The male ticket paid 120,000 yuan to please my mother, she did not appreciate it, and also opposed me to have his baby, and the reason behind it was warm and crying

01

Passing by a small park, Meng Lizhen was attracted by the crowd of sheep herders. She stopped to watch, only to see a dozen middle-aged and elderly women of her age stepping on the beat, turning, walking, and acting witty and playful.

Especially when doing the "whipping" action, the crowd erupted into cheerful laughter. Meng Lizhen could see the god, and she wondered if she would join in the future and officially open the retirement life of "my time is my master".

Meng Lizhen had just finished attending the retirement meeting held for her by the unit, and the flowers she was holding in her arms at this time were handed by the chairman of the trade union. After the ceremony, the unit originally wanted to arrange a car to send her, but she politely refused, saying that she wanted to take a walk to see the scenery.

In fact, it was her mixed feelings. Nine to fifty or thirty years, this logistics work, she has felt bored and tired many times, and has also jumped several times to find a broader world, and later dried to numbness.

On the day of retirement, the chairman of the trade union talked to her, and according to the regulations of the unit, when she reached the age of fifty, she had to retire. She can finally rest, no longer have to run every day, and can wholeheartedly take care of Lao Qin and Kaoyan's daughter Bei Bei. But her heart was so empty that she couldn't step on the bottom.

She didn't even know what to do tomorrow, whether she admitted it or not, she was not willing. With her abilities, if she hadn't been entangled in trivialities, she wouldn't be in her current state.

Alas, Meng Lizhen sighed involuntarily. At this time, someone in the team saw her, quit and trotted to her, it was He Xiaoying, a former old colleague, she retired a year earlier than Meng Lizhen, and the two of them were better when they were in the unit.

Now it is even more unusual, He Xiaoying's son Pengfei seems to be in love with Bei Bei. She hadn't officially asked Bei Bei, the young man's affairs were too variable, and she didn't say anything about it. It is not that there is anything wrong with Pengfei, it is that Meng Lizhen feels that the timing is not right, when to do something, can not be lost because of small.

He Xiaoying saw the flowers in her arms and smiled and asked, "Are you also glorious?" Meng Lizhen glanced at her unkindly.

He Xiaoying understood her thoughts: "Okay, don't bother." Tell you a good thing, make sure you listen to the slap and say quit. Listen well, your daughter-in-law, my future daughter-in-law, has! Ha ha! ”

"Got it? What's up? Meng Lizhen couldn't believe her ears.

02

He Xiaoying smiled and his eyebrows fluttered: "What else can I do, I am pregnant, my eldest grandson." Ah, yes, it's also your eldest grandson. You said that it was a coincidence that I happened to be idle at home, and you happened to retire, so that the two of them could get married quickly. With our two mothers at the bottom, Bei Bei must have given birth to a big fat boy for our family, ah no, big fat guy we are still as rare..."

Meng Lizhen's brain melon seeds buzzed. He Xiaoying's joy was like a thorn thrusting into the tip of her heart, and she was in pain, and her chest was swollen uncomfortably. She ignored He Xiaoying and turned around and went home.

The first thing she did when she entered the door, Meng Lizhen felt the phone and called her old wives Lao Qin and Bei Bei, asking them to hurry home. Bei Bei muttered at that end, and Meng Lizhen roared, "Immediately! Right away! ”

Twenty minutes later, Lao Qin and Bei Bei sat across from Meng Lizhen, and the two grandfathers looked at each other, unable to understand what evil fire she had sent today.

Meng Lizhen stared at Bei Bei, her lower abdomen was flat and tight, and then she looked at that small slap face, still as delicate as a flower. She's only 23, how... Meng Lizhen was upset.

Bei Bei was stared at with hair, and muttered and complained: "Mom, people are busy, you call back with a phone call, and you still don't let people express their opinions." You can become more and more hegemonic Ha, Cixi is about to become your sister. ”

"Less nonsense." Meng Lizhen stared at Bei Bei's stomach and asked, "What the hell is going on with you?" Pengfei said, what about you two, have it? Is it true? ”

Bei Bei teng blushed at the root of her ears, and her eyes for help turned to her father who was sitting next to her. Old Qin was also confused, the suddenness and irritation of this news completely exceeded his various speculations on the way to come.

