Indah said on the sports program: "As long as I am given a chance, I will treat my two sons equally." ”
Yingrudi faced the questioning of netizens and responded: "I am Batuu's younger brother, but we have not been in contact, I hope Batuu can contact me, but he has never been in contact." ”
The words of the two fathers and sons sent Batu and Song Dandan to the hot search again.
Why is this half-brother, this once loving couple, now on the opposite side?
Song Dandan and Indah divorced for 25 years, what happened?
In 1987, Song Dandan met Yingda of the same crew because of the filming of the drama "Arsonist".
At that time, the two had just ended a short relationship.
Heartbroken, Song Dandan met another Yingda who had the same encounter, as if he had found a companion, and Yingda's humor and humor also successfully eliminated the gap between the two.
At that time, the two people, both of whom were unknown showbiz people, poured out their hearts to each other, talked about the future, talked about the script, the sky was south and the sea, and Yingda's knowledge made Song Dandan appreciate, Song Dandan's beauty and generosity also made Yingda obsessed.
He also wrote poems for Song Dandan, and stood out in the crew for Song Dandan, and the first time they got their salaries, they would share them with each other.
Like every little couple in love.
In 1989, the two people, who had been in love for two years, registered their marriage in the Dongcheng District of Beijing after careful consideration.
In this year, Song Dandan stepped onto the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and found a comedy sketch path suitable for himself, taking a step towards the queen of comedy.
In order to seize the opportunity of the Spring Festival Gala, Song Dandan was more than eight months pregnant at the time, and when it was almost time to give birth, she still insisted on participating, and her persistence also brought her great rewards.
The sketch "Super Life Guerrilla" has brought Song Dandan's status to the front line.
Song Dandan's big stride, did not bring Yingda to progress together, he is still an unknown assistant director.
Because he was angry in the crew, he offended many people, and finally he was removed from the position of assistant director and became an unemployed vagabond, writing his next work at home.
On Song Dandan's side, just after giving birth to his eldest son, Inbatu, which is now Batu, he went out to earn milk powder money.
The gap in career makes Yingda depressed.
Because of his superior family lineage, he was called the son of whoever was who, who was the grandson of whom, and when he got married, he was also called Song Dandan's husband.
It was as if he didn't have his own name.
In a later interview, Yingda was still grumpy about this matter: "You think my name Yingda is two words, and it is particularly easy to remember, how can others work so hard?" ”
Suffering and depression can best stimulate people's creativity.
It was in this depression that Indah created the classic family comedy, "I Love My Home".
This drama put Yingda in the position of first-class choreographer, and the victim was his marriage to Song Dandan.
At that time, when this drama was filming, as a well-known comedian and Yingda's lover, Song Dandan naturally wanted to star.
As the general director, Yingda also has another person in the same crew, Song Dandan's former girlfriend, Liang Huan, as the screenwriter of this drama.
To say these three people alone is naturally related to the end of the marriage.
When Song Dandan was seriously acting, he did not find his girlfriend, and he was looking at Yingda with adoring eyes.
And Yingda, in Liang Huan's eyes, also found his own man's status.
At that time, the family had been strong and weak for a long time, which made Indah's heart very unbalanced, and she felt that she was pregnant.
Liang Huan's adoring gaze allowed him to find self-confidence.
An underground love affair happened under Song Dandan's eyes.
One is his lover and the other is his girlfriend.
When Song Dandan knew about this, he was in pain.
She asked Indah, "Are there anyone out there?" ”
Yingda also asked Song Dandan, "Dandan, do you think I am possible?" ”
The rumors in the crew have been flying all over the sky, and the elders of the three people also know each other and see the cattiness, in this case, Indah is still denying it.
Song Dandan didn't know whether his heart was a little more painful or a little more disappointed.
She filed for divorce, and the Indah family did not agree in order to keep her grandson Batuu.
Song Dandan is a cruel person, in order to be able to divorce, she called Yingda one day: "I have an affair, let's get a divorce!" ”
Song Dandan knew that Indah loved face, and sure enough, When Indah heard this, she immediately agreed, without hesitation or retention.
On January 2, 1997, the 8-year marriage ended.
Yingda and Song Dandan said, "Dandan, we were a model couple when we lived together, so when we break up, we must also be kind and happy, which is good for each other." ”
Song Dandan replied, "Okay."
This pair of former lovers parted ways in a tragic way and did not interact with each other.
After the breakup, Song Dandan got the adoption right of his son Batuu.
How much Indah had hoped to keep Batu before, how much he hated it now.
Song Dandan also saw Liang Huan's words on the Yingda BB machine on this day: "Is the divorce done?" When do you get home? ”
All self-deception ended at this moment, and it turned out that Indah already had a home outside.
