The life of gambling king Ho Hung-sun has long ended on May 26, 2020, but the story of the He family continues.
Although the second room blue qiongmiao has achieved a greater advantage in the war for property, the marriage luck of the children is relatively thin.
He Chaoqiong, He Chaofeng, and He Youlong all embarked on the road of marriage that year, paving the way for taking over the family business in the future. Only He Chaoyi insisted on becoming a star, and also "married" to the male star Chen Zicong.
Why does He Chaoyi not want to get married, preferring to marry a male star? Why could the gambling king accept He Chaoyi's "rebellious" behavior?
This is where He Chaoyi's cleverness lies.
Reason one: rebellious personality, unwilling to be restrained.
This also starts from He Chaoyi's personality.
The gambling king once said that He Chaoyi was the most similar to his child.
Of course, it refers not only to appearance, but also to personality.
Both are people with big ideas, bent on going their own way, and it is difficult to change their minds because of others.
Even if the person opposite is a gambling king, He Chaoyi dares to do it.
For example, the gambling king does not like his children to say dirty words, and He Chaoyi does not listen, and he also explodes in front of the gambling king.
The gambling king could only helplessly explain to the crowd:
My words, she is always accepting, the attitude is still the same.
After graduating from high school, He Chaoyi was sent by her family to Canada to attend boarding school.
In a foreign country she began to let go of herself. She does not listen to her teachers, often skips class and goes out to work, falling in love with boys at school.
Because she did not listen to the persuasion of her parents and insisted on free love, He Chaoyi was also subjected to her financial control by her mother Lan Qiongyi, but she still held her neck down.
The brothers and sisters are studying seriously, but He Chaoyi is busy in love and part-time work.
It is conceivable that in the end, He Chaoyi became the least educated of the 17 children of the gambling king, and was ridiculed by the media.
However, according to He Chaoyi's personality, it is enough to send a text to go back.
In fact, He Chaoyi has always been a "non-surprising and endless" personality, even if it is three rooms and four rooms, she is still ruthless.
For example, when the media asked her about the three and four rooms, she directly shrugged it off:
What three too four too is the outside world's saying, those little three four are just my dad's girlfriends.
He also said that he had his own brother and did not know He Chaolian, He Chaoying, and He Youjun.
This remark made the third and fourth rooms itch to the teeth, but they could not think about it.
Sharp teeth and sharp mouth and not good for school, what does He Chaoyi want?
In fact, she wants the same as her eldest sister He Chaoqiong - to enter the entertainment circle and become a big star.
He Chaoqiong wanted to enter the entertainment circle that year, but the gambling king obviously did not want his daughter to "not do the right thing", and he inserted a foot at the end and pulled He Chaoqiong back to his side.
It is conceivable that He Chaoyi's dream will definitely make the gambling king unhappy, but in the end He Chaoyi still insisted.
▲ The red coat was only worn with one hand.
In the entertainment industry, He Chaoyi also belongs to the "alternative" personnel, especially in the early stages of his debut.
For example, wearing strange clothes (in the eyes of the world) and combing messy hair to perform on stage.
Because he had never systematically learned to sing, He Chaoyi was also a "free play" at the beginning. Fortunately, with the guidance of big guys such as Mei Yanfang and Chen Baiqiang later, she gradually entered a better state.
Although you are a rich man, He Chaoyi is still full of hard work in the entertainment industry, starring in many large-scale works, which once made the gambling king very nerve-wracking but helpless.
Later, under the unremitting efforts of He Chaoyi, the gambling king finally recognized her career.
▲The gambling king presented the award to his daughter He Chaoyi.
In 1996, when He Chaoyi won the Most Promising Newcomer Award in Hong Kong and Taiwan and the Most Popular Award for the Annual Top Ten Golden Songs, the gambling king personally came to the stage to present her awards.
This can also be regarded as a "reconciliation" between father and daughter.
If he marries into another giant, He Chaoyi is bound to change his personality to cater to the other party. Rebellious, she will not change herself for the sake of her father, of course, she will not sacrifice her marriage (marriage) for the sake of the family, she does not like to pretend to be a lady, even if she is in the rich, she must express herself spontaneously.
