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Nowadays, many people talk about Yang Kun, and they say the most,
It was he who once commented that "Andy Lau is not a singer in the strict sense".
Some people say that just because of his evaluation of Liu Tianwang,
As a result, Yang Kun's musical path after that slowly declined.
Yang Kun is a native of Baotou, Inner Mongolia, and his entire childhood memory is filled with countless steels.
Both of his parents worked in the steel mill, and the family didn't have any artistic flair.
It just so happens that this child has a special love for singing after he grows up.
"Sing what to sing! Sing your studies again and you'll be ruined. ”
This is the number he heard most often when he was in school.
His parents did not want him to sing, thinking that singing was a waste of time and delayed his study.
However, after going to middle school, Yang Kun, who was gradually getting older, also had rebellious emotions.
But the parents' words finally came true.
At the age of 15, some of my classmates around me were admitted to college.
He could only put on his overalls like his father and walk into the steel factory.
It was the end of the eighties, and the position of the working class was no longer what it used to be.
At that time, it was popular to go to university, and it was not good to go abroad or go to the sea to do business.
He rides his bicycle around the factory every day.
In two years, from electrician to welder to riveting, none of the jobs have persisted.
In the workshop, the most heard by the surrounding workers was his humming.
At that time, the television set has gradually entered thousands of households.
From the television, he already knew what the singing world was like outside.
But his parents still often counted him down, and they knew how to sing all day long!
If you continue to sing like this, you will not be able to keep your rice bowl.
Indeed, at that time, many domestic steel mills that guaranteed drought and flood protection were transforming and restructuring.
If you lose your job by singing all day because you don't do your job, it really doesn't pay off.
However, the young man was so strong that he was unmoved by what his parents and the people in the factory said.
When he was 17 years old, the whole unit held a singing contest, and Yang Kun did not hesitate to sign up.
In the end, I was lucky enough to mix a first place.
Although it was only an amateur competition held in the factory, it still gave him a lot of confidence.
It's just that on this confident singing road, I soon encountered "Cheng Biting Gold".
One day after work, he suddenly noticed that the bike was missing.
A few co-workers quietly told him that you should go to the workshop and have a look.
He came to the workshop and found the leader standing there with a gloomy face.
Looking up again, the bike was actually dropped in mid-air.
Looking at this posture, he knew that the leader had been waiting for him for a long time.
The leader didn't talk much nonsense with him: if he sang again, the work would really have to be moved.
He didn't know that this was actually what his parents meant.
His parents just wanted the leaders in the joint factory to scare him, so that the boy could "get lost and return".
But this lamb in their eyes has grown up.
He did not answer the leader's words at all, unloaded the bicycle, and left without turning his head back.
Only one of the leaders was left to shout in vain in the workshop.
This time, instead of scaring him, Yang Kun "intensified" on the road of singing.
After that, not only did he sing in the factory, he also inquired everywhere, and there were singing activities in other places, and he would definitely participate.
Seeing that this child did not listen to dissuasion at all, although the parents had a headache, they could not do anything about him.
At the age of 18, Yang Kun's life ushered in a turning point.
The local armed police cultural and labor corps wanted to recruit literary and artistic soldiers, which made him very happy.
Having previously trained and won a place in the competition, he successfully entered the barracks.
It was just that in the monotonous and harsh troops, his uninhibited heart could not be quieted down at all.
He was assigned to the military band, and his main task was to play the saxophone.
In the eyes of your parents, since you insist on singing and have already broken through to fame, you should insist on it.
Unfortunately, Yang Kun then began a series of acts of death.
There are regulations in the army that all literary and artistic soldiers cannot go outside to receive private performances.
Yang Kun did not take it seriously at all, and soon became acquainted with the dance halls and bars outside.
Sneaking out every night to sing, and earning sixty bucks.
Proud of this, he continued like this for more than half a year.
Suddenly, one night, before I could start singing on stage, I suddenly saw a familiar figure.
It turned out that the leaders of the regiment would check in the surrounding nightclubs from time to time to see if there were any soldiers sneaking out.
Seeing that he couldn't slip away, he hurriedly took out the sunglasses he had already prepared and put them on.
