Speaking of love, some people love platonic long-term love, and some people like the passion of love at first sight.
Sun Nan, who was once a "brother in the music world", and buy red sister, a sketch actor who has repeatedly appeared on the Spring Festival Gala, include both in the same relationship.
In 2000, Buy Hongmei met Sun Nan for the first time.
Sun Nan proposed marriage on the spot, and bought a red sister directly agreed, at this time the two had known each other for less than 24 hours.
But in fact, Sun Nan has been in love with buying red sisters for 5 years.
If the two can look at each other, it must be a good story.
Unfortunately, after 9 years of marriage, Sun Nan insisted on divorcing the red sister for the host Pan Wei who married the third marriage.
Letting the red sister plead bitterly, he could not save Sun Nan's heart.
Once depressed, it took a full 4 years to get out of the haze.
It has been 13 years since the two divorced, what is the difference between the living conditions of Sun Nan and Buy Hongmei?
01.
In 1970, Mai Hongmei was born in Pingdingshan, Henan, and was a Hui ethnic group.
Her hometown is a Hui village in Henan, and Buy Hongmei is indeed her real name.
Affected by the family environment, Buy Hong Mei has been able to sing and dance since she was a child.
Especially when she was in elementary school, her parents moved their jobs, and she followed her parents to the Great Northwest.
The simple folk customs and singing and dancing atmosphere made her more fond of various art performances.
Just buy Red Sister is a very obedient and understanding child.
Her mother's wishes became her motivation for a while, until she became fascinated by the handsome soldiers in military uniforms on TELEVISION.
In order to fulfill her mother's wishes, in 1984, the 14-year-old mai hongmei was conscripted into the army without hesitation.
Watching the red sister bring back a brand new military uniform, watching her daughter put on the military uniform of the cool and heroic posture.
The mother was very touched, but with it came heartache.
The daughter is so young, going to the army alone to develop, is to experience a lot of unbearable suffering of ordinary people.
The only thing that pleased the mother was that the daughter went to the Northwest Military Region's Cultural and Labor Corps, that is, the literary and artistic soldiers.
However, even if it is a literary and artistic soldier, the life of the army is also very hard.
After the troops stabilized, Because she could sing and dance, she often performed with the literary troupe.
Watching the arrival of the cultural troupe, the other soldiers will always be warmly welcomed.
Infected by his comrades-in-arms, Buy Red Sister also began to perform hard.
It is only on the frontier of the motherland that they have to face the problem of altitude sickness.
During a performance, Buy Hong Mei felt dizzy, but she did not stop the performance.
After taking oxygen, she was back on stage.
For her, this is just the responsibility of being a literary and artistic worker.
02.
The simplicity and tenacity of buying red sisters made the leaders notice her.
During a condolence performance of "Female Soldier Variations", a sketch actor suddenly had diarrhea and could not go on stage.
Buy red sister was pushed on the stage, after a simple rehearsal, there was actually a good effect.
After this, Buy Red Sister suddenly found that she still had a good comedic talent.
In 1993, CCTV held a large-scale party for a long time.
Mai Hongmei collaborated with Wei Ji'an on the sketch "Little Nanny", which was her first time on the TV stage.
After that, she was transferred to the Second Artillery Literary troupe, and half a year later, with the help of Wei Ji'an, she decided to apply for the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts.
With her excellent grades, she was quickly admitted to the military arts.
When she first debuted, Shehong Mei also gave herself the stage name "Buy Mai Ti".
It just sounds too ordinary, and a little masculine, so she used her real name back to buy Red Sister.
03.
When buying red sisters shined in the spring evening, Sun Nan was still only a marginal role in the entertainment industry.
The acquaintance of the two is just a coincidence.
In 1995, Buy Hongmei debuted on the Spring Festival Gala and cooperated with Guo Donglin in the sketch "Something You Talk About".
At that time, Sun Nan signed a contract with Hong Kong Art Energy Animation Co., Ltd.
There are many artists under the company, Such as Andy Lau, Liang Chaowei, Guan Zhilin, Gu Juji and so on.
He Sun Nan didn't know how far back he was going to go.
When buying red sisters was all over the country, Sun Nan did not even sing in the mainland.
That year, he just stood with his family on the TV, pointing to the red girl who played the sketch on the TV to express his liking.
The following year, in the CCTV Quyuan Miscellaneous Tantan Program, Mai Hongmei cooperated with Han Lancheng in a series of sketches "Xinjiang Sister Maimaiti".
It was also she who used the stage name Maimaiti again, but she never used it again.
Sun Nan also released the single "Red Flag Fluttering" in the mainland.
In August of the same year, he signed a contract with Star Factory Music entertainment Company and officially entered the mainland market.
