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Shen Danping
Shen Danping was a famous actress who became extremely popular in the 1980s.
At that time, she was still a sophomore in North Film, and she became popular with the heroine "Shen Huangmei" in "The Forgotten Corner of Love".
In her junior year, Shen Danping starred in the movie "Night Shanghai" singer "Golden Voice" Zhou Xuan, Shen Danping's portrayal of Zhou Xuan vividly appeared, leaving a deep impression on the audience, everyone felt that she was born for "Zhou Xuan".
Before graduation, it has become very popular, Shen Danping, and the future can be expected.
Shen Danping and her German husband
But no one ever thought that when Shen Danping's career was just red, she chose to get married and have children.
Moreover, the other party was a foreigner who was 14 years older than her, which was not allowed at the time.
Shen Danping endured tremendous pressure from all sides, but true love could withstand the test, and they finally cultivated the right results.
Now more than thirty years later, I don't know what is the current situation of this sensational "transnational love"? Did Shen Danping ever regret it?
01 No one loves to be self-reliant
Shen Danping's childhood was unhappy.
She was born in 1960 to an ordinary staff family in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, with an older brother.
The parents are a little eccentric, and the delicious and fun things at home are first close to the brother.
In addition, Shen Danping was black and thin when she was born, not so good-looking, so she was disliked by her parents and others.
Shen Danping also seemed to have some inferiority because of this, but she understood that the more no one loved, the more self-reliant she was.
She studied hard, seized every opportunity to grow, and she wanted to grow up quickly and become independent, escaping from that disgusting environment.
After graduating from high school, after many efforts, Shen Danping was admitted to the Yangzhou Song and Dance Troupe and became a famous musician and dancer as she wished.
The two years in the dance troupe were very happy and happy days for Shen Danping, because she was finally free and she could live according to her wishes.
Shen Danping is full of expectations for the future,
In just two years, she became one of the best dancers in the troupe, and at this time, she also became more and more generous and beautiful.
The parents' attitude towards her has also changed a lot, and they hope that their daughter will always jump, have a stable job, and find a suitable person to marry and have children, and a happy life is just that.
But Shen Danping didn't think so, she had a bigger dream, to go to a bigger stage, she was just waiting for the opportunity.
In 1978, Shen Danping really waited for the opportunity to change her destiny.
At that time, Shen Danping learned that the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama were enrolling students, and when she heard the news, she was overjoyed, but soon she had some lack of confidence in her heart.
She was afraid of what happened, and another voice in her heart told her, "No case, how do you know you can't do it without trying?" ”
In this way, desire defeated fear, Shen Danping rushed from Nanjing to Beijing to take the exam, and what was exciting was that she received the admission letters of both colleges and universities.
Under the balance of the two phases, Shen Danping finally chose the Beijing Film Academy and became a classmate with Zhang Tielin, Zhang Fengyi, Fang Shu and others.
Although Ban Hua was Fang Shu, who was born as a child star at that time, the temperament of Shen Danping, who came from dance, was also unique.
And because she has a certain stage experience and acting foundation, she entered the film school in the second year, she appeared on the big screen.
Shen Danping's first screen image is the new daughter-in-law "Lotus" in the movie "Lily", she has a high nose bridge, curved eyebrows, and a fluffy bangs in front of her forehead, which looks very good.
Stills of "Lotus"
With the portrayal of the role of "Lotus", Shen Danping let everyone see her potential.
In 1980, Shen Danping was favored by Emei Film Studio and invited her to play the heroine "Shen Huangmei" in the film "The Forgotten Corner of Love".
Shen Huangmei was born in the year of famine because her father named her after her. She also has an older sister, Shen Cunni, who caused a tragedy because of a frolicking with a leopard in the same village between labors.
In that small mountain village, which was extremely poor in material and spirit, her sister committed suicide in injustice, and the little leopard was arrested for "strong J to kill people".
Shen Huangmei, who has known all this since childhood, has developed a taciturn personality because of her sister's experience.