Reason two: "marrying" makes He Chaoyi the dominant person in marriage.
Marrying Chen Zicong is different.
At the wedding of Chen Zicong and He Chaoyi, the gambling king once asked Chen Zicong in front of 250 guests on the spot:
You marry my daughter Chaoyi today, and you must remember the three from the four virtues in the future!
Of course, chen Zicong also came forward afterwards to clarify that this was just the humor of the gambling king:
In fact, this is the humor of the father-in-law, when the eldest sister He Chaoqiong and Xu Jinheng held the wedding, the gambling king had already said it.
Although it is most likely just a humorous word, Chen Zicong, who has entered a large family, must be underwhelming.
In fact, Chen Zicong's family conditions are not bad.
His father, Chen Zimin, was originally an accountant who emigrated to Melbourne and opened a restaurant.
Chen Zimin's marriage is also "high climbing" in the eyes of the world. Because of coincidence, he became acquainted with the Thousand Gold of the Taiping Biscuit Family and cultivated positive results.
In 1972, Chen Zicong was born in Hong Kong. However, he was brought to Australia by his parents when he was 7 months old.
His parents lived in a detached house of more than 500 square metres in Australia with a garden pool.
This condition is already very good in the eyes of ordinary people, but it is obviously not comparable with the He family.
▲ Chen Zicong when he was young, with long hair, he looked a bit like Takuya Kimura.
It is undeniable that although he is now fat and thin, and his appearance is also high and low, Chen Zicong was still very handsome at that time, and when he grew long hair, he was called "Hong Kong version of Kimura Takuya".
Because of his handsome appearance, Chen Zicong was photographed by a star scout in a bar at the age of 19 and made his debut.
At the age of 20, Chen Zicong began to work as a model. Since then, the career has also been full of potential, but the stamina is insufficient.
▲Chen Zicong and Mei Yanfang.
According to his own words, he is too "Buddhist" and doesn't care much about money:
Money buys things, I know how to make money to buy, my requirements for life are very simple. When I was young, I went to Thailand with my backpack on my back, and I could live for 100 Hong Kong dollars a week, and it didn't matter if I was poor.
So even if you enter the entertainment industry, you have also got some very good resources, such as being hand-picked by Mei Yanfang as the MV male protagonist. But Chen Zicong said that he would not shoot drama day and night like his good friend Wu Yanzu, and it was more important to enjoy life.
Therefore, after many years of debut, everyone is not deeply impressed by his works.
What really makes him remembered is his marriage with He Chaoyi.
After the two got married, Chen Zicong was obedient to He Chaoyi, the big lady.
Than how Chaoyi did not want to have children, Chen Zicong cooperated with Dink.
However, because Chen Zicong is handsome, even if he does not take the initiative, he will often appear on the cover of tabloids because of his physique of attracting bees and butterflies.
Every time he was photographed or written, He Chaoyi must be furious when he returned home.
For example, in 2006, Chen Zicong was photographed playing with 2 hot girls on the beach. Although the photo is very blurry, it is impossible to confirm whether it is Chen Zicong himself, but He Chaoyi immediately rushed home from the set after hearing about it, and asked Chen Zicong about the crime.
Finally, he said:
The man who dares to move me is moving the soil on the head of the too old! In the future, when a woman beats my husband's idea, I will definitely burn her hair!
When Chen Zicong married He Chaoyi in 2003, it seemed that there were signs of gaining weight. After marriage, it is even more galloping forward on this road.
When Chen Zicong was a guest on a variety show, the host asked him, who had debuted as a model, whether this physique would be disliked by his wife now, and he replied:
[My wife thinks] this SIZE is safer.
The implication is that he is fat or at the request of his wife, and uses fat to prevent attracting bees and butterflies.
Whether it was a "joke" or a "truth" this time we don't know, but the next time Chen Zicong is not so "lucky"...
▲ Chen Zicong appeared on the street in the middle of the night.