In 1997, Sun Nan finally got the opportunity to appear on the Spring Festival Gala.
Sun Nan, who is a little famous, met the red sister by chance.
In 2000, Sun Nan came to Shenyang to participate in the recording of the program "Century Happy City".
Buy Red Sister is the host of this show.
The first sentence of the two meeting, Sun Nan was like a little fan: "I like your sketches very much." ”
After the recording of the program, in order to fulfill the friendship of the landlord, the red sister took the initiative to invite the guest Sun Nan to have a meal.
During the meal, the two talked happily, and after a few glasses of wine, Sun Nan suddenly proposed to the red sister.
It changed from "I like your sketches" to "I like you".
Seeing this talented singer boldly show love to himself, especially knowing that he has been liking himself since 5 years ago.
Buying Red Sister didn't even think much about it, and a "good" expressed agreement.
By this time, it was less than 24 hours before the two of them first met.
In addition to being moved by his infatuation, she also thinks that this may be her husband in her previous life who came to her to renew the frontier.
Seeing that the red sister agreed to the marriage proposal, Sun Nan solemnly said: "Give me two more years, I will earn two years of money, and marry you with beautiful scenery." ”
Buy Red Sister and shake her hand: "No, I have money." ”
In this way, Buy Hongmei and Sun Nan got married in this year.
The term "flash marriage" doesn't seem to be able to describe how fast they developed.
04.
After marriage, the two of them had a very happy life.
Sun Nan is somewhat macho, but he was also very willing to sacrifice for love.
Although he had no money, he never gave his wife any less gifts.
Sun Nan would rather save money and use it herself than lose her wife to buy a red sister.
Buy Hong Mei is a Hui, and after being with her, Sun Nan has never touched pork again.
Even the eldest daughter born after marriage, Sun Nan let her follow her mother's surname and named her Buy Baoyao.
The father-in-law and mother-in-law also praised the son-in-law.
After Buy Baoyao was born, Buy Hongmei took her parents to live with her, and it was also convenient to take care of her daughter.
During a meal, Sun Nan peeled a shrimp for his father-in-law to eat.
The father who bought the red sister was even more shy than his daughter and avoided it.
Sun Nan seemed to have some strange "obsession", and chased his father-in-law all the way to the bedroom, and had to feed him a bite.
In 2002, Sun Nan's sixth solo album "The Sky of Fate", he once bought a red sister to confess at a concert, with the help of lyrics.
"The sky, the beautiful dreams, are different because of you." Your hand, if in my hand, is so good that I want to hold it for a lifetime without relaxing. ”
In the face of Sun Nan's "machismo" from time to time, there is also a way to buy red sisters.
Of course, the main thing is that she is willing to tolerate everything about Sun Nan.
When the two quarrel, buying a red sister must be the one who serves soft first.
Because Sun Nan is actually a particularly good coaxer, if you "screw" with him, his shaft strength will come up.
It was like he had to feed his father-in-law.
But as long as he is given a step, Sun Nan will definitely "go down the slope of the donkey", and his attitude will immediately ease down, and he will no longer quarrel.
In the face of Sun Nan's child-like personality, Buy Red Sister sometimes laughs that she is not a pensioner, but has raised an extra son.
Although the words are expressed in disgust for the husband, the tone is full of pampering.
Just buy red sister did not expect that her marriage was destroyed by a small golf ball.
05.
After getting married, in order to be able to run a good family, buying a red sister simply gave up a good career.
She took care of the family's large and small household chores, and after many years of marriage, Sun Nan had not even washed her socks once.
Golf is Sun Nan's favorite sport, and buying red sisters also supports her husband to occasionally play ball for entertainment.
But his obsession with golf doesn't seem to be solved by going "once in a while."
Unless it is necessary work, Sun Nan will take a lot of time to go to the golf course almost every day.
Therefore, the time spent with the red sister and daughter is much less.
Therefore, in order to let her husband take care of the family more, buying a red sister can not take care of the machismo who takes care of him.
When you have the opportunity, you must say a few words about him, which results in a vicious circle, which makes Sun Nan want to go to the stadium to hide in the quiet.
In 2007, Bought Red Sister became pregnant again, holding her stomach to help her daughter's homework and doing housework.
But at this time, Sun Nan had almost no time to go home, but not because he wanted to play.
His wife is pregnant and he is not still addicted to the court every day.
It's just that Sun Nan's career has finally reached its peak, and one announcement after another has left him exhausted.
When he got home, he was almost spread out on the couch, no longer able to move.
Ben already has a grudge against Sun Nan regardless of his family, and the pregnant red sister is naturally more angry when she sees her husband's appearance.
