When you are a teenager, both men and women are often relatively young and crazy.
After believing in yourself, you will be very good, you will meet a good love, and you will be more successful in your career.
It's just that as we get older, when we really go out of school and start working on a job, gradually, for most people, we will also find that everything is not as easy as imagined.
Good love is not so easy to meet, and we are not as powerful as we think.
But just a member of the ordinary public, doing their best, but only barely making ends meet.
Among them, there are really only a very small number of people who can have a successful career and develop well.
When a person's career is more successful, it seems to be good luck, in fact, it is only because they do have some advantages that are different from others, and there are some places that are more powerful than others.
Strong action, dare to think more dare to do.
In this world, there have always been many opportunities, and there are also many outlets.
The difference is that many people, even if they think that one thing can be done and promising, they will not really do it, they will only think about many bad aspects, and they will always have no way to take the first step.
For a long time, months have passed, years have passed, and they are still standing still in place.
If you don't act, no matter how good your thoughts are, it is useless after all, and a person will not really achieve anything at all.
People who can succeed are generally people with strong mobility, he dares to think, after thinking about it, he dares to really implement his ideas in reality, let himself really start, and use practice to prove whether his ideas are feasible.
