In the midst of worry and worry, it is easy to fall into doubt and contemplation, and the jealousy in the heart will occupy the mind. I think that my current appearance is caused by the lack of help from noble people, if I meet the Bole of life, it will definitely change the deadlock, shine and embark on the peak of life.
But meeting Bole is a matter of opportunity, and if you want to gain the appreciation of others, you must first be a "Maxima". Not knowing how to examine one's own abilities, but pinning all one's hopes on the hands of others, will not help to solve the problem, and will only immerse oneself in unnecessary fantasies and complain about oneself all the time.
The second thing not to think about is the "lover". As the saying goes, "full of warmth and lust", first of all, you have to live a full and warm life, and there are certain material conditions. If you are unable to protect yourself, live in the depths of the water, and still think only about your lover, how can your life be better?
"Clothes are not as good as new, people are not as good as the past", the people who can accompany you to share the hardships with Gangu are the people who should go hand in hand in this life and treat each other sincerely. And in times of difficult circumstances, if you only want to abandon your old love and find a new love, you will not only harm yourself, but also hurt your family.
The last thing not to overthink in times of difficulty is the "little man", many people live a stable life, but are framed by the little man and go into poverty. When the matter has come to this point, do not hold too much hatred for the villain, but should use all your strength to restore your life first, and then think of a good way to deal with the villain.
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Yue Wang Gou Jian was invaded and occupied by the State of Wu, and the King of Yue changed from a high emperor to a hostage, but he did not fall into remorse all day long, but endured humiliation and burden all day, and after more than ten years, he made a comeback again and defeated the State of Wu. When life was miserable, the Yue King did not give up, but always maintained his mentality, and finally reversed the situation and sat on the throne again.
No money, no greed
When you are poor, don't be greedy for "money." "Teach people to fish." It is better to teach people to fish" the truth has been said for thousands of years, but there are still many people who cannot understand this truth. When the family is destitute, of course, you need money to make a living, but blindly focusing on making money, you will not be able to make any big money, and you can only live a lifetime of constraints.
If you want to usher in unexpected changes in your life, first of all, the pattern of being a person must be enlarged, and the cognition of things needs to be elevated. The more anxious life is, the more you have to sink your heart and find the best way to break the situation. Since ancient times, the nobleman of the rich side must not have cared about the small profits in his heart, but used more ingenious strategies to make big money.
When people are poor, the last thing they can do is "laziness." When life is not as good as a day, we should work hard, to get better and better, and the whole family should go up together. And the reason why the poor are poor must also have their pity and hatred, if they have nothing to do all day, they sit paralyzed at home, complaining about others but not caring about themselves, then how can they get rich?
"Comparison desire" also needs attention, although there is no "laziness" fatal, but it is also easy to affect the mentality. When life is difficult, it is easiest to envy and envy others, thinking that it is better than others. Proper competition will stimulate morale and make people fight upwards. However, blindly falling into the comparison of others will be affected by it, resulting in a lack of clarity in the direction that you really want to try to change.
brief summary
Throughout the ages, the lives of ordinary people have not been smooth sailing, and they are often caught in the depths of the water, but the wise can see the predicament as a springboard to achieve a leap in life by better honing their hearts.
"People are poor and do not think about three people, no money and no greed" This is the life principle summed up by the lessons of the ancients, many people when life encounters difficulties, it is easy to break the jar and break, so that life will not only not be reversed, but will continue to go downhill. Looking at the final victors in society, they are not afraid of suffering, but even if they encounter suffering, they can restrain their desires, find new opportunities, and finally come back with a higher attitude.