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We often say, "A person becomes powerful from the point of being alone." ”
In fact, no one can really do "everything without seeking people", it is inevitable to deal with people, and through cooperation, mutual assistance, etc., to get what they want and realize their wishes.
To be a man, you must know how to repay the favor, otherwise you will become a "white-eyed wolf".
Many people, after getting help, will choose to invite guests to dinner to repay, thinking that everyone is together, eating and drinking, praising each other, and speaking out of their hearts. After eating, send some gifts, this kindness, even if it is over.
In fact, everyone is very busy, there is not so much free time, you can mix food and drink. There are also some people who do not like to show their faces, or are inconvenient to appear in certain places at the same time as the person being helped.
If you ask someone to dinner, you will often be rejected, or it will take you a few days to get the person you should invite, so don't be embarrassed.
It is recommended that you learn the following ways of repayment, which are more reliable than inviting you to dinner.
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First, "gratitude for a lifetime" and actively change your destiny.
In the Cai Gen Tan, it is written: "Fearing people for evil, there is a good way in evil; for good and anxious for people to know, good is the root of evil." ”
A vicious person, if there is still shame, then he still retains a trace of goodness, and if his goodness is discovered, then he will change his image and continue to get better.
If you are a person who often complains about society and wants to meet Bó Lè, then after receiving help, you should continue to get better.
In Nanning, Guangxi, there was a young man surnamed Zhou, who stole a battery car, was caught, and said a very thunderous sentence: "It is impossible to work part-time, it is impossible to work in this life." I don't do business. ”
Later, with the help of the police, he changed his past and joined a business team, and slowly became rich.
In order to thank the people who helped him, he went on a TV show to help more young people and get lost.
The heart is good, the image changes, a hundred times better than inviting guests to dinner. A grateful heart will make a person have more sunshine and slowly change their destiny.
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Second, "help each other", when the other party needs it, give help.
"The Constant Word of the Warning" tells a story of good deeds and good rewards.
A man named Shi Fu made a living by raising silkworms. When he went to sell silk, he found a parcel with six taels of silver in it.
He thought that if an ordinary person lost his silver, he would be very anxious, and he might not be able to think of it and do impulsive things. So he waited in the same place for a long time and returned the silver to the lost owner, June.
June pulled Shi Fu to the restaurant for a drink and thanked him. Shi Fu refused.
After a while, Shi Fu's family lacked mulberry leaves, so he took a boat to buy mulberry leaves. At night, he went to borrow the tinder, accidentally hit and bumped, and met June again.
This time, Zhu En didn't say a word, gave his own mulberry leaves to Shi Fu, and personally rowed a boat and sent it over.
The ancients said: "A leaf of duckweed returns to the sea, and where life does not meet." ”
Those who have been kind to you may also encounter difficulties and see you again in the future. After you know his situation, take the initiative to help, this gratitude, is "great kindness" .
It is difficult to see the truth. Give others what they need most, and you will appear noble. If you meet a rich man and give him a hundred yuan and invite him to eat mountain and seafood, it seems insignificant.
Wait slowly, one day, the nobles will also encounter difficulties. If you can't repay the kindness of others, then continue this feeling, and your next generation will continue to be grateful.
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Third, "grasp the intention" and make achievements to make the people who help feel happy.
Actor Zhou Runfa, with his acting skills, broke a path and made a lot of money at the same time.
In life, he was always approachable. Some netizens, by filming his daily words and deeds, posted to the Internet to make money. Not only was he not annoyed, but he said that everyone could get closer and chat together.
When Wu Mengda owed a huge gambling debt, he asked him for help, he ostensibly refused, but behind the scenes, he arranged for Wu Mengda to participate in the performance and won the Best Supporting Actor Award.
In fact, after Wu Mengda was helped, he changed his past wrongs, single-mindedly filmed, and became a person with positive energy, which was recognized by the public, and the film industry respected him as "Uncle Da".
After being helped, a person can rise with the trend, and use his own achievements to prove himself, use his character to conquer the public, then the person who helps him will be sincerely happy. For example, in the workplace, when your boss promotes you, you make achievements and do not disgrace your boss, which is a hundred times better than inviting guests and gifts; relatives lend money to do business, and you do it steadily, make yourself rich, and fight for your relatives' faces.
Don't be a person who "can't get on the wall with mud", otherwise the person who helps you will also be cold.
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Fourth, "bring your own light" to pass on kindness to society.
In The Tianxin district of Changsha, Hunan Province, she opened a small supermarket. Because the street where the supermarket is located is not bustling enough, there are no street lights, and there are often some people who work at night, one foot deep and one foot shallow, and there is a possibility of falling.
Once, a girl said to Sister Sun, "Auntie, as soon as your shop closes, the whole street will become particularly dark and make people feel afraid." ”
Since then, Every night, Sister Sun has turned on the lamp at the door until two o'clock in the morning.
As a businessman, she got help from her neighbors. People often patronize, buy east and buy west. She used a lamp to warm all the neighbors, although the money spent was not much, but everyone was very moved.
A beam of light can illuminate the road ahead of you, and you can also let the people next to you walk more steadily with the help of light.
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Master Nebula said: "In life, touching is temporary, gratitude is a lifetime; glory is temporary, influence is a lifetime; grievances are temporary, and achievements are a lifetime." ”
Repaying others and being grateful to society is a lifelong thing, and eating can connect feelings, but you can't pay off your kindness. If you want to repay the favor, you must speak of conscience and kick out all evil thoughts.
This society has indifference, but more is warmth and touching.
To be a person, we must use our feelings just right like the rain in time.
Be a noble person of others, and meet noble people everywhere in life.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.