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Editor / Little Love Letter
Everyone in this world has two selves.
One is the real side of oneself, the other is to let the outside world see one side, and there may be subversive differences between the two.
And this is also the norm in the group of "public figures".
On November 4, 2016, the badminton superstar "Super Dan" Lin Dan and his wife Xie Xingfang, who is also the world champion, ushered in their love crystallization on this day - their son Xiaoyu.
On that day, Lin Dan rarely shared this good news with everyone on social accounts, which was almost the only time he had posted information about his wife on his social accounts in the past.
In the photo of a family of three posted by Lin Dan, the little baby is hugged by the "champion parents" in the middle, which is a warm picture.
And just thirteen days after the birth of his son, Lin Dan used the news of "cheating supermodel" to show everyone his unknown side.
1. Dark Surge
By the day the child was born, Lin Dan and his wife had walked hand in hand for 12 years of spring, summer, autumn and winter.
They are also badminton players, and they know each other at the training ground.
"I remember that Ah Fang had short, neat hair, tall, long legs...
Teammates are talking about this should be the most beautiful girl who plays badminton! ”
At the age of 14, Lin Dan was attracted by Xie Xingfang's unique charm of being clear and clean.
At that time, he was young and did not understand feelings, and this ignorant crush Lin Dan quietly hid for five or six years.
"If there is a chance, God will arrange everything for you."
At the age of 5, he began to be exposed to badminton, and Lin Dan was the only one in the training class to play with his left hand.
He entered the provincial sports at the age of 9, won the first championship in his life at the age of 12, then became a soldier in the People's Liberation Army, and entered the national team at the age of 17...
Lin Dan's personal resume is written with two words bluntly - "excellent".
In 1997, he fell in love with the crush goddess Xie Xingfang, and at the 2004 Jakarta Awards Ceremony, Lin Dan kissed his beloved girl in the presence of the world's audience, and officially announced their love to the outside world.
Four years later, at the Beijing Olympics, Lin Dan's career reached its peak.
That year, with his excellent results, he became a superstar in the sports world, and that year he quietly bought a marriage house in Beijing.
Then, Xie Xingfang chose to retire in order to support Lin Dan's career and wholeheartedly became the "woman behind the scenes".
Their love is not only in the sports world, but also in the entire entertainment circle, the love between the two of them is comparable to that of "eagle heroes".
The nine-year-long love run was finally sublimated in 2012. At the former Beijing Badminton Olympic Venue, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang held a grand and romantic wedding.
Until the two gave birth to a child again, their love was always regarded by the younger generations as the "love benchmark" in the sports world. The love deeds of the two in the past have been passed down like idol dramas for a long time.
The romantic love is over, and then we will talk about another protagonist, Zhao Yaqi.
This is a woman who combines beauty and talent. In the eyes of others, Zhao Yaqi has a bold and cheerful personality, and the proportion of the "nine-headed body" is simply hot.
In addition, she also holds a double degree from Sun Yat-sen University and the Central Academy of Drama, where she has studied law and acting, and has also achieved achievements in dance, music, and theater.
Relying on her good figure, Zhao Yaqi chose to become a model and won the championship in several model competitions. Every single thing mentioned above cannot be used to cover up the bright spots on her body with mediocrity.
Such a woman is not close to the word "perfect".
Unfortunately, there is a saying that goes like this: high education does not mean that there is high quality.
Under the beautiful skin bag, there may not be a heart with eight faces.
2. No wind or waves
On November 17, 2016, only thirteen days had passed since Lin Dan and his wife were happy to have loved their son.
Xie Xingfang, who has just desperately given birth to a child, is confinement at home to recuperate her body.
At this time, women most need the care and care of their families and husbands.
But because Lin Dan was going to Guangdong to participate in the competition, Xie Xingfang also generously encouraged her husband to play well without worrying about the family.
So how did Lin Dan, who competed in Guangdong, respond to his wife who was breastfeeding? At first, Lin Dan trained during the day and returned to the hotel to rest at night as usual.
But then a mysterious woman suddenly appeared next to him...
The mysterious woman is the supermodel Zhao Yaqi.
With the arrival of Zhao Yaqi, Lin Dan's itinerary also began to change, and after training, he and Zhao Yaqi traveled arm in arm for a sweet date.
Afraid of being discovered, Lin Dan did not forget to look around when he was traveling, and there were two staff members as "wingmen".
More excitement is yet to come.
After the meeting, Lin Dan went to Zhao Yaqi's room, and the two began to kiss and hug intimately by the window.
In the picture captured by the media, zhao Yaqi, who was hot in stature, hooked Lin Dan's neck, and Lin Dan skillfully and naturally wrapped his arms around Zhao Yaqi's thin waist and patted the woman's buttocks, and then Lin Dan closed the curtains...
The next day, Zhao Yaqi appeared at Lin Dan's competition site generously, wearing a short off-the-shoulder skirt, cheering for Lin Dan in the audience while not forgetting to take a selfie.
Such a detailed process is exposed to the public, and Lin Dan and Zhao Yaqi have no room for "whitewashing" at all.
