How can we accurately judge whether a person is hypocritical or real, whether a person is really capable, or whether the calves are flying all over the sky?
Quite simply, you open your eyes and look at how this person does things, and this one point is enough.
Especially when you are faced with a choice, or want to make a choice, see this point clearly, and the hidden dangers and risks will be greatly reduced.
Emotional relationships are even more so, a wise man will not marry a vase woman, and a wise woman will not marry a vase man.
Facing life and looking forward to life, you will one day come to a truth:
"As an ordinary person, only real people and things can make your heart really solid."
01
These days, there are more questions about Taurus in private messages, which may be because I haven't written Taurus for a long time, but after looking at it, many friends are not very optimistic about Taurus' feelings.
It feels that Taurus is not very pleasing, after all, many friends' views are taurus stuffy, stubborn, slamming doors, can not understand normally and can not get along normally.
We do not say that it is virtual, people and people together, will one day see each other's shortcomings and advantages, then:
When one of the parties' needs cannot be met, or when it feels hopeless to be satisfied, people will start to get restless.
This kind of inner restlessness will affect people's eyes and thoughts, for example, most people will stare at each other's shortcomings at this time, feeling that they can't get over this hurdle, at this time, some of the advantages of the other party may be ignored, or demoted.
We have to admit that this is the common sense of human beings, and no one is truly tolerant.
Many times people's words and actions actually have only one purpose, that is, for themselves.
Objectively speaking, when we stare at the shortcomings of others and can't get by, don't we have our own shortcomings? What's good about yourself?
What a joke, no matter how arrogant you can't be arrogant to this point, to be fair, with the heart!
02
Except, of course, for vases!
To put it bluntly, if a person's value is a vase, then there is no need to say anything, there is no meaning.
I am a practicalist, the most hated and resisted is those bells and whistles are not real people and things, the mouth is crazy, actually have no ability, there is nothing in the stomach, there is something on the mouth, when doing things, it is called a mess, I meet this kind of person directly flashing people, listening to more words my ears will be moldy.
Based on this characteristic, I especially like real people and things, at least with such people to get along and work together, you have a spectrum in your heart, he also has a number in his heart, this is called reliable peace of mind.
As a result, it was no accident that I dealt with earth signs a lot, such as Taurus, and I really felt wronged by this constellation, especially some good Taurus, Taurus who could not express it.
If taurus's heart is really sure of a person and wants to be good to a person, they will not express it much, they will directly do it, to pay, so it seems a bit stuffy.
Taurus's logic is actually very simple: "I want to be good to you, that is really good, unintentional to be good to you, that is also really not to pay." ”
After all, it is a fixed house constellation, and the result of the connection between thinking and behavior is also fixed.
03
I have a Taurus friend who is very typical, I think he can represent the vast majority of Taurus, and one of the most common things we both do is probably unacceptable to everyone, we both like to sit on the grass or on the top of the mountain in a daze, or think about something.
Many times when the two of us get to a piece of wood, sitting on the top of the mountain, stuffy, people see and think that the two neuropathies, after eating something and saying something, half a day has passed.
There's a detailed problem here, I call him, he'll come out, he won't ask anything, he calls me, I'll go out too, but when someone else calls him, he won't go out.
According to his own words, "When others call me, it is basically no good, I am afraid that I will have to borrow money or something." ”
As soon as this kind of words are spoken, you will think that he is a money fan, but in fact, he has a large handle, and the Taurus woman will be a little more delicate.
A lot of times he likes to be alone, he likes the idyllic life, and the two of us are actually similar.
But I remember a thing, 16 years ago, at that stage I felt that life was very dark, because of a period of emotional pain, he was not there at the time, went to Japan to play, and then sent a message feeling that I was not right, I said a few words to him briefly.
Later, when he came back from Japan, he brought me a guitar, more than nine thousand, almost ten thousand, and his salary was only in his early forty thousand, and there was no surplus.
I asked him what he was buying this for, and he said nothing, and then I heard him say, I've heard me say I like guitars before.
04
To be honest, I was very touched, of course, on the other hand, he was not like this when he got along with others, and I have heard friends around me more than once say that he is good at picking doors, and sometimes he goes out to eat and AA system.
In fact, many Taurus are similar to his state in real life, and there are no more than two friends on the heart.
The interpersonal circle is not big, not because of anything else, but because the Taurus is demanding.
For example, it feels that people are hypocritical or something, too fake, superficial set behind a set, meaningless relationship, so they will not discuss the heart, take a superficial cutscene.
In fact, from another objective point of view: this state of the Taurus just shows how serious and important they are about the relationship.
Friends are like this, so are feelings, he puts a person in his heart, but if he lets go of this person, others will not be able to enter.
Although not good at expression, but will use action to pay, on this issue Taurus logic is actually quite contradictory "I am good to you is good to you, I am willing, what is the use of saying?" ”
If you are good, you will be good if you are not good, not good for you, and it is also a white word, which is quite a real logic.
This logic also manifests itself at another point in the Taurus, such as the Taurus quarreling but not arguing with others.
Especially when I first experienced this kind of thing, I often reacted to what I wanted to say and how I wanted to resist after the argument, but it was too late.
05
Late no way, you have to hold it in your heart, and then you will have a way to meet it later, and the things that are held in the stomach of the Taurus are basically because of this logic.
To put it bluntly, taurus itself thinks that there is a relationship with you, that you are worthy (need to be tested), then the relationship is no problem, if you are not worthy, then there is no need to have a relationship.
There is also a point of stubbornness, the Taurus is very stubborn, but there is an advantage, they can understand the reason, but also willing to think, to think, but the face can not be pulled down.
So you actually just need to guide them with your heart, and they can get out of the stubborn circle, they belong to the peach, not the walnut.
Of course, we also have to say that the normal Taurus is indeed real, don't look at them bored, more guidance and guidance.
And some low-level taurus, the taurus that does not have a clear understanding of themselves is not the same, selfish, thick mouth is the most important performance, we encounter attention to screening, encounter this kind of taurus, do not expect anything.
Finally:
Taurus' feelings, like their own emotional consciousness, need to be maintained with strength, and the most resistant thing is the vase.
In fact, in the relationship, no one is perfect, look at each other's efforts, each other's strengths, the other party will also treat us in the same way.
No kidding, even if there are two identical you in the world, you have to admit that two of you are also not good.
Picking someone else's thorn is the same as picking our own thorn, pricking others and stabbing ourselves, and the gain is not worth the loss.
May the king cherish the people around him and encourage him! Warmth is mutual, as is indifference.
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