Looking at Bei Bei like that, Meng Lizhen could no longer hold back the flame in her heart, and she suddenly stood up and pointed at Bei Bei and rebuked: "Qin Bei Bei, you better be honest!" ”

Bei Bei was waiting for an answer, when she suddenly covered her mouth and ran to the bathroom. Meng Lizhen fell on the sofa, and her heart hurt.

Bebe is the tip of her heart, her pride. The swaddling care is not mentioned, from the Bei Bei kindergarten, Meng Lizhen has taken out all her heart to cultivate her. She loves ballet, Meng Lizhen is not satisfied with the "big pot rice" of the Cultural Palace, and has been transporting Bei Bei to learn art for eight years in the wind and rain.

Bei Bei is in elementary school, talented, and the parent-teacher association teacher said to cultivate well. Meng Lizhen was extra attentive and tried to find various teaching resources, afraid of not fulfilling her responsibilities and delaying children with such good qualifications.

Although in high school, Bei Bei was once rebellious and resisted her mother's discipline. But these hurdles have passed, and Bei Bei lived up to expectations when she took the college entrance examination and was admitted to a 985 school.

The child has always been very motivated, and now she is preparing for the graduate school at our school, the competition is fierce, and she is planning to make up for her.

03

But Meng Lizhen never expected that Bei Bei would become pregnant at this juncture. How could she make such a low-level mistake, too childish. It seems that a flesh-and-skin pain is inevitable.

She can't let it go, affect the great future of her daughter, and let her years of careful cultivation be wasted.

Bei Bei came out of the bathroom, and Meng Lizhen said with a calm face: "Go to the hospital tomorrow." However, Bebe replied calmly that she was indeed pregnant, almost three months old. She and Pengfei discussed, immediately married and left a baby, after all, is a small life.

Meng Lizhen was anxious: "What about yourself?" You don't go to graduate school? Didn't you say that graduate school is the first step, and you still have to study for a doctorate below, and didn't you already aspire to be a doctor of law? Ten thousand steps back, even if you are not rare in any master's degree, you always have to find a job to stabilize in order to consider these things, right? ”

When the mother was sweating, Bei Bei was not moved: "The examination is still to be taken, you can take the exam a year later, or you can take the exam if you are pregnant." It's a big deal to take a year off from school, and now many people take their babies to school, and the system also supports ..."

"Support a fart!" Meng Lizhen couldn't bear it: "Do you know what it means to have a child?" Do you know what it means to be a mom? It means you're inseparable from. The child is crying and hungry to pee, you don't care? Do you care if your child gets sick? Also, you have to review, who does the child sleep with at night? ”

Meng Lizhen raised her hand to stop Bei Bei's rebuttal: "Don't say count on Pengfei, he is still a child." Don't say that pengfei has me, and no one can replace his mother. There is a child dragging you, how do you still take the exam, how do you grow, and how can you talk about good development? With my experience, don't you understand, if it wasn't for me..."

"If you weren't pregnant with me back then, you would have left work to study a long time ago, right, and when you came back, you would have mentioned the middle level, and you wouldn't have watched others take your place, and your ability would not be as good as yours.

Mom, you're not tired of saying these words, I'm tired of hearing them. I know you are not willing, but why don't you look for reasons from yourself, you have worked for thirty years, to say that there are no other opportunities, I really don't believe it. ”

Sure enough, the person who knows the best is the most accurate. The daughter's words were like a knife whizzing into Meng Lizhen's most sensitive nerves, she shouted "you you you" a few times, her lips were unable to speak, and let Bei Bei put on her coat and go away.

04

Sleepless nights.

The next day, the first thing Meng Lizhen did when she got up was to call her eldest cousin who worked in the gynecology department of the hospital, make an appointment for the operation, and then contact Bei Bei. At first, it was still through, and after ringing a few times, the other party simply shut down.

Meng Lizhen only felt a pain in her left heart socket. Insomnia for several consecutive days, she finally couldn't hold her breath and dragged Old Qin to He Xiaoying's house.