In 2009, Chen Zicong took a photo with a bikini beauty naked at the celebration banquet of the film invested by He Chaoyi.
That photo, coupled with the addition of oil and vinegar from the media, made He Chaoyi angry.
He Chaoyi, who wanted to get angrier and angrier, drove Chen Zicong out of the He family mansion in a fit of rage.
It was still the middle of the night, and Chen Zicong, who was carrying a large bag and a small bag, appeared on the street alone, and was still photographed, how embarrassing the scene was.
▲ In June 2016, Chen Zicong was photographed appearing in the building lined with the clinic accompanied by He Chaoyi, suspected of seeking medical treatment. At that time, the bulge in his abdomen was extremely unnatural.
However, He Chaoyi still loved Chen Zicong, and although he complained a lot about his flowers and grass, he forgave him not long ago.
Especially when Chen Zicong passed out in 2016 due to severe liver pain and was admitted to the hospital, He Chaoyi did not leave him.
After hearing the news, He Chaoyi immediately stopped work and rushed back to accompany her husband. While feeling sorry for her husband, He Chaoyi dropped a huge amount of money to accompany Chen Zicong to visit famous doctors.
After his physical condition improved, Chen Zicong is now not only obedient to He Chaoyi, but also grateful to Daide. It should be said that this life is only kept by the wife who throws money.
▲ Chen Zicong, who recently appeared in front of the camera, has a much smaller belly and seems to have recovered.
Looking back, if He Chaoyi had chosen to marry at that time, he would have more or less considered the two major families behind him before making any decision. If the husband is out there, he may not dare to love and hate as he does now.
After how Chaoqiong and Xu Jinheng got married, when Xu Jinheng was in trouble, for the sake of the common interests of the two big families, He Chaoqiong could only choose to be patient. In the nine years from 1991 to 2000, when He Chaoqiong unilaterally announced his divorce, the two were separated for 7 years. By the time the divorce procedures were actually completed, it was already 2007.
Throwing your husband out of the house without a word is even more unthinkable.
▲He Chaoqiong and Xu Jinheng.
If you choose to marry a rich family, then what you say and do must also take into account the faces of the two big families. Most likely, she can only be like her sister He Chaoqiong and He Chaofeng, a sensible, square big miss and strong woman.
Reason three: the heir of the family business is already in place, and He Chaoyi has little hope.
For large families, choosing an heir is not only a matter of "ability", "age" is also important.
The gambling king married a total of 4 wives and gave birth to 17 children, the oldest child He Chaoying and the youngest child He Chaoxin, the age difference is 52 years!
It is not that the children of the third room Chen Wanzhen and the fourth room Liang Anqi are not excellent, but they really did not catch up with the "good times".
When the gambling king chooses the heir, the children in the third and fourth rooms are either young or not yet born, and maybe even the children's mothers have not yet entered the door...
In the early years, He Youguang, the eldest son of Dafang Li Wanhua, and his eldest daughter He Chaoying had high hopes for the gambling king and were trained as successors. But later, with the death of He Youguang in a car accident, and He Chaoying's mental disorder and even early death, the entire succession plan was disrupted.
First, in 1981, He Youguang and his wife Suki suffered a serious car accident in Lisbon, Portugal, and died on the spot, at the age of 33.
He Chaoying grew up with his younger brother He Youguang, and the relationship between the two has always been good. The sudden death of his brother became the last straw that crushed He Chaoying. Under the blow of multiple factors, her mental state declined seriously.
He Chaoying's mental disorder lasted until her death at Sanatorium & Hospital on December 4, 2014.
In fact, around 1981, the big house Li Wanhua was basically out of the game in the matter of succession.
When He Youguang was in a car accident in 1981, the gambling king was 60 years old, and finding the next heir became an urgent matter.
(Later, the gambling king lived until the age of 99, and "abdicated" very late, of course, this is an afterthought)
The large room is in decline, the third and fourth rooms have not yet entered the door, and the second room has the opportunity to catch up later.