And from the bottom of her heart, she hated men and resisted love, until after she became an adult, a retired young man with lofty aspirations, entered her heart...
Shen Danping used her simple, delicate and subtle performance to successfully shape the rural girl "Shen Huangmei" who pursued pure love.
After the film was broadcast, she won the Best Screenplay Award at the Golden Rooster Awards of Chinese Films, and Shen Danping also became popular with "Shen Huangmei", leaving a strong mark on her film scene in the 1980s.
In 1981, shen Danping, who became popular, starred in the movie "Night Shanghai".
She played the role of the heroine "Circling", with a dance foundation and a "golden voice" and a superior image,
She successfully portrayed this well-known singer Zhou Xuan, who was well-known in Southeast Asia in the 1930s, and the audience felt that Shen Danping had played Zhou Xuan to life, and she was simply born for "Zhou Xuan".
In the face of the appreciation and reputation of the outside world, Shen Danping is very sober, she did not go with the trend, pampered and proud, but focused on the drama stage, she felt that her acting skills still need to continue to be sharpened.
02 weight
Because of the excellent performance on the big screen,
After graduating from Beijing Film in 1982, Shen Danping was assigned to the Actors Troupe of Beijing Film Studio.
During her time at school, Shen Danping had a relationship with her classmate Zhang Tielin.
He was her first love, and the two were called "Golden Boys" by their classmates at the time, but the relationship also ended with graduation and different life plans.
Zhang Tielin with his daughter Moon
After the breakup, Zhang Tielin first worked in the Tianjin Radio and Television Art Troupe.
Then he studied abroad, married a British Polish filmmaker, and gave birth to a daughter Zhang Yueliang, unfortunately this marriage lasted for a year, and ended with Zhang Tielin returning to China for development.
Since then, Zhang Tielin has not remarried, until he is over fifty years old, he fell in love with the singer Liu Yuwan, the two have been in love for more than ten years, although they are not married, they are also sweet.
After Shen Danping entered the North Film Studio, she calmed down and precipitated herself on the drama stage.
In fact, Shen Danping did not think that she would get married so early, because she was not a love brain.
But she still can't stand the affection, and finally for him, she will not hesitate to break with her family.
In 1983, Shen Danping was pulled by the goddess of the same dormitory to participate in a party of the North Film Studio because of her work.
At this gathering, she met the True Destiny Uwe.
A native of Germany, Uwe came to China in 1974 as a foreign expert to work as an editor at a foreign language publishing house.
After spending nearly a decade in China, Uwe speaks fluent Chinese, and he has long fallen in love with everything here.
The first time he met Shen Danping, he was attracted to her, she loved to smile, had a cheerful and beautiful personality, the two had a pleasant conversation, and left contact information for each other at the end of the party.
Shen Danping only thought that he had made one more friend, but Wu Wei was not, he was interested in this Chinese girl, so in the future he would often invite Shen Danping to meet in the name of the party.
A "date", emotional place, Wu Wei did not resist kissing Shen Danping on the cheek, that was their first "intimate contact".
After the kiss, Wu Wei realized that he had crossed the line, and he hurried to apologize to Shen Danping, who was simply asking him if he liked himself.
Wu Wei saw that she was not angry, and also took the initiative to ask himself if he liked her, which was a good opportunity to confess, and he seized the time to confess his heart like Shen Danping.
In fact, Shen Danping was also full of good feelings for him, and Lang had a concubine intention, so they established a love relationship.
03 Important decisions
Just unexpectedly, they fell into a sweet love and ushered in the first test.
At that time, Uwe's visa was about to expire, and he was faced with only two choices, either to return to China or marry Shen Danping, so that he could live in China without a visa.
But at that time, it was shen Danping's career rising period, and she was still young, she thought about two years to consider marriage, facing the upcoming separation, the two were deadlocked.
In the end, it was Uwe who compromised and said that he would stay in China, so that the relationship was repaired to a positive result.
Shen Danping saw WuWei's determination to love herself, and she was very touched in the face of his initiative to compromise, which is why Shen Danping was able to "pinch" Wuwei later.
