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The last time we came home, everyone got together, and the 14-year-old niece had become a big girl, liked to watch makeup videos, and liked makeup when she wasn't in school.
When asked what she wanted to do in the future, she said that she wanted to be a female star, because there were always beautiful clothes to wear, and her daily job was to wear makeup.
There are too many girls like little nieces, in this era of internet openness, many girls have a star dream, they will say: others can do it, I can also do it, these female stars before they became famous, aren't they the same as me? Zhao Liying also did sales, became a star after becoming famous, and everyone was the same before becoming famous.
It sounds like a lot of sense, but in fact, after really understanding how difficult this road is, the last people to become famous are very few, there are hundreds of girls, who have worked this road for many years, and finally failed to become famous, this is the reality.
Talent and face, which one do you have?
Yang Zi said in the variety show that when there was no drama to shoot, she thought of Teacher Song Dandan and plucked up enough courage to make a phone call to Teacher Song Dandan, and Song Dandan's response at that time was: Girl, you are not suitable for this road, because you are not beautiful enough.
The relationship between Song Dandan and Yang Zi is very good, and it is precisely because of the good relationship that Yang Zi thought of Teacher Song, and Song Dandan's words are not wrong, in fact, it is also out of good intentions, at that time, Yang Zi was fat, the image was not good enough, she was also afraid that the girl would be hurt.
Yang Zi did not give up, with the increase of age, the image of the little girl has improved, this is the second, the most critical is that she has the talent for acting, can portray the character to the fullest, compared with her, many people may have image advantages, but acting is very embarrassing.
Unless you have talent, if this self-confidence, even if you have a good appearance, receive some attention, you may also suffer from Internet violence, you must have a strong heart to face the voice of the outside world.
This is true of many professions, others look at the infinite scenery, and its central acid is personally known.
If you don't have either of these things, and you have a "glass heart," it's still the joy of being an ordinary person.
Popular female stars once stood out by their appearance
There are many beautiful women in the world, and most of them have plunged into the entertainment circle.
In one land, it may be because of the beautiful face that attracts much attention, but once you enter this circle, it becomes ordinary, and it is easy to have a look anxiety mentality.
Don't think that the fame of Zhao Liying and Di Li Reba is accidental, they have already stood out because of their beauty before they became famous.
In the era of book models, these faces have been deeply loved by the public.
In this way, many of the female stars who finally reach the peak debut because of beauty, but this is not enough, beauty is not enough to support them to go too far, and then rely on their personal opportunities and talents to have today's achievements.
Becoming a female star is not something that can be achieved by dreaming.
Girls who have "star dreams" at home, how to guide
The best way to do this is to make your child aware of reality.
A girl with a dream of stardom must have her favorite female star, let her deeply understand the growth experience of these people, let her deeply understand their bumpy star path, and let them understand what kind of life girls like her live in this circle, which helps girls stay awake.
A girl with three views is not mature enough and has a flawed personality, is not suitable for entering this big dye vat, Han Anran is the most typical case, if she does not enter this circle, not because of participating in variety shows, she will not reach this point.
Man, the more he acquires, the more absurd he becomes on the basis of his original desires.
In the end, it is myself who is hurt.
If the child does not have a dream of stardom, simply likes to perform, and has a strong desire to perform, it may as well allow the child to take this road, but do not ignore the child's basic education and cultural lessons.
Children's unrealistic dreams are usually due to the lack of real understanding of this dream, and when they understand, they will be hit in the head and will no longer be blindly addicted to it.
Take your child to experience the world and broaden your child's horizons
Children's innocence and ignorance are not only related to their ages, but also related to their experiences.
A child who often travels with his parents and experiences the customs and customs of various places, a child who likes to broaden his horizons through books, will not do such unrealistic dreams.
There are two sides to any profession, the bright side is only seen by the world, and the other side can only be experienced by those who are in it.
If there is an opportunity, parents should take their children out to travel, broaden their horizons, and guide their children to read meaningful books, and the combination of the two will improve their children's minds, their insights will be enhanced, and they will naturally not make low-energy mistakes.
Children's guidance and education is a long process, and parents want to pour great patience and perseverance into setting a good example for their children and guiding them to become a child with internal drive and positive energy, which is a parenting method once and for all.
The purpose of positive guidance and education is that we hope to be able to do it, from the child's point of view, the child can realize that personal growth is independent and has little to do with the original family, and from the perspective of parents, we try to avoid the harm of the original family to the child, hoping that the original family brings the child a positive, positive, and motivating energy, hoping that these can guide them to grow in a better direction.