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The king fell in love with her at first sight and tried to persuade the people to marry her, but in his later years the two did not see each other until their deaths
Shen Congwen said: "I have crossed the bridge in many places, seen the clouds many times, and drunk many kinds of wine, but I have only loved one person who is the right and best age. ”
Whether it is love at first sight or long-term affection, love is the most romantic thing in the world in the eyes of some people. In life, the position occupied by anything in life should not be higher than the position occupied by a piece of bread, a glass of water, or a book.
Although love cannot be equated with bread and water, it is also irreplaceable. They are essentially the same, but the taste is different and the experience is different.
Love is unfathomable and unpredictable, no matter how high or low the status is, whether the family is poor or rich, it always appears unexpectedly next to you and me. Zhang Ailing said: "Among tens of millions of people, meet the people you meet; in the tens of millions of years, in the endless wilderness of time, there is no step earlier, nor one step later, just caught up." ”
"Enter my acacia door, know that I miss each other bitterly" Vietnam's last empress, Nam Phuong Empress Nguyen Hu Lan, the peerless style, such a noble woman is still suffering from love.
Love at first sight
From the 17th century to the 18th century, it was a famous colonial era in the world, and the major capitalist countries successively deprived a series of backward countries of different degrees of independence and became their dependent countries. By the end of the 19th century and the beginning of the 20th century, capitalism had developed into an imperialist stage, and the capitalist powers began to divide the colonial territories.
Nguyen Youlan was born in the then French colony of Egung City, Qianjiang Province, Mekong Delta, Jiaotong, China, born in an unfortunate era, an unfortunate country, fortunately Nguyen Youlan had good family conditions and loving parents.
Nguyen YouLan's father, Nguyen You Ho, was a businessman from an ordinary Catholic family in Egung, and although he was from a poor background, Nguyen Huu had great ambitions. He relied on his own efforts to serve as the secretary of the billionaire Le Dak in southern Vietnam, and finally married Lai Thi Binh, the daughter of Le Da Fang, and gave birth to Nguyen Hu Lan.
As the only daughter of Ruan Youhao, Ruan Youlan was pampered by her parents, and her parents responded to her needs.
In 1926, at the age of 12, Nguyen Hue Lan was sent to a famous Catholic school in Paris, France, and later became a French citizen, also in the romantic capital of France, where she met Bao Da, a man who changed her life.
Bao Da, named Nguyễn Phuc Huệng, was born in 1913 to the concubine of Nguyễn Phuc Pog Ngầng, Duke of Bhuong Hoa. Nguyen Phuc Huong, formerly known as Nguyen Phuc Vinh Swï, was the last monarch in Vietnamese history. Bao Da was the only son of Emperor Nguyen Phuc Huong, the emperor of Qi Ding, who became the next emperor of Vietnam after the abdication of Emperor Qi Ding.
Bao Da studied in France since childhood, yin and yang, met Ruan Youlan, at this time Ruan Youlan ming eyes, bright teeth, gorgeous, good family and gentle personality, there are many suitors in the school.
Emperor Bao fell in love with Ruan Youlan at first sight, he knew that a good girl would have many suitors, but he knew that missing such a free-thinking, beautiful and intelligent woman would definitely make him regret it, so Emperor Bao did not hesitate to pursue Ruan Youlan.
Excellent people are always attracted to each other, and Emperor Bao fell in love with Ruan Youlan at first sight, and Ruan Youlan was also impressed by such an excellent talent. After getting to know each other deeply, the two strengthened their determination to be together.
Because they are in agreement, they are not only ideologically compatible, but even their family background is also very right, and the combination of the two is undoubtedly a golden boy and a jade girl in the eyes of outsiders.
Force to exclude the consensus to be established later
Bao Theo ascended the throne in 1926 and became the 13th emperor of the Nguyen Dynasty. He had a total of 5 concubines in his lifetime, and Nguyen Hu Lan was his first concubine and his first marriage. On March 20, 1934, Bao Theo and Nguyen Hu lan married, both of whom were under 20 years old.
Young and impulsive and fell in love with the Emperor Bao and Ruan Youlan like glue, love, although Ruan Youlan family is rich, but after all, it is a civilian family, Bao Emperor forced everyone to marry his beloved woman and gave Ruan Youlan a grand wedding.
