Text: Xi Xihuan
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Money has a copper smell, so some high-level people feel that they can't talk about money in their feelings or when dealing with people, otherwise it will hurt the harmony with people and even affect the purity of this relationship.
However, our lives, the communication of human relations, and even the critical moments of medical treatment and life-saving, are inseparable from money, so there are many people who attach great importance to money.
Valuing money does not mean that money is the whole meaning of life, nor does it mean that you can do whatever it takes to get money, sacrifice the interests of others, or hurt others.
As the saying goes, a gentleman loves money and has a way of getting it, and there is nothing wrong with wanting more money, but if you do something unconscionable in order to achieve your goal, it is beyond the scope of moral constraints.
In this life, in fact, the wish is very simple, it is good to be safe and smooth, but the reality is not always so satisfactory, none of us can predict what unpredictable things will happen the next day, and no one knows whether the preparations made today are enough to cope with the unexpected situation of the next day.
So there are always difficult times, when people are in the trough, they want to get help from others, because the light in the dark is likely to become the key to pulling themselves out of the trough.
But you must also remember that even if you can't live a long time, even if you encounter great difficulties, even if you have a particularly large demand for money, you can't collect these two kinds of money, otherwise you are sorry for your conscience, and you are even likely to let yourself go astray.
01 Money that violates the moral conscience
Money is useful, in work and life, there may be times when money will help us complete a lot of goals, achieve a lot of wishes, with such an initial intention, many people will be more motivated when they make money at work.
However, not all the money is worth fighting for, because some money, although easy to come by, makes us feel uneasy.
Colleague Zhang Guanglin is a person who is eager for success, because of this, many people in the company are reluctant to deal with him, if they have to deal with because of business, everyone will also keep an eye on it, because he is the kind of person who regards his own interests as the most important.
Once, when working with the other customer, the supervisor called everyone to a meeting and said that the competitors were also very powerful and could not be taken lightly, and their biggest advantage was the low quotation, which allowed them to overpower each other in price.
However, just when everyone was determined to win, competitors actually knew their offers in advance, so they gave lower offers and got orders.
Everyone was very frustrated, obviously the secrecy work was done so well, and so much effort was made, but in the end it was such a result, and no one was willing to accept it.
By chance, everyone found that the original leaker was Zhang Guanglin, and the competitors found him, saying that if they learned of the company's offer and successfully got the bid, they would give Zhang Guanglin a sum of money in return.
Listening to the price given by the other party, Zhang Guanglin agreed almost without thinking about it, it was easy to leak secrets, and he did get a rich return afterwards.
However, there was no impermeable wall, Zhang Guanglin's behavior was soon discovered by everyone, he was fired, and the company finally decided to pursue his legal responsibility.
Upon learning of such a result, Zhang Guanglin wept bitterly and expressed regret, and he told the leader that he really had difficulties at home and told a lot of reasons.
However, everyone thinks that no one's life is easy, but this is not a reason to betray his conscience, Zhang Guanglin's life is bitter, it is not caused by the company, he can work hard to make money, he can think of many other ways, but he must not accept the money that violates his conscience and morality.
Maybe some people, like Zhang Guanglin, will find a lot of reasons for themselves, they are miserable, their lives are unsatisfactory, and even they have reasons to collect this money.
However, they forget that behind convincing themselves to make such a move, what is revealed is their selfishness and indiscipline.
A self-disciplined person, even if his life cannot go on, even if it is so difficult that he really can't think of a solution, he will never take the money that he should not take, because he knows that some money is taken and the problem is solved, but his conscience will never be at peace.
People living in the world, especially adults, always have to learn to maturely look at problems, we can't live too wantonly, especially in terms of money, because you don't know which time to take advantage, take the money you shouldn't take, it will bring you more trouble.
Therefore, keep your moral bottom line and restrain your behavior, so that you are truly responsible for yourself.
02 Money earned by attracting sympathy from others
In ancient times, when money had not yet been invented, people would barter to get what they needed in life.
After having money, it is also an equivalent exchange, and the remuneration obtained at work is earned by the labor they have paid.
Although making money is hard, but making money also has the joy of making money, when you pay time and labor to get the money you want, when you make money through yourself and the people you care about better, it is actually very fulfilling.
But some people are afraid of hard work, and they do not believe in getting enough money and benefits by their own ability, and people will want to take shortcuts when they can't ask for it.
Zhang Lei, a former high school classmate, is a very beautiful woman, but few people know that under her weak appearance, there is actually a deep heart.
From another point of view, there is no harm in being a little bit of a person, after all, many times your own interests must be considered, but if this mind makes use of others, it is not so glorious.
Zhang Lei's family is poor, and she has a heavy heart of comparison, she likes luxury goods, and she can't afford to buy it with her own little salary, and in the end she can only use others.
Sometimes emotionally ambiguous, she never establishes a formal relationship with a man, but likes to use her beauty to attract the attention of men who are interested in her.
In front of these men, she told her native family misfortune and wanted to use her misfortune to get the sympathy and pity of the other party.
Most of the men she selected had successful careers, so they were also generous, which satisfied Zhang Lei's material desires.
However, by attracting the sympathy of others, even if Zhang Lei is temporarily spent, for a long time, men will see her clearly, not only to recover all their good feelings for her, and even some men will ask her to return the money she spent.
I have to say that Zhang Lei's doing this is counterproductive, like money, there is nothing wrong with material desires, and the fault is that it should not use others.
We all hope to make ourselves and the people we care about better, so for such a goal, even if we encounter great difficulties, we must guard our conscience.
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