At this point, the two had to admit the fact of "cheating" and "intervening". Lin Dan first released an apology copy through social platforms:
"As a man, I don't do more solutions for myself. But my actions hurt my family, and here I apologize to my family, sorry! ”
The next day, Xie Xingfang responded to her husband's cheating, perhaps for the sake of the family and children, or perhaps because of years of love.
She chose to forgive, and accepted Lin Dan, who had made a big mistake, with the phrase "in the same boat in the wind and rain".
The scolding outside had already been overwhelming, and Zhao Yaqi was still watching at this time.
In addition to sending a sentence in the circle of friends "Thank you for your concern", it did not express too much.
Public opinion continued to ferment, and almost a week later, Zhao Yaqi suddenly held a press conference and appeared in front of everyone with an apology letter.
"I sincerely apologize and sincerely accept criticism. I never thought that my sloppiness would hurt so many people, and the past week was the most torturous and frightening few days in my heart..."
She said that because of guilt, she chose to escape at the first time, and silence brought more harm.
In addition to apologizing, Zhao Yaqi also made some clarifications for herself, she said that she and Lin Dan did not have financial relations, and the other party did not buy luxury goods, garages and so on for herself.
At the press conference, Zhao Yaqi couldn't help sobbing several times, and secretly said that in fact, she was also a "victim".
Whether the apology is sincere or not, or she wants to push away those irrelevant negative news, she dares to stand up and apologize for her actions.
However, the interesting little detail is that during the reading of his apology letter, Zhao Yaqi looked for the camera and gazed at it several times...
3. Poor intentions
Lin Dan and Zhao Yaqi's apology, Xie Xingfang's acceptance and forgiveness.
The attitude expressed by the three parties made this uproar "derailment" incident gradually subside.
Although Lin Dan still stuck to his career in the following years, he also achieved many excellent results.
However, this matter has a great impact on Lin Dan, the amount of traffic exposure is not as good as before, even if he participated in some cross-border variety shows, he did not splash any water.
In 2017, Xie Xingfang transformed into a career woman and made a comeback with her self-created mother and baby brand as a "domineering president". At that time, Lin Dan started his wife's small follower.
There is actually a lot of negative news about Lin Dan.
In 2008, when playing in South Korea, Lin Dan, who was dissatisfied with the referee's decision, had a fierce verbal conflict with a coach in South Korea, and almost made a shot, and finally ended the chaos under the referee's "yellow card" warning.
In the same year, he clashed with his coach during training, and paid no attention to the "teacher-student relationship" of the coach boxers, causing an uproar.
When it comes to betraying his wife, in fact, there are still traces of Lin Dan's body.
With his professional achievements, Lin Dan became famous and his commercial value doubled several times.
Some things will slowly change.
In his social media accounts, you can see the advertisements he cooperates with the brand, his experience of badminton, his communication with fans, the blessings given to his mother during the festival...
Only there was no figure of his wife Xie Xingfang.
Whether it is birthdays, Valentine's Day, anniversaries, etc., Lin Dan has hardly posted about the dynamics of life with his wife.
"Why don't you have a picture of your wife, and rarely send it?"
Many fans have also discovered this detail.
Maybe this doesn't explain anything, not everyone is willing to share their private life with others.
In the years after the incident, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang have been living their lives in a low profile.
Whether the injury has affected the feelings of the two people is unknown to the outside world.
Recently, Xie Xingfang posted a photo of Lin Dan's family playing in the sun outdoors, which shows that after the precipitation of time, the family's life has also returned to flat.
On July 4, 2020, Lin Dan announced his retirement.
This has led to a heated discussion about the events of that year, in fact, the matter has passed for so long, and the parties no longer mention the outside world and gradually forget.
Partially, Zhao Yaqi jumped out at this time to make a review.
"Three years, this time I was involved again, and I instantly remembered that year... A bearer, a woman to carry the pot, I admit it! ”
Innocent, confessional, helpless...
Zhao Yaqi recounted that she gave up many future choices because of what happened.
She used "flies don't bite seamless eggs" to describe her relationship with Lin Dan, using herself as a case of advice to other women.
As she said, she has also had her own new career and stable feelings. If you really recognize your mistakes and realize the true meaning, why not ignore those criticisms that are not good for you.
Ignoring it seems to be the real cherishing of the new life!
Secondly, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang have already chosen to avoid public opinion, so why should she be in a hurry to rub the topic and step on herself, rushing to lead the name.
No matter how much it is explained, how many people can care.
"The outside world may be wonderful, but please stay married", it seems to be straightening herself out, in fact, only she is still clinging to "fried cold rice".
wrong? Whether it is really wrong.
Also, nowadays, when traffic is in the way, many Internet celebrities will choose to take the sword to take some of their own black materials to repeatedly hype bo eyeballs.
Zhao Yaqi's operation became darker and darker, and he didn't know whether it was a true expression or something else.
I hope that she can really take it as a warning, and live a down-to-earth life with her own good conditions!