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As the saying goes, "A woman is only complete if she becomes a mother". In life, in order to be a mother, some women can be described as "giving everything", even at the cost of hurting their own bodies, just to realize their dreams of becoming a mother.
The woman was pregnant 14 times in 12 years, miscarried 13 times, and finally fulfilled the dream of childbirth
For most women, the chance of pregnancy in a lifetime is 400-500 times, and it is possible to get pregnant almost every month when ovulating, but only once or twice can really be pregnant, and the remaining 95% of the time is spent on contraception.
However, there is a mother who has recorded 13 pregnancies in 12 years, but in the end she has miscarried due to her own immune disease. But recently, after completing her 14th pregnancy, she finally gave birth to a boy and fulfilled her wish to become a mother.
Since 2010, the mother has begun her own pregnancy path, from the first pregnancy, she has suffered miscarriages, and later there are frequent miscarriages.
After going to the hospital for examination, I found that I had a disease of the immune system, so it was difficult for such a mother to get pregnant successfully, but this mother did not give up, in 12 years, she tried to get pregnant many times, and finally gave birth to her baby when she was pregnant for the 14th time this year.
In the doctor's view, such a high number of pregnancies and miscarriages are very harmful to the body, and even "do not die", but this mother still insists on pregnancy in order to have a child of her own.
Fortunately, the last time, the hospital tailored a set of fetal protection programs for this mother, and this mother also took great risks and finally gave birth to her baby.
Although the final result is good, the doctor said that it is not recommended that women follow such a desperate fertility mentality, or to look at the matter of fertility rationally.
13 miscarriages and successful pregnancy of the baby, is it a miracle, or is it expected?
In recent years, "recurrent miscarriages" like this mother are not uncommon, and I have seen the news several times alone, and there are 10 repeated miscarriages that finally hold the baby; there are also 14 cases of miscarriages that have finally succeeded, which really stunned me.
The baby grows in the mother's uterus, the endometrium is the barrier to protect the baby, every miscarriage, it will inevitably be damaged by the endometrium, multiple injuries will make the endometrium thin, so women who have experienced multiple miscarriages will become habitual abortions.
Foreign fertility doctors define 2 or more pregnancy failures as "recurrent miscarriages", while domestic pregnancies usually refer to the loss of fetuses before 28 weeks of 3 or more pregnancies as "recurrent miscarriages".
From hope to despair, repeated miscarriages can be said to be very torturous. Moreover, in the process of repeated pregnancies and miscarriages, women's bodies will become weaker and weaker again and again until they are completely unable to bear the harm caused by pregnancy and miscarriage.
The data show that the probability of spontaneous abortion is 15%-25%, of which more than 80% occurs in the early miscarriage at 12 weeks of pregnancy, and the probability of miscarriage will increase with the number of previous pregnancy failures. In other words, the more spontaneous abortions there are, the easier it is to "stop the car" after the miscarriage.
The causes of spontaneous abortion are complex, such as genetic factors, endocrine factors, and immune dysfunction like the mother above. Women who can finally successfully conceive are also very lucky.
How many miscarriages a woman's body can withstand, not 3 or 5
Women can withstand several miscarriages, which really comes according to their personal constitution. Some people may suffer a single miscarriage that can cause lifelong infertility, in general, a woman can afford 3 miscarriages, but some say 5 abortions.
And in our country, there is one woman who holds the record of the limit of miscarriage. The data shows that there is a woman surnamed Song in China, who has set a limit record for the number of abortions, and she has reported to the hospital almost every year and has had 24 miscarriages before and after.
A friend of obstetrics and gynecology who has worked in the hospital for many years said: For so many years, we have found a pattern: every year during the Spring Festival, during the winter and summer vacations, around the Eleventh Golden Week, there will be a special number of women to do abortions, and it is not uncommon for girls outside the operating room to wait.
Now after repeated abortions in the gynecology department, after three or five years, I will come to see some gynecological inflammation such as menstrual irregularities, and if I still can't get pregnant after watching it, then I will get to the reproductive center for IVF.
Tuanzi Mama wants to say:
Abortion for women is very harmful, whether it is spontaneous abortion or abortion, the more times, the more hope of having a child in the future, like the mother above is a special case, do not look at people abortion so many times is still fine, think that abortion is still very safe.
This kind of fluke psychology can not be held, if you do not want children, you must do a good job of contraception; and if you cause multiple miscarriages because of your own problems, you must follow the doctor's advice and rationally look at the problem of fertility.