After that, he whispered to the host on the side, and then introduced me later, saying that I was Mr. Ouyang.
That night, "Mr. Ouyang" continued to perform.
The next day, the regimental commander came looking for him.
It turned out that during last night's inspection, the leader had already recognized him, but did not pierce him in person.
In this way, his private performance was stopped.
Although the life of the literary troupe was stable, he was not happy.
After retiring from the army, he left his hometown and went to Beijing with his dream and a few hundred yuan.
He was not from a science class, and there was no way in the vast capital.
He could only go to various bars to sing and live a life of hunger and fullness.
Due to the instability of his job, he occasionally had to return to his old career.
If you have an electrician, do it, if you don't, then go to Liba.
He did all the work of moving houses and delivering water.
Moreover, renting a house in beijing is his lingering nightmare.
No income means that renting a house will encounter various accidents from time to time.
During those years, he maintained a record of more than fifty moves.
Such a life can be regarded as a real consumption of his will.
Fortunately, at this difficult time, he met a girl named Snow White.
It was when he was 22 years old, and this girl from Inner Mongolia made him fall in love at first sight.
Once, he stayed all night downstairs in the rented house of Snow White.
In this way, bai xue took him in when he was at his worst.
Bai Xue has his own job, and he is still struggling to support his dreams.
But during that time, no one knew who he was.
Although he learned to compose music through systematic learning, and wrote "It Doesn't Matter" that later made him popular,
But in the early nineties, when he took the song out, any record label sent it with a blank stare.
While his career did not start in the slightest, he suffered further blows.
Because his vocal cords were damaged, he had to perform surgery as requested by his doctor.
For three months, this is the length of rest that the doctor has set for him.
In order to make a living, he just had surgery and ran to sing.
His voice was completely damaged, and from then on, a hoarse voice began to accompany him.
At that time, his parents did not look favorably on him singing, and it seemed to have become a curse in these difficult years.
And the more you try to struggle, the more nothing changes.
His relationship with Bai Xue gradually changed.
Because of the sudden intervention of another man, Yang Kun's self-esteem was seriously hit.
Especially if the other party is still a rich man, he can't stand it at all.
As a result, this relationship from the beginning of the end did not last to the end.
At the time of the breakup, Bai Xue also gave him a gold necklace.
Ben thought he would keep it as a memorial,
Forced to make a living, he quickly exchanged the necklace for money.
At this time, he did not know that his sinking days would take three years to end.
And it was Chen Lin and Shen Yongge who saved him from the abyss of no one.'s interest.
Chen Lin was already famous in the music scene at this time, and her husband Shen Yongge was a big guy in the music circle.
When he met the promotion of nobles, his unpopular "It Doesn't Matter" became his main song.
The voice that once made him unconfident became his logo later.
He signed Shen Yongge's Bamboo Book, launched an album, and sang the theme song for several film and television dramas.
Seeing that his career was thriving, the second twist and turn in his life course quietly came.
It was the fifth year after he became popular, and without warning, insomnia and irritability gradually enveloped him.
At this moment, he broke up with Shen Yongge, who had discovered him at the beginning.
Terminate the owner's contract, and face the problem of finding the next home.
Everything was clueless, and he had to secretly go to the doctor for help.
Six times before and after, he examined his body inside and out.
Every time the doctor told him, you are really not sick, very healthy.
But why do I still feel very lost? He always asked himself this in his heart.
The family began to count him down again, and his mother said that he was full of food.
There was nothing before, but there wasn't so much broken.
Now it is not easy to get a career up, but it is a pretense.
He could not refute his mother's doubts and remarks, after all, the doctor's examination was proof.
Only he felt that the state was not right, and he could only stop singing.
For two whole years, he had no idea what he was doing all day.
Until 2009, when he first found his Bole Chen Lin, after jumping from his home in Beijing,
He couldn't help but ask himself over and over again in his heart, is it hard for me to be depressed too?
During that time, he thought for the first time about going home.
Just go back to open a horse farm, ride and release horses all day, there should be no so much trouble.