Her friend Ni Ping called her after her divorce and asked her what she was doing, and Song Dandan replied, "I want to die." ”
Ni Ping, who has the same straightforward personality, replied to her: "You don't die first, you go to our house to wipe the floor first, what do you die?" ”
Song Dandan mentioned this matter later, all thanks to Ni Ping, who gave Song Dandan great support during that time.
After the divorce, Song Dandan also reflected on his marriage, the rift actually existed for a long time, but no one cared, and by the time they found out, it was too late.
Yingda has been a rich man since he was a child, has not done housework, and needs to be served.
After getting married, Song Dandan had to make money while doing housework, which made her physically and mentally tired, and she was no longer in the mood to talk about romance with Yingda.
Song Dandan is also a person with a straight talk, seeing Yingda's laziness, he also gave him a title called "Jue Huang", saying that he was always sleeping.
For Yingda, the gap in status, the less and less conversation between the two people before, is also the reason for the centrifugal.
He felt that he was pregnant with talent, and his wife's pickiness about himself made the two lose their passion when they were in love.
After divorce and then reflect on these, it is no longer possible to recover.
Yingda over there, also a month after the divorce, and Liang Huan received a license, and the impatient mood made Song Dandan's heart cold again.
But the affairs between adults have nothing to do with children.
At the time of the divorce, Batuu was only 7 years old and still longing for his father's love, but Indah directly closed the door to communication.
At the same time, Yingda and Liang Huan also welcomed their children, named Yingrudi.
Treating Yingrudi, Yingda is held in his hand for fear of falling, and he is afraid of melting in his mouth, and he really loves it as the flesh on the tip of his heart.
Yingrudi has loved ice hockey since he was a child, so he spends a lot of money to hire the best teachers to cultivate Yingrudi, and every time he plays, he has to come to the scene to cheer for Yingrudi.
Ying Rudi grew up in an environment full of parental love.
In a parent-child show, Indah said more directly: "If I go to outer space, I will bring three things: Mozart's CD, a book, and my young son." ”
This made Batuu, who had not enjoyed much of his father's love since childhood, hurt his sensitive heart, and also angered his beloved son Song Dandan.
And the statement of a netizen became the last straw.
Song Dandan forwarded the speech in response:
"Men can divorce and reorganize the family, they can love their wives and children, they can show their fatherly love in front of the media with their sons, and they call themselves drivers, nannies, cooks, coaches, and "four-legged fathers." But you can't ignore the former child at the age of 7, he begged you to take him out to play once, and you didn't give the phone when you were 11 years old, 14 years old is like a stranger. It's okay to perform a loving father, but I don't allow you to continue to hurt my son, you're not human! ”
In the face of increasing skepticism and insults on the Internet, as well as the boycott of Indah himself, Indah offered another, more hurtful explanation:
"Don't come to me after the divorce, I still care about him, I still have contact with him, but I can't play the role of father in this situation." 」
However, looking at Song Dandan's words, the contact in Indah's mouth, Batuu did not feel it.
In order to let the child contact the father, Song Dandan has not changed the mobile phone number for 14 years, but has not received a message of caring for the child once.
Even in 2003, When Indah's father died, Batuu wanted to attend his grandfather's funeral, after all, this old man, who really loved Batuu, was turned away by Indah.
These few things made the two completely tear their faces, and Song Dandan's heart was like ashes, and he no longer had expectations for Yingda.
There, Yingda also stopped responding, and continued to express his love for Yingrudi on various occasions, proud that he was Yingrudi's father.
In his heart, his fate with Batuu was so long, he wanted to come to Yingrudi's experience of his father once.
Song Dandan's side is even more dedicated to educating children, she did not let Batuu not recognize Yingda because of Yingda's actions, only educated Batu, must be kind, must be honest.
Batuu likes acting, so she took Batuu on the show and participated in the TV series.
Although there was no splash, Batuu also felt content.
Now Yingru Di has also grown up, becoming an excellent athlete in the country and participating in the Winter Olympics, while Batuu, because of the stability of his acting career, has not developed, and has begun to transform into a anchor with goods.
The anchor's career is in full swing, and the honest appearance and the mother's reputation as a guarantee have made many people trust Batu's products.
Although the identity of the two brothers is heavenly, but for Yingda and Song Dandan, his son is always the best, there is no good or bad.
And Batuu, because of the lack of fatherly love, did not grow into a rebellious child.
Under the careful teaching of Song Dandan, he became a kind person, and also ushered in his own small family and his own children.
Although the father's love when he was a child was missing, Song Dandan made up for it.
In the education of her children, Song Dandan is a very good mother.
Song Dandan, who is already 61 years old, announced his retirement and began a comfortable retirement life.