Because she was sure he loved herself, he would tolerate it no matter how much she made trouble.
Of course, love is mutual, in order to be able to be with WuWei, Shen Danping also underwent pressure from all sides, first of all, her parents could not pass the level.
They objected to her being with foreigners, and to being an old man so many years older than her, and they gave her the choice of whether to have Uwe or her parents.
In the face of her family's opposition, Shen Danping did not flinch, and she was determined to be with Wu Wei.
Watching the people he loved dearly break with his parents for himself, Uwe couldn't bear it.
But he didn't want to be separated from Shen Danping, since the moment he fell in love with her, he had already decided,
Whether she wants to be his wife or his wife in the future, he will love her as always.
Growing up so big, no one had ever been so desperate for herself, and Shen Danping had strengthened her determination to be with him.
However, to marry a foreigner, you must have the proof of your parents, so Shen Danping wrote a letter of more than ten pages to her father, which told her growth journey over the years.
After the father saw it, he burst into tears, determined not to embarrass his daughter anymore, and wrote a certificate for them, and in this way, Shen Danping became the first female movie star to marry a foreigner.
It is said that Shen Danping married to Germany, but in fact, Uwe married to China, because they have been living in China for many years.
At first, Shen Danping also followed Wu Wei to live for a while, but soon she returned to China.
She said, "One side raises one side of the other, and I always feel that the country is the right place for me to grow." ”
Moreover, Wu Wei also supported Shen Danping's idea, so he often said that he married into China.
After marriage, Shen Danping and Wu Wei had two daughters in succession, and they named them Dan Dan and Anna respectively.
04 Shame on your daughter
For many years, Shen Danping has not given up her career.
Especially in the years after marriage, she focused her main energy on her career.
First of all, with the movie "Stay in the Village", she won the best actress award at the 18th Hundred Flowers Awards for Popular Films, and then turned her energy to TV dramas.
Shen Danping has always felt ashamed of her daughter, especially the eldest daughter Dandan.
Shen Danping's eldest daughter DanDan
Because since she was born, in the most important six years of growing up, she could not accompany her, she fell, when her mother did not help her, she learned to walk, she was not there.
Shen Danping felt guilty about her eldest daughter Dan Dan.
She said that she truly realized that being a mother was after giving birth to her second daughter Shanshan, because she owed dandan, so after giving birth to shanshan, she added the missing maternal love for dandan to shanshan.
Later on the show, Shen Danping publicly talked about her guilt for her eldest daughter, and also bowed to her on the spot to apologize, for her negligence and companionship, for the harm caused to her by her youth.
But my daughter's words: "It's okay" made people cry.
In her daughter's heart, she is still the best and most beautiful mother in the world.
Later, the eldest daughter got married, looking for an object, although Shen Danping was not very satisfied, but because it was the happiness of her daughter, she chose to respect and bless.
Nowadays, the eldest daughter Dan Dan and her husband have upgraded from a two-person world to a happy family of three, Shen Danping and Wu Wei have also become grandmothers and grandfathers, and their children and grandchildren are on their knees, enjoying the joy of heaven and earth, and they are not happy.
Want to ask after no regrets?
Shen Danping said that she never regretted her choice that year.
She is grateful to Uwe for her tolerance and support for more than thirty years, it is his company that makes him fearless, it is he who makes him so happy;
When she has a conflict with her daughter, it is he, the father, who acts as a mediator to ease the feelings of mother and daughter, and it is his company that makes their family always warm and happy, which she cherishes.
Of course, Wu Wei's love for Shen Danping has never changed.
He thanked her for her desperation, her bravery and persistence, which allowed him to have two beautiful and lovely daughters, and it was they who worked together to manage this happy marriage.
They turned the "transnational love" that was not optimistic at the beginning into a love story that was mutually complete and inseparable, and they were dealing with the romantic love words:
Since I met you in this life, it is better to go to the end for the rest of my life.
May you also be able to live with your beloved, love for a lifetime, and keep the white head.
Wen ‖ one by one
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