On March 9, 1934, the King of Annam of Vietnam announced the marriage.
As soon as the news came out, it immediately aroused the opposition of the people.
Because the king first used the title "future queen" in the wedding news, and then said that "she mixed the charms of the West and the East"
And these two points have fiercely touched the hearts of the people.
First of all, according to the traditional rules of Vietnam, the king's wife can only be called "queen" after her death;
Second, the Vietnamese royal family generally believed in Buddhism, but the queen believed in Catholicism.
How could such a woman who had enchanted the king become the lord of the harem?
However, no matter how much the royal family opposed and the people were dissatisfied, Bao Da, the king of Annam, officially married Nguyen Youlan 10 days later.
On the fourth day of their marriage, Ruan Youlan had his own title, Queen Of Nam Phuong.
At that time, many people ostensibly scolded Ruan Youlan as a "red face and bad water", but behind the scenes, they were very envious of her.
After all, how happy a woman is to be able to break the rules of her ancestors and promise her monogamy!
But as the old saying goes, men's promises come and go quickly.
However, after more than ten years of hard work, Baoda has a lot of red-faced confidants around him.
In the face of a husband who reneges on his promises, what choice will Nguyen Youlan, who comes from the richest family, make?
Falling in love with the king at first sight, Nguyen Hu Lan did not heed the advice to enter the palace
Compared with the daughters of other rich families, Ruan Youlan is happier.
Le Tao, one of the four richest people in Vietnam. In those years, he was also the richest man.
Other rich people have a lot of money and many lovers.
But Li developed differently, he has a deep affection for his wife, so he has only one daughter under his knees.
As her daughter grew older, Li Wasun was ready to pick a good person for her.
One after another, he fell in love with the soft friendliness around him.
Nguyen Was a secretary of Le Da Fang, with a flexible mind and a sense of righteousness.
More importantly, Li Develop felt that as long as he was there, Ruan Friendship would not be able to turn the sky.
In this way, Ruan Youyou, with a good face, became Li Dafeng's east bed fast son-in-law.
In 1914, Nguyen Hu Lan was born. As the first child in the family, Ruan Youlan was pampered by her parents like a little princess.
At the age of 12, Li Dafeng, who saw the uncertain situation, decided to send his granddaughter to France to study.
There, Nguyen Youlan not only learned the advanced culture of the West, but also retained the femininity of the traditional oriental woman.
Seeing that Nguyen Youlan had reached marriageable age and did not want her to marry her parents abroad, a telegram recalled her daughter to Vietnam.
Although Ruan Youlan has been abroad for a long time, she can quickly become a celebrity at major parties with the name of the granddaughter of the richest man.
In 1932, Nguyen Hue Lan met Bao Da at a party.
Baoda's identity is somewhat similar to Puyi. At that time, Bao Daming knew that he was a puppet of France, but he still wanted to make some achievements when he was young and crazy.
The first time he met Ruan Youlan, it was when he was proud of the spring breeze.
Unlike the noble girls around her, Ruan Youlan, who returned from studying abroad, has insights and does not blindly flatter.
To paraphrase a line from a romance novel: Woman, you got my attention.
Beautiful and brainy, and more importantly, Nguyen Hu Lan, who returned from France, can also help Bao Da analyze the situation.
Under such circumstances, Bao Da's heart was poured on Ruan Youlan.
But in the face of Baoda's pursuit, although Ruan Youlan was moved, he hesitated.
Because her parents told her that the kilometer was too complicated, the family only wanted her to live well.
Sensing the hesitation of his sweetheart, Bao Da firmly stated that he would not only immediately crown her as queen, but also abide by monogamy.
Ruan Youlan, who returned from a romantic country, was shaken by her lover's promise.
In this way, Ruan Youlan ignored the opposition of his family and forced himself to marry Bao Da.
