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To love someone is to love oneself and not to be able to stop.
Once you meet someone you like, you can't help but be impulsive, can't help it, and can't help yourself.
Before he met you, he was calm, sane, and cold; but since meeting you, he has become difficult to control himself and very impulsive.
As Tang Xianzu wrote in "Peony Pavilion":
"I don't know what to do, I go deeper."
To love someone is to have such magic power, to control him, and to be tempted by you.
Want to see you, want to take care of you, want to marry you.
Feelings are sometimes like this, once infected with the addiction of love, they become hopeless and uncontrollable.
In fact, men who have real feelings for you will often have these three "impulses".
01 The urge to see you
I have seen a particularly gentle sentence:
"The wind is already starting to smell of spring, and I mean I want to meet you, and then hug you tight and tell you how much I miss you."
Because he has real feelings for you, he will worry about you all the time and can't help but want to see you.
Perhaps, before meeting you, he did not taste the pain of lovesickness; until he fell in love with you later, he understood what it meant to be "not seen for a day, like three autumns apart".
Because he misses you too much, he will find all reasons to meet you, even if he is busy, he will take time to accompany you and want to stay with you.
He thinks of you all the time, and when he can't see you, his heart is like being hollowed out, and after seeing you, the inner vacancy can be filled.
Feelings are sometimes like this, once the truth is moved, you can't help but want to see you.
Because I have you in my heart, I can't help but want to go to you, want you to stay by his side, day after day, year after year.
02 The urge to take care of you
I've seen a very warm sentence:
"I like you, not to hug and cuddle with you, qingqing me and me, but I can't help but care about you, care about you, worry about you, feel sorry for you, want to be simply good to you, can't help but be the kind." 」
Indeed, when a man has a real feeling for you, he can't help but be nice to you and can't help but want to take care of you.
Perhaps, he used to be a careless person, but after meeting you, the softness and delicacy in his heart were stimulated.
Those who have a heart do not have to teach, and those who do not have a heart do not teach.
In feelings, the so-called gentleness is not a talent, but anyone who wants to be gentle can always do that softness and maintenance.
Because I care about you, I can't help but want to take care of you, want you to be good, want you to be happy, want to be your most solid reliance.
03 The urge to marry you
Yi Shu wrote such a sentence in "Xi Bao":
"In any case, a man's greatest respect for a woman is to propose, no matter what kind of man it is, it is still sincere." 」
Deeply.
In the relationship, the highest form of love for a man to a woman is to marry her home, give her a sense of stability, avoid her displacement, avoid her falling apart, and prevent her from having no branches to rely on.
He will make an effort to marry you, and when he sees that you are not having a good life, he can't help but want to marry you.
From now on, I will spend the rest of my life with you, two people, three meals, four seasons.
Because my heart recognizes you, I can't help but want to marry you, to give you warmth, to give you stability, to let you stay by his side year after year.
As Freud said:
"In front of a woman who is truly in love, men will not be able to suppress their impulses."
Indeed, love is an irresistible flood beast, and once it moves the truth, it is easy to become impulsive.
The urge to see you is a longing; the urge to take care of you is an giving; the urge to marry you is a responsibility.
The rest of your life is long, please find a man who is willing to "impulsive" for you and spoil you for the rest of your life.
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