In her wedding announcement, Bao Da said: "The future queen, in her body, combines the elegance of the West with the charm of the East. We met her on an occasion and believed she was commensurate with our companions and peers. We are sure that her actions and example are fully worthy of the title of the first woman of the Empire. His friendship with Ruan Youlan has already touched Ruan Youlan, but he did not expect that more surprises are still to come.
In addition to this "Cinderella"-like love marriage, Emperor Bao made an exception on March 24 to give Nguyen Hu Lan the title of Empress Of Nam Phuong. Nanfang means the fragrance of the south and commemorates the birth of Nguyen Hue Lam.
Although Vietnam was a vassal state of China for a long time, some customs and political systems have many similarities with China, but in the aspect of the establishment of the post, Vietnam has always stipulated that the emperor can only be established after death.Chinese
At this time, Bao Dadi broke the history of many generations of emperors in Vietnam for the sake of his beloved woman, setting a precedent. His decision not only stunned the court ministers, but also surprised Nguyen Hulan, who had no idea that the young emperor would be willing to do this for her, willing to fight almost the entire country for her.
Leaving aside the aura of Bao Emperor's identity, after marriage, the two are each other's legitimate other half. It's just that there are always many thorns in this world that bind us, and it makes it impossible for us to break the shackles of the world and become a generation that has no choice but to drag the shackles.
There is no power to break fate, and you can only bear the shackles that fate imposes on you. Bao Da received a new education in France from an early age, and for a long time, he had a free soul in his body, burning a fire called "breaking the shackles". He was willing to be an emperor who broke the shackles, not only these strange rules and regulations, but also wanted to break the shackles of the entire country of Vietnam and escape the colonial rule of France.
Only this time the break and escape failed in their respective senses, because Bao Da and Nguyen Hu Lan died in their old age.
Feelings are broken in old age
Emperor Bao and Nguyễn Huện had five children, three daughters and two sons. The eldest prince, Nguyen Phuc Phuoc Long, was born in 1936, and the youngest prince, Nguyen Phuc Phuoc Phuoc Sơng, was born in 1943.
It is said that marriage has a seven-year itch, and the marriage of Bao Dadi and Ruan Youlan is no exception, as the two grow older, their thinking and handling style are gradually mature, their considerations are gradually increasing, and their feelings have become unstable.
Bao Da, as the ruler of Vietnam, has a lot of choices, compared with his old and fading wife Nguyen HuLan, there are so many young and beautiful women in this world for him to choose, as it should be, he slowly snubbed Nguyen Youlan.
At the same time, Japan took advantage of the occupation of The French mainland in World War II by the German army, sent troops to occupy Vietnam, and took the opportunity to manipulate Bao The Great. The manipulated Bao Emperor soon "abdicated" under the compulsion of the Japanese.
The flower of love in the last days, lacking solid soil, in September 1945, the frustrated Nguyen Phuc Hun arrived in Hanoi and met his first lover. And with the first lover, there will be a second and an infinite number of lovers.
It is said that the emperor is cold-blooded, Ruan Youlan did not believe it before, she was addicted to the beautiful dream that Emperor Bao had woven for her, and she was willing to give all her love. Only later, Ruan Youlan could no longer deceive herself, and in the face of this former lover and the disregard of Emperor Bao, Ruan Youlan's heart was like a knife.
Storms and rains can temper a person, but gentle watering can also change a person, Ruan Youlan has received a new era of education since childhood, and she is rich in heart and free of thought, and she has made the decision to break off the relationship between the two after being sad and frustrated.
Nguyen Hu Lan left Bao Da with his five children and lived his life in a secluded villa in France.
In 1963, on a golden autumn day, the 49-year-old Empress Nanfang died of a heart attack in a village in the French province of Corrès, almost unknown. At the funeral, Emperor Bao did not appear either.
brief summary:
There is a saying that "love at first sight is the beginning of the sight, and long-term affection is the trade-off." "I believe that Emperor Bao's love for Ruan Youlan at first sight is true, and I do not deny that he once loved Ruan Youlan vigorously, but these loves cannot withstand the consumption of time and the passage of freshness."
Everyone from immaturity to maturity is a process, and the same is true of feelings, which require us to have a correct understanding of ourselves before entering a relationship. Be a mature person so that you will not be knocked down by life.