Before going, Meng Lizhen planned well, she was going to have a showdown with He Xiaoying, let their family dispel their thoughts, if He Xiaoying did not cooperate, she was not afraid to turn her face.

She couldn't let Bei Bei let go of her future, get into the trivia pile too early, and like her, she didn't wait for it to bloom and become a yellow-faced woman. The girl is still naïve in thinking about the problem, she is not confused, she has to put the general direction of life for her girlfriend.

That He Xiaoying is what she knows best, when she goes to work, she has to live and live a chaotic life, has no ambitions, is a little rich, and is most keen to study recipes and gossip about right and wrong. Can such a non-standard mother educate her children? Dream!

Entering the door, He Xiaoying's family was eating, and Pengfei was also there. Seeing Meng Lizhen's two mouths come to the door, He Xiaoying's mouth was already large, and he was about to grin behind the root of his ear. As she gave way, she took out the bowl with her hands and feet.

Old Qin glanced at his wife and said politely, That, mother, ah no, Pengfei, don't be busy... The second half of the sentence was cut back by Meng Lizhen's eye knife.

Peng Fei rushed over to make tea, and Meng Lizhen calmed her face and did not speak. The two families sat still, in an awkward silence.

Finally, Peng Fei couldn't hold back, coughed and said, "Aunt Meng, Uncle Qin, I know why your second elder came today." First of all, I want to make amends to your second elder. Bebe's things are all to blame me, I am older than her, I did not protect her well.

As for the children, I fully respect Bebe's opinion. Born or not, she decides. Bei Bei also consulted with me, seeing that she meant... Want to live, after all, is the crystallization of the love between the two of us. ”

05

Meng Lizhen's face was even more ugly, and Pengfei hurriedly got up and pulled something out of her bag and stuffed it into her hand: "Aunt Meng, this is what I have saved for two years of work, not much, 120,000, all here, I give it all to Bei Bei." Also, the project I designed won the provincial award, and there was a bonus after completion. Rest assured, I will be doubly good to Bei Bei. ”

He Xiaoying answered at the right time: "Old Meng, I know that you want your daughter to become a phoenix, and when you are a mother, you are the same, and I also hope that the children will develop well." Kewa has come, we can't always refuse him (her) to join our big family, right?

You see you have to be anxious again, Bei Bei and Peng Fei got married, the marriage room I am ready, she loves to live, do not love to live at home better, I three meals a day designated good service, give birth to a baby without her to bring, to ensure that she will not be half wronged. ”

Meng Lizhen exhaled from her nostrils: "Speak lightly! It is my daughter who suffers, and it is also my daughter who is delayed, is it that I have worked hard to cultivate a high-achieving student at a key university, and I have passed it on to your family? ”

He Xiaoying handed over a glass of water and smiled and said, "Old Meng, I will tell you the truth, you don't like to listen." Bei Bei and Peng Fei are both adults, and they have their own ideas and ideas. You said that when we elders have the final say, we can still do something, isn't there any support left behind?

Bei Bei gave birth to a baby, and it was up to her to continue studying. She doesn't take the exam, and I support it. She took the exam, and I immediately went to the top without a second word! Pengfei, me, and his dad were all backed by Bei Bei. ”

"And me, I'm also the backer, I'm still pro." Old Qin's words caused several people to laugh.

Meng Lizhen's face is stiff, He Xiaoying's voice outside the string she can not hear, people express very clearly, the two children in love is your love and my wishes, giving birth to a child is also their own decision, your own daughter is happy to find someone the man really has no position.

Meng Lizhen praised, and there was no result in staying any longer, pulling up Old Qin out of He Xiaoying's house.

06

On the way back, Meng Lizhen sighed. Old Qin exhorted, "Don't think of the problem as serious. Bebe's birth does not necessarily change their fate, on the contrary, even if they choose Dink, they may not be able to get ahead. It all depends on one's own efforts.

You have to think so, our girlfriend she is a girl, in the workplace naturally suffer losses, even if not born now, in the future life is not to consider promotion, salary increase, growth ah? Then you won't have a baby for the rest of your life? The children are older than the fathers. Even if you are kind, it depends on whether people appreciate it or not. ”

Old Qin said that she had long thought about it, it was the truth, but people always had to fight for possible opportunities. I think that when she was, she struggled to win the opportunity to get out of labor, but she was delayed by pregnancy, and there was no more after that, and there was no turn for her.

