It's hard to get middle age.
Some people say that when people reach middle age, they will encounter many difficulties, and those who survive have directly taken countless people away.
Life is not easy, it is a process that needs to be overcome. When a person reaches middle age, especially the two years between the ages of 49 and 50, this is a crucial two years in life, and it is also a hurdle in life. Those who survive will be better off for the rest of their lives. From then on, it will be smooth sailing, but those who can't get through it will fall because of it.
When you are 49 to 50 years old, there will be many trials and difficulties in life. Some people are able to get through the difficulties and their lives will gradually get better. For some, they will not be able to get through it and their lives will become more and more difficult. Worse.
Life is a series of difficulties. If you overcome them, things will get brighter. If you can't overcome them, you'll stop where you are.
From the age of 49 to 50, these obstacles are often encountered. After overcoming these, the rest of life will be smooth.
1. If you can get through the threshold of life and death, you will be blessed.
When people reach middle age, it is actually easier to see the sudden death of people around them. Life is unpredictable, and you never know which tomorrow or accident will happen first.
When you encounter an accident, if you can get through it, you will be blessed for the rest of your life.
From the age of 49 to 50, people know their fate when they reach middle age. Whether you can be blessed and live a good life in the second half of your life depends on whether you can survive life and death.
There is nothing important in life except life and death. I've heard of a lot of people leaving their families behind when they were in their forties or fifties because their business failed.
It is much more difficult to live than to die. We are still alive and well because we have parents, children, and loved ones behind us.
We can't be too selfish. No matter how great the difficulties, we must overcome them. Don't give up easily. Brave it. Don't joke with your own life or death. If you can get through this, you will be blessed for the rest of your life.
2. Once you cross the threshold of mentality, your life will become clearer.
When people reach middle age, many people fall because they can't pass the test of their mentality.
Whether a person can survive to the end actually depends on his mentality. If he has a good mentality, everything will go well. If he has a bad mentality, everything will go wrong.
The age of 49 to 50 is a hurdle in life. At this stage, some people have successful careers, some people still have nothing, and some people encounter setbacks and fall into a low point in life.
When I encounter adversity at this stage of my life, I rely entirely on my own mindset to support it. Only by overcoming the hurdle of mentality, thinking calmly about everything, smiling for ten years, having a good attitude, and facing it with a positive and optimistic attitude, there is nothing in life that cannot be overcome. Pit.
When people reach middle age, the important thing is the mentality. At this age, it's time to look away and see through everything. Accept life as it is and live a peaceful, contented life with a willingness.
3. Crossing the hurdle of greed, the rest of your life will be smooth sailing.
When many people reach the age of 49 to 50, they may want to invest because they have a little money. However, they do not understand and blindly trust others, so they invest all their money, and the result is failure. After all, it was only the greed in his heart that put his family in trouble.
Some people don't have that much money, but they always have a whim and want to gamble to win more money, so they borrow money to gamble. Eventually, they not only owed loan sharks, but also lost their houses. will be used as collateral, not only themselves, but even their families will be exposed to the streets.
If you want to live the rest of your life well, you must put away your greed, keep your feet on the ground, and don't think about taking shortcuts. The best shortcut in life is to be a down-to-earth person, not greedy, and content.
4. If you overcome mundane obstacles, you will be happy for the rest of your life.
Before the age of 50, many people live a smooth and beautiful life.
But when he reached the age of fifty, his life suddenly encountered difficulties, he fell into a trough, and his life was miserable. Some people can't accept their ordinariness, can't bear the pain of the ordinary, and become more and more decadent, willful, and depraved, and their state becomes ...... It's going to get worse and worse.
Some even become mundane after the brilliant. Those who flattered, flattered them when they were proud, began to laugh at them instead of standing up to help. Even when they fall into trouble, they become fallen, they can't accept it, and it's hard to get up again.
Actually, everyone's life is ordinary. We have to learn to live a relaxed life with a relaxed mindset so that we can attain happiness and joy.
Haruki Murakami said, "Don't worry too much about the present, and don't worry too much about the future, when you go through something, the scenery in front of you is different from before." ”
May you go through the vicissitudes of the world and be at peace in your heart.