Take part in some casual programs as you like, guide your work to the younger generations, and take your two little grandchildren with you, go shopping, and buy luxury goods.
Song Dandan's side was enviable, and when batuu said that he should no longer contact his Yingda, his life changed.
In 2018, after Batuu's first son was born, Indah spoke to the outside world, hoping to make the children recognize their ancestors.
Of course, he was ridiculed by Song Dandan: I want to see my grandson, the next life!
After all, you don't recognize your son, and now that your grandson has come out, which sub-sect do you recognize?
In addition to enjoying retirement, children and grandchildren around the knee, Song Dandan also met his own good match, Zhao Yuji.
The two people met for 28 days and quickly flashed marriage, Zhao Yuji is tall and handsome, polite, and has many companies under his name, serving as the position of general manager.
Both of them have a history of marriage at this age, and each has children, but after marriage, the children of both people also get along well.
Obviously, they were once two families, and now they are like a family.
Because the license was in a hurry at that time, Song Dandan also agreed with Zhao Yuji to hold another grand wedding on the 50th anniversary of the marriage, that is, when Song Dandan was 87 years old.
Such an agreement makes people feel that Song Dandan is still that romantic little girl.
Song Dandan's happiness today sets off the decay and vicissitudes of Yingda.
Because of the differential treatment of the two children, people evaluate the father, and also broke out that Yingda moved the most valuable computer in the old friend's home for the first time after the death of his old friend, and was angrily sprayed by the famous writer Wang Shuo: "This person is more ruthless than Huang Shiren!" ”
And in the career, except for one "I Love My Home", there are no more brilliant works.
Career, word of mouth, life, have been affected.
Seeing that Song Dandan has begun to hold his grandson to enjoy the blessings, yingrudi on his side has no intention of getting married, and his daughter is only more than ten years old.
Indah began to envy.
Began to change his mouth in public: "If you give me a chance, I will definitely treat everyone equally", funny, at that time, Yingda's daughter was also nearby, heard Indah's words, and looked at him with an unbelievable look, as if full of distrust.
Yingda is also 61 years old this year, and behind the seeming brilliance, it is actually a mess.
Although Yingda's family is superior, it is already decades ago, once because of the arrears of 5 million yuan, the defendant went to court, and the cobbled together was exempt from prison.
In order to cultivate YingruDi, he even made a bloody contribution.
He sold his house in Beijing and lent money to Yingrudi to buy a house in a foreign country to facilitate training.
Equipped with something, it takes tens of thousands of pieces, and when it is more, it needs hundreds of thousands.
The couple can only liang huan train with their children abroad, and Yingda bears the insult and constantly goes on the show, just to make money for mortgages, car loans, and rental expenses in Beijing.
Therefore, after tearing his face with Song Dandan, he was boycotted by netizens and no longer watched Yingda's program, and he would immediately bow his head and change his tone, saying that he treated the two children the same.
Because he needs a job, he needs to make money.
Now in her 60s, Yingda has gray hair and is still working outside to support her family.
In order to be able to appear on the show, you also have to overturn what you said before.
I don't know if I should say that Indah is a bit pitiful.
The ex-wife has begun to enjoy retirement life, shopping for luxury goods is hundreds of thousands, millions of dollars of costs, he is still running for life.
There is no longer the talent of the year, do not bend the waist for five buckets of rice.
In contrast, Song Dandan's family is happy, life is happy, three generations are in the same house, and there is no worry about eating and drinking.
There are also netizens found that Song Dandan insists on exercising, the body maintenance is very good, the whole person's spirit said that she is in her forties and has people to believe, and her husband Zhao Yuji often accompanies her for walks, and the two hold hands, very sweet look.
On the Side of Yingda, running for life, although his son YingruDi has an interest, the family's income is not as much as Batu's live broadcast with goods.
Yingrudi said on the Internet that Batuu did not contact him and did not want his younger brother, and he did not contact him, because he was afraid of disturbing Batu's speech, and also made him the target of public criticism, so that netizens felt that there must be a son with his father.
The situation of two people in this marriage, two children, is finally turned upside down.
The fatherly love that Batuu once pursued was obtained in Zhao Yuji's body, and only nine words were given for Yingrudi's attitude: "It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter." ”
And Song Dandan also let go of love, let go of hate, thanked Yingda on the show, thanked him as a director, brought such a good work as "I Love My Home".
It can also be regarded as a complete separation from Yingda, without mentioning the past.
And Indah is now asking for care for Batuu in turn, I don't know if it will remind him of the look that Batuu wanted him to care for once?
The bridge returns to the bridge, the road returns to the road, the past has passed, do not mention the past, the opportunity to make up for it has been missed.