Fortunately, the doctor who often saw the doctor suggested to him at that time, you should still go to the neurology department.
He went to a French doctor as suggested.
Doctors tested him and eventually confirmed he had depression.
At the beginning of the treatment, he went to the psychiatrist regularly, and he asked for eight hundred yuan an hour.
He cried to the psychiatrist, and his symptoms were still difficult to alleviate.
It's just that the symptoms of his illness are showing signs.
Leaving his parents' life for four years in his childhood planted the seeds of insecurity in his heart.
And before more than a decade of life in the North Drift, frequent moves and instability,
Gradually, the insecurity and instability in the depths of the heart are magnified.
In 2008, Yang Kuncai really made his home in Beijing.
Faced with this situation, the psychologist suggested that he cooperate with medication.
In the process of treatment, Yang Kun met the partner in his life.
It was the end of 2011, and his symptoms were still mixed.
At a gathering organized by a friend, he met a girl who was seven years younger than himself.
The girl's name is Xiaoya, and she is an intellectual who has studied economics and taken psychology.
The two men talked speculatively as soon as they met.
Friend Liu Dan is even more from it, saying that Yang Kun has a depression situation, Xiaoya, who has studied psychology, just gave Yang Kun a diagnosis and treatment.
After the party, Yang Kun drove Xiaoya to Wangjing's home.
After getting to know each other, Yang Kun was surprised that she was a girl who saw life very openly.
He began to take the initiative to ask the girl out, and also shared the newly written song with the other party.
However, Xiao Ya began to give him a "tightening curse", and the first thing that changed was his schedule.
Previously, in addition to insomnia due to depression, but also because of the habits he had developed over the years, his work and rest were reversed day and night.
Xiao Ya did not accommodate him, and her work and rest must return to a normal state before her body could be regulated.
He began to reluctantly force himself to return to a regular routine.
Xiao ya also personally supervised him, and even drove to ask him to go out for a run in the early morning.
Then the whole daytime time is arranged according to the regular schedule.
After just a few days, he couldn't stand it. Can't sleep at night, can't get up again in the morning.
He didn't want to insist, but Xiaoya told him that if you return to your previous life, it is actually torture for the relatives around you.
In this way, after a few months, his work and rest gradually stabilized.
Sometimes even if you sleep late, you will no longer have the previous situation of not staying home all night in the bar.
After a few months, his condition gradually stabilized.
And his feelings for Xiaoya gradually became clearer.
He wants to propose to Xiaoya, but fears rejection.
His friend Liu Dan specially organized a party, ostensibly to thank Xiaoya for conditioning Yang Kun's body.
In fact, Liu Dan deliberately said at the party that someone wanted to introduce Yang Kun's girlfriend.
A crowd of people just wanted to see Xiao Ya's reaction after hearing the news.
After the party, Liu Dan reassured Yang Kun to be bold and chase.
So, in the spring of 2012, he and Xiaoya officially came together.
A year later, Yang Kun took Xiaoya back to her hometown in Inner Mongolia.
And the feelings of the two people have gradually become public with his participation in "The Voice of China".
Only in the middle of the two people, there was also a girl named Tintin.
For the scandal, Xiaoya chose to believe the other half.
Today, Yang Kun has known Xiaoya for nine years.
Some people say that this relationship has long ended, and some people say that Yang Kun has secretly met others several years ago.
In fact, Yang Kun, who is about to turn 50 years old, after participating in "The Voice of China" a few years ago,
Developments in the field of music have been tepid.
From the time he had symptoms of depression, his singing career had been in decline day by day.
Therefore, Yang Kun's current lack of fire has little to do with his frequent comments on Andy Lau or "Thunder".
Moreover, having reached the year of knowing the Destiny of Heaven, what Yang Kun wants to do now is life.
Instead of squeezing your head and struggling like when you first came to Beijing thirty years ago.
For him now, if the fire is not hot, it may not matter.
However, what happened to his relationship with Xiaoya, the outside world did not know. Well, today is here, Jiajia hopes that each issue of the story can bring friends a little emotional thinking, like Jiajia please pay attention to me, to the article like collection recommended Oh, thank you we will see you in the next issue ~