You can't live only for others, but you have to know how to live for yourself.
Many people spend their lives thinking about others and living under the noses of others. As a result, they never thought about it, and lived the life they wanted.
There is no standard answer in life. Only what you think is the best and what suits you can bring happiness.
Don't care too much about what others think of you. Even at the age of sixty, you still have the right to pursue a happy life and live according to your own ideas.
You have given so much and given so much in life, so you must allow yourself to live a free and unfettered life, live up to yourself and owe yourself nothing.
After 60, the most glorious way of life is three things.
1. Dare to pursue the life you want.
People have passed sixty, although it is already the second half of life, but we still have to live the life we want, live the life we like, dare to fight for ourselves, and live for ourselves, this is the most sober.
Aunt Wu in "My Assistant is Not Simple" is sixty years old and is preparing to divorce her husband and move out on her own.
She said that she did not want to live a life of service to others again, but wanted to be selfish once again and live for herself.
So she divorced, rented a house, went out to look for a job, studied hard, asked questions if she didn't understand, always maintained a stable mood, and then thought about her life progress and found her own value work.
Sixty-year-olds are not old. While there is still time, we must dare to live for ourselves and pursue our own values. It's also a trick.
The highest way to live in life is to choose a good path for yourself, live for yourself once, live without regrets, and live wonderfully.
2. Do what you love and don't be afraid of what others will say.
If you can't do what you love in your life, what's the point of living?
People always have to do something they like in order to be energetic, motivated, and full of meaning.
Everyone has their own thoughts, and it doesn't matter what others say, we just live our lives.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said, we used to hope to be recognized by the outside world, but in the end we found that the world is us and has nothing to do with others.
Yes, how many people live the same life without knowing what the meaning of life is.
I would more or less blindly envy other people's lives, but I didn't know that I also had a lot of happiness.
How many people only care about what others say, but ignore their own truest feelings.
In fact, life is your own. You have to dare to live for yourself, live the life you want, and do what you love. As long as it makes you feel happy and joyful, then you won't regret your choice and you won't have to follow others. If others have to explain so much, don't let yourself live so compromised.
When people are over sixty, living according to their hearts is the highest state.
3. Walk more and stay healthy.
When a person passes 60, his body is actually gradually declining.
In the second half of our lives, what we pursue is good health. Only when we are healthy can we enjoy more blessings.
I remembered an old man in his seventies next door. This year his mental state has deteriorated, and he can no longer even remember who he is.
Every day after dinner, my uncle's wife actually went out for a walk, did sports on the court, and exercised. His wife is in very good spirits.
But the uncle gradually lost his good state, all because he was lazy and did not like to move around. Sitting at home all day, it's easy for him to get confused.
Now, his wife takes him out for a walk, just hoping that he can move more and get better.
When we are over 60 years old and embark on the road of aging, we must take care of our bodies and stay healthy in order to enjoy more blessings.
After the age of 60, the highest way to live is to enrich one's heart, maintain a good attitude, and have a young mind, so that you can live a happy life.
The most beautiful scenery in life is inner peace and calmness. The rest of your life is precious, so please live it well.