The mother-in-law was embarrassed, the husband was worried, and Ruan Youlan ran away with 5 children
Not long after marrying into the palace, Ruan Youlan was embarrassed by the empress.
After all, Nguyen Hulan did not believe in Buddhism and did not accept concubines for his sons. In the eyes of the Empress, this is a sin.
To this end, she posed the spectrum of the empress dowager and forced Bao Da to set up her niece as a concubine.
This is the mother who suffered with him, and the other is the newlywed wife, and Bao Da is very embarrassed.
Ruan Youlan, who saw this in his eyes, realized that this problem was tricky.
Therefore, while letting Bao Dana's cousin Hu Shi enter the palace, she also made her own request. For example, you can't let Hu have children before himself.
I already feel sorry for my wife's baoda, how dare I refuse?
Hu's 10 years in the palace are like a set board, not to compete for favors in front of Baoda.
On the other hand, Ruan Youlan's side can be said to be pomegranate blossoming, and there are many children. From the second year of marriage, she gave birth to two sons and three daughters to Bao Da.
It can only be said that Ruan Youlan is not only beautiful, but also has a smart brain.
Without looking at the monk's face and looking at the Buddha's face, looking at the grandchildren running all over the ground, the empress dowager could not make any more trouble.
Moreover, Ruan Youlan not only can hold the harem, but also a diplomatic expert.
When she traveled abroad, she wore a phoenix robe, perfectly showing the subtle beauty of oriental women; when encountering disasters, her family took the lead in donating money and goods.
For nearly a decade, except for one Hu clan in the palace, no one else affected their feelings.
But in the future, not only Ruan Youlan's figure became fat, but even Bao Da changed.
In order to seize his power, Bao Da once wanted to bow to other enemies and use them to drive out the French soldiers who remained in Vietnam. But in Ruan Youlan's view, this is undoubtedly a fire.
In response to such a problem, the two broke out several quarrels.
If it was Ruan Youlan, who was young and beautiful before, Bao Da could still listen to the advice. But in the face of his wife who is "old and fading", Bao Da only feels that she is inconsiderate of herself.
On the one hand, the wife who tells the truth, on the other hand, she is considerate of her own confidant, and the balance in her heart is tilted.
In 1946, Bao Da was ousted.
When the building was about to fall, he ruthlessly kept his wife and children in the palace and ran away with his lover.
At this time, Ruan Youlan was still stuck in the palace for the sake of royal justice, and did not want to lose his integrity.
But then the news came that Bao Da not only officially established the Imperial Princess outside, but also had a child! At the same time, he also vainly tried to use his eldest son as bait to collude with foreign enemies.
In the face of such a ruthless and unrighteous BaoDa, the last warmth in Ruan Youlan's heart was gone!
She didn't covet the queen's reputation, nor did she care if she could save BaoDa's heart, at this moment she only wanted to save her children. In 1947, Nguyen Hulan fled France with five children.
Thanks to the financial support of her mother's family, Nguyen Youlan lives with 5 children in a villa on the outskirts.
Although the days are poor, Ruan Youlan enjoys this feeling of freedom.
In 1955, the fleeing Bao Da also arrived in France.
After learning this news, Ruan Youlan did not want to go to visit Bao Da, but felt that he should stay away from him and not be affected by him to hurt his children.
After understanding Ruan Youlan's thoughts, Bao Da felt humiliated.
So, until her death in 1963, Nguyen Woo Lan did not go to Bao Da, and Bao Da did not go to see her.
Two couples who love so much that they can't see the third person end up with an old and dead ending.
In fact, such an ending is not necessarily bad for Ruan Youlan.
If she is not decisive enough and has always believed in the big cake that Bao Da drew for her, it is really difficult to predict what the end will be.
In this case, wouldn't it be nice to leave with your children and live a dashing life outside? Perhaps, the economic conditions are not as good as before, but the heart does not have to worry about other things.
When you meet a ruthless husband, it is also a good choice to stop the loss in time!