The second room Lan Qiongyi gave birth to a total of 4 women and 1 male, in order of He Chaoqiong, He Chaofeng, He Chaoye, He Chaoyi, and He Youlong.
When the "inflection point" appeared in 1981, He Chaoqiong was 19 years old and He Chaofeng was 17 years old. He Chaoyi is only 7 years old, and the youngest child in the second room, He Youlong, is only 5 years old.
Who to choose?
The gambling king pressed the treasure on He Chaoqiong and He Chaofeng, and the resources of the He family began to tilt significantly to the second room.
In order to make the family foundation of the second house more stable, the gambling king first chose a commercial marriage for the two daughters.
He Chaoqiong married Xu Jinheng, the crown prince of Zhongjian, and He Chaofeng married He Zhijian, the son of the Malaysian lord He Shoukang.
Later, As the "eldest son" of the gambling king in the actual sense, He Youlong also had high hopes, and married The Golden Luo Xiuyin of "Vitasoy" after becoming an adult.
▲ He Youlong and Luo Xiuyin.
He Chaoyi's husband, Chen Zicong, once told the media:
When I met Chaoyi, she was rebellious. She's a young girl, and her sisters are brilliant, so she's more stressed. She didn't like to help her father in business, she didn't like to be a lady, she was the black sheep in the family.
It is not difficult to see that the framework of the successor of the gambling king has basically been set. When He Chaoyi grows up, there are two capable sisters on it, and the probability of her being a "strong woman" is not very large, and there is also a male Ding Youlong in the second room.
Since this life will not lack money to spend and do not like to do business, and in the case of little hope of inheriting the family property, it is also a wise choice to choose to pursue "hobbies" and "love".
Will the gambling king support He Chaoyi's "marriage"?
As for whether the gambling king will support He Chaoyi's choice, maybe it will.
In view of He Chaoqiong's suffering, the gambling king has become more tolerant in the marriage of his children.
In 1991, 29-year-old He Chaoqiong married into the Xu family with a dowry of 1 billion yuan and the expectations of two large families. The 20 million Hong Kong dollar wedding lasted for 3 days. The on-site guests gathered to give enough decency.
However, the quality of a marriage is obviously not related to "financial resources".
This marriage is not what He Chaoqiong wants, after marriage, Xu Jinheng is still difficult to change the attributes of the wind, and he has little interest in his career, and the two can hardly find a common language.
On August 30, 2000, He Chaoqiong unilaterally announced her divorce, when she said this meaningful sentence:
We have been married for 2 years.
In fact, the two were married for 9 years, but for 7 years they were separated.
▲ In the Living Room of the He Family in the New Year of 1986, He Chaoqiong leaned next to Chen Baiqiang.
What hit Ho Chao-qiong even harder was that her best friend Chen Baiqiang completed her short life on October 25, 1993, at the age of 35.
At Chen Baiqiang's funeral, He Chaoqiong even completely disregarded the local custom of "married women cannot help the spirit" and insisted on supporting Chen Baiqiang as a "confidant". It seems that it was also in this year that He Chaoqiong made the decision to "separate".
(When the 21-year-old He Chaoyi debuted in 1995 for participating in "The Day Without a Husband", He Chaoqiong should have been separated from Xu Jinheng)
He Chaoqiong's frustration in love and unhappiness in marriage, the gambling king saw it in his eyes. Because of this matter, He Chaoqiong also complained about the gambling king.
There is no doubt that marriage can bring a certain boost to the family business, but if the premise is to sacrifice the happiness of the daughter, it needs to be weighed.
With he Chaoqiong's previous experience, and He Chaoyi has no "succession" plan, the gambling king is very tolerant of He Chaoyi's marriage and career.
For He Chaoyi, she made the most suitable choice for herself.
I don't like to be in business, and even if I try to sacrifice my marital freedom again and again, I don't have a good chance of inheriting a career.
It is better to grasp "hobbies" and "lovers" with both hands, and live a life in a dashing and elegant way, moreover, there will be no shortage of money to spend in this life.
Do you think He Chaoyi is smart? If it were you, what choice would you make?
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