In this way, Sun Nan blamed Sun Nan for buying red sisters for not caring about home, and Sun Nan blamed buying red sisters for not understanding himself.
The gap between the two began to grow because of various differences.
In a later interview, Sun Nan once talked about his views on marriage.
He felt that two people had to have common interests and hobbies in order to go further.
The child was born smoothly, the days returned to calm, and Sun Nan slowly finished his work.
It's just that he wondered why such an understanding girl had become like this after having a child.
As a "macho" man, he didn't seem to think that this matter was related to himself.
06.
Sun Nan picked up his favorite golf again, and from time to time he went to play to relax.
During the game, Sun Nan met the famous golf host Pan Wei.
As a host, Pan Wei is naturally articulate and able to speak, although she has been divorced twice, but her figure remains very good.
And most importantly, she loves golf.
All of this has a fatal attraction to Sun Nan.
The two can play ball together, talk about golf together, and slowly start talking about work and life.
Finally, talking about feelings, Sun Nan found that he may be in love again.
When Buy Hong Mei discovered the ambiguity between the two, it was already too late.
She tried to win back her husband's heart, but Sun Nan took out most of her assets and filed for divorce.
Just as when Sun Nan broke up with his first girlfriend Xin Xin, he left his savings and car to Xin Xin, and only had three hundred yuan left on his body.
This time he was equally determined.
In 2009, the nine-year marriage came to ruin.
At the end of this year, Sun Nan continued to the next one and married Pan Wei.
And buy red sister for a whole 4 years have not been able to get out of the haze, 4 years have not seen friends, turned off the mobile phone did not take a phone.
It's just that she knows she still has two children and has to make a comeback to make money.
The restart of the career is still relatively smooth, but the ex-husband Sun Nan suddenly sued her in court.
07.
Although it was clearly written in the divorce agreement that "Sun Nan gave up custody", Sun Nan still stood up:
"The ex-wife, Mai Hongmei, was too busy with work to take care of a pair of children and demanded that the custody of the children be taken back."
At the same time, various social media suddenly began to report on buying red sisters.
She said that she was ambiguous with people before the divorce, and also listed several so-called people who bought red sisters.
However, these so-called "lovers" have come forward to clarify, indicating that they do not have that kind of relationship with buying red sisters.
These are all fine, but for buying Red Sister, the most fatal thing is that someone wants to take custody of her two children.
At the most difficult time, buying Red Sister strolled along the river, once wanted to live lightly, but she could not rest assured of the child.
After several years of litigation, Buy Hongmei decided to reconcile, and the two raised the child together.
After a wrench, the son was raised by the mother and the daughter was taken care of by the father.
As a result, a few years later, Sun Nan was revealed to have sent him and the daughter of the red sister to learn the cultural customs of the.
However, he and Pan Wei's daughter were sent abroad to study.
Although Sun Nan said that her daughter did not learn from those craps, it was only because she liked to play games and did not learn, so she sent her to learn "traditional culture".
But the school they sent Baoyao to was shut down for violating the law, which seems to be very telling.
In any case, although Sun Nan has been able to appear on the Spring Festival Gala for many years in recent years, there has been no popular song to appear again.
His career has indeed been greatly affected.
On the other hand, buying Red Sister, once gave up her career for the family, but soon found her state after her comeback.
In 2010, he filmed "Yang Guang's Love Story", and in 2011, he partnered with Guo Donglin again to appear at the Spring Festival Gala, starring in the sketch "Are You Happy".
In 2012, "Beijing Meets Seattle", buying Red Sister entered the big screen for the first time.
In the same year, he participated in the 18th National Congress tribute film "We Are Relatives".
After that, various TV series and movies continued,
If she wants to, her career can go back to its peak.
It's just that today's buy red sister has seen through life.
She slowed down her work and after coming out of the haze of divorce, she began to learn to enjoy life.
I also decided to take more time to spend with my children.
Divorced for 13 years, buy red sister also learned to put it down.
In the past, she once wanted to cut off all contact with Sun Nan, but now, they can chat as often as friends.
It's just a kid talk, they can all talk on the phone for 40 minutes.
As for the feelings, there was news that the red sister had a new relationship, and the boyfriend was called Sun Yulun.
But buying red sister did not admit it, and it is impossible to determine whether it is true.
But no matter what, buying red sister is really good now.
Sun Nan and Pan Wei are already more than half a hundred years old, and their appearance is no longer there.
However, the two still often attend events together and look very affectionate.
Although Sun Nan once abandoned the red sister, but now the two can be regarded as their own well.
I wish Sun Nan and Pan Wei can grow old with white heads, and I also wish that The Red Sister can spend the rest of her life happily.