Watching others surpass her one by one, do her leadership, and command her, God knows how much she is lost and regretful.

Bei Bei has been pinned high hopes on her since she was a child, and a big reason is that she does not want the regret of that year to repeat itself in Bei Bei. Thinking of these things, Meng Lizhen remembered Bei Bei's smart and cute little appearance when she was a child, and her heart suddenly collapsed sweet silk. Alas, children are the debt of their parents.

She missed the opportunity because of the arrival of the girlfriend, regretted it, but she could not deny that Bei Bei brought her great hope and a lot of fun, and the girlfriend was the most precious existence in her life, and there was no one.

At that time, when she was extremely entangled, it was also the flesh-and-blood connection that made her finally compromise and accept reality. Comparing hearts to hearts, now it is Bei Bei's turn to be a mother, presumably similar to her mood at that time.

Just like Old Qin said, the daughter's road is still very long, let's be a pair of "bystanders", can help a hand, other times to watch from the side.

07

After a few days, Meng Lizhen was dragged by He Xiaoying to prepare for the wedding, and was also busy being pulled to dance a few circles of square dance.

That day, Meng Lizhen was learning a new action, and Bei Bei called and said that she was in the hospital and asked Meng Lizhen to hurry over.

Meng Lizhen was so frightened that her legs were weak, how did she run to the hospital? Isn't it staying up late and staying up badly and then bothering the baby? How can I be so careless?

When Meng Lizhen dragged He Xiaoying to the ward, Bei Bei was still asleep. Peng Fei stood guard on the sidelines, watching them come in, and hurriedly got up.

Meng Lizhen asked urgently, "What's going on?" How did you end up in the hospital? Is the child okay? ”

"Don't worry. Bei Bei is fine, she has just done an abortion, and the anesthetic has not yet passed. ”

yes? Meng Lizhen and He Xiaoying screamed at the same time. What is this called, now the young people are playing like a joke, saying don't squeak without squeaking, the two mothers are full of shock.

Meng Lizhen is a distressed girl's body, and He Xiaoying is a mixture of loss and heartache.

08

At this time, Bei Bei woke up. Meng Lizhen grabbed one of her hands and said, "Okay, why don't you want it again?" Don't tell your mom, she'll help you prepare something. ”

Bei Bei's eyes were red: "Mom, you are worried again." She said that she was not prepared for the baby, and she was also very entangled, but when her mother objected and asked to take her to the hospital, her reverse scales stood up again, pushing her to make a decision quickly.

Later, one day, she met a sister who was particularly good in school, was her idol, and has been living in the legend of her brother and sister. Unfortunately, when she graduated, she gave up the cultivation of her mentor and followed her boyfriend abroad to accompany her. However, it is difficult to find a suitable job in a foreign country, so I have to stay at home, and then I am pregnant one after another, and now I am a mother of three children.

Bei Bei said with some trepidation that her sister had changed, and her spiritual temperament and image were the same as those of the previous judgment. She was so surprised that she couldn't believe for half a day that this was the glittering goddess she once was. She didn't want to repeat her sister's mistakes.

She remembered her own mother's words, and she admitted that it was very realistic, but it was also very reasonable, in line with the trade-offs.

Whose life does not go through step by step in the process of trade-offs and trade-offs? The choice is instantaneous. She also wants to take advantage of the good times, learn more things, see the world more, and have more growth opportunities.

Meng Lizhen took Lao Qin home to make soup, and she turned around and went to the bathroom to bring a basin of hot water to wipe Bei Bei's face. Her daughter's tender pale little face wrapped around her palm, and she was both distressed and relieved.

She knew that even if her daughter chose the other side, she would eventually be willing to support it. Parents in the world have never been able to beat their children, because love is their weakness.

Now, Bebe has chosen the path that is most beneficial to her at the moment, although she has to suffer some physical pain, but it means that the child she raised in the palm of her hand has begun to mature.

She can be a "watcher", and she is relieved and at ease.

I hope that the girl will walk steadily and faster in her loving eyes.

- END -

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