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Recently, Li Yapeng and Li Yan, the daughter of his ex-wife Faye Wong, have attracted the attention of the majority of netizens. Because this girl who originally wore the aura of her parents' stardom, because she posted a set of swimsuit photos on social platforms, it caused an uproar.
Li Yan's group of photos can attract so much attention, on the one hand, the photos are indeed a bit subversive of the public's thinking. On the other hand, it has a lot to do with the time when she released the photo. Because his father Li Yapeng has just released the official announcement of marrying and having children with his second wife, Hai Ha Jinxi.
The public's understanding is that Li Yan's behavior seems to be "declaring war" on her father. Because her father's new wife, the son of the second child, seems to have seized her position in her father's mind, which is like the normal reaction of an adolescent girl to such a thing as her father's remarriage.
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Before Li Yapeng remarried, Li Yan was the favorite in his life
Li Yan is the daughter of Li Yapeng and ex-wife Faye Wong, and this child was detected in her mother's belly and is a "different" child. However, based on their own beliefs and love for the child, Li Yapeng and Faye Wong decided very firmly from the beginning that they would give birth to this child.
After Li Yan was born, her parents used the most advanced medical technology to treat her cleft lip and palate, and although she had undergone several surgeries, it was still obvious that she was still very different from other children. However, thankfully, although Li Yan has facial defects, she is a very healthy child.
Her psychological growth was not affected in the slightest, because her original family gave her enough love to make her exude a strong self-confidence all over her body.
Mother Faye Wong said in an interview that she felt that her daughter was beautiful and beautiful, and there was no problem at all. She welcomed such a daughter into her life from the bottom of her heart, fully accepting her imperfections.
Dad Li Yapeng told Li Yan that when someone looks at her with surprise, don't hide, let her return the sweetest smile to others.
Grandma told Li Yan from childhood that Emily and her sister look different? Xiaoxue is also different from Lin Lin, everyone in this world is different, so you are also very different from others.
The elder sister, Dou Jingtong, is said to have tattooed a long line on her face in order to also look different. She told her sister with her actions that everyone has their own characteristics and does not have to mind the eyes of others.
The love and care of the whole family makes Li Yan's heart full of sunshine. Every time she appeared in public, she was very confident.
Li Yan shared with netizens the dressing room of Tianhou's mother, incarnated as "Teacher Li" to teach everyone how to make up, firmly telling everyone: "I am beautiful".
Walking on the catwalk in children's clothing, Li Yan's pace is angry, and the aura does not lose any supermodel. On the cover of a fashion magazine, Li Yan smiled like a flower and fell generously.
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Li Yan, who is confident and generous, was defeated by her father's "second child" this time?
A little girl who was pampered and raised, and the love of her parents made her live a very happy life and grow up very well. This time, my father remarried, and I don't think it will cause a big blow to Li Yan. After all, she is also a relatively mature big child, and it should be easier to understand for parents to pursue the life they want.
However, the birth of Li Yapeng's second fetal son may really have a little ideological impact on Li Yan, and I think Li Yapeng at this time is helpless, after all, the child has reached puberty, and many parents will also have helpless and headaches.
Because parents remarry, for many children, it means that their original family is broken, but at least the father is still his father, the mother is still his mother, and their love is still there. However, the emergence of remarried children by parents has become a substitute for their own position in the minds of their parents. Therefore, it is understandable that Li Yan is a little sad.
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Adolescent children like to go off the beaten path
Of course, because of the verbal criticism of a group of photos, I think the majority of netizens do not have to care too much. This may be another manifestation of Li Yan's confidence in herself. We can't accept it, probably because she is still a child, and this practice is indeed a bit contrary to our ordinary people's ideas.
However, let's think about it, Li Yan is the daughter of Tianhou Faye Wang, and she does not take the route of ordinary people, which is also a normal thing. What's more, she is still a girl who has just entered adolescence, her thoughts are easy to rebel, and she likes to do things that make parents very headache, and many parents have similar troubles.
There are adolescent children in the family, parents should pay more to guide the child's smooth life on the right track. Adolescent children, said big is not big, said small is not small. No longer as obedient as when I was a child, I have my own ideas, but I don't have fully mature ideas, and I often do things that feel incredible.
In the face of adolescent children, parents should give a little more tolerance and understanding.
I don't know if Tianhou Faye Wong will jump like an ordinary parent when she sees the photos released by her daughter, I think it will not be. Even if we ordinary parents, in the face of such behavior of children, jumping like thunder will not have any educational significance, and may attract more intense rebellion from children.
We treat adolescent children, first of all, we must admit that they are close to adults, to give him a little more tolerance, understanding, respect, children are willing to communicate and communicate with us. When children feel the sincerity of their parents, they may be willing to make some changes for the wishes of their parents.
Therefore, parents please remember that adolescent children, the most taboo to use scolding education, there are words we have to say well.
Adolescent children, parents should gradually guide their children to have a sense of responsibility.
Responsibility is the best thing for an adult to restrain himself, such as working hard, otherwise his family will go hungry, such as obeying traffic order, otherwise he will face danger to his life.
Therefore, adolescent children often do something out of the ordinary because their sense of responsibility is relatively poor. We guide the child to start from life, cultivate him to be responsible for his own affairs, and the child's sense of responsibility is the internal driving force that restricts himself.
May all youth bloom, spend a flower-like youth, and become what you like.
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