Text/Monday Sauce
What does good love look like?
Some people say: As soon as I think of spending the rest of my life with you, I am full of expectations for the rest of my life.
Some people also say: I like you very much, like the wind has gone eight thousand miles, regardless of the return date.
In this era of rapid road, some people pursue the right door, and some people yearn for the soul to cherish each other.
But without exception, the premise of any long-term, comfortable relationship must be able to be at ease with yourself. This is something I am more convinced of after watching the afternoon song "I want to fall in love with you through the mountains and mountains".
"I want to fall in love with you through the mountains and mountains" is an autobiographical novel, telling the growth love story of the male protagonist Su Qin and his wife Wang Xiaoding, easy and funny and full of warmth, after reading can't help but make people full of expectations for life, super want to fall in love.
1 Some acquaintances are caught off guard
Su Qin and Wang Xiaoding, senior sisters of the same university, met at a sports meeting.
"What Ding" classmates have a wind on the soles of their feet, short hair, a pair of snow-white long legs shining in the sun - at HKUST, it seems that I have not seen such a sassy girl for a long time, and in the hot dusk, I only feel that a white raw "big ice cream" appeared in front of me.
"White and athletically gifted" was Su Qin's first impression of Wang Xiaoding.
As a cadre of the student union, Su Qin naturally will not let go of this good seedling who loves sports. The story of Bole and Maxima unfolds.
He recommended her to the sports department, and she dutifully became his right hand man, and in the student council, the two became good buddies and good partners.
At that time, Su Qin had a long-distance girlfriend, a gentle southern girl with a good family and a beautiful person. The two are thousands of miles apart, and rarely have the opportunity to meet, but in order to please his girlfriend, Su Qin can be described as painstaking.
Cook phone porridge, save food and drink to buy tickets, and surprise your girlfriend's birthday. Once, in order to buy gifts for his girlfriend, he also asked Wang Xiaoding to give reference opinions.
However, at that time, they did not expect that after many years, fate would push the three people in an unexpected direction.
2 Some fates are predestined
The twist of the story takes place when Su Qin graduated.
In order to make love blossom and bear fruit, he deliberately found a job in his girlfriend's hometown of Ningbo, but when he thought that everything was about to settle, the relationship between the two was rifted.
Once, his girlfriend took Su Qin to see his parents and specifically told him that he should not tell the truth when he was asked about his family situation. But in the end, Su Qin still made the ghost make God confess the truth to the future parents-in-law: his mother's poor health has long since retired, and his father has failed to go to the sea to do business and has no income.
As a result, the elders were not satisfied with the future son-in-law.
In this way, after the two had a big fight, the two hearts gradually drifted apart, and finally went to the end of breaking up.
However, even so, Su Qin still chose to stay in Ningbo, move forward alone, and run to a new life, but he was hit by reality.
Until one day, Wang Xiaoding called, which brought a glimmer of light to his dark life.
Wang Xiaoding said that his work was not settled, and he wanted to run to him, perhaps, At that time, Wang Xiaoding just casually said it, did not think, but Su Qin put it in his heart, helped her submit her resume, Zhang Luo's residence. Just like at the beginning, when the two were in the student union, Wang Xiaoding did his best to help him solve the problem.
And this kind of selfless mutual care also laid the groundwork for the feelings of the two people.
In this way, Wang Xiaoding arrived as scheduled, and the two people who worked hard in different places got closer and closer, and finally cultivated positive results.
Sometimes, feelings are like this, without the intention of planting willows, but willows.
At that time, they had no house and no car, lived simply, and even had some coldness, but unlike their predecessors, even if it was difficult, Wang Xiaoding did not let go of his hand, but gave him the company of not abandoning, sincere and warm love.
3 The most comfortable relationship in a relationship is one that allows you to be yourself with peace of mind
Chai Jing once said in "Seeing": "Love is the attitude of a soul to a soul." ”
Su Qin and Wang Xiaoding's love is like this.
They will not give up lightly because of each other's family situation, nor will they be disgusted by each other's momentary frustration.
Their feelings were a fateful encounter. Their feelings have three points of fate, and there are seven points of righteousness, which is the heart-to-heart exchange of "exchanging my heart for the heart of the king, not failing to fail, and thinking of each other", and it is also the suffering of "soaking with each other, sipping with wetness", and it is also the inseparability of you to chase after me and go to the long road of life.
No matter when, no matter where, they can be at ease in front of each other.
This is the difference between the ex and Wang Xiaoding, and the reason why the direction of the two relationships is completely different.
Although the ex loves Su Qin, she admires his talent and affirms his ability, but she cares about his origins, can not accept his shabby family, their relationship, can only stay in the glitzy world of desire and chase on the surface, but can not touch the inner soul.
Wang Xiaoding's love for Su Qin was just the opposite. She does not care about his family situation, accompanies him to face frustration, consistently encourages him to pursue his dreams, and reminds him not to forget his original heart and stick to himself. Their relationship is not mixed with any worldly definition, but a pure dialogue of soul and soul.
Good love always allows you to be yourself with peace of mind.
In the relationship, the most comfortable relationship, the same is true.
Because this kind of love is not simply exuding the charm of temptation, but richly growing each other's minds. Tolerate each other, grow together, and face the ups and downs together.
More importantly, such a relationship allows each other to discover each other's advantages in getting along day after day, rather than amplifying the shortcomings.
Such feelings will not live up to time, and they will not fail you.
May you meet someone who can make you feel at ease to be yourself after the wind and dust.
Accompany you from the sky breaking, to the twilight snow white head.
Author: Monday Sauce, a girl who wants to drive a caravan to the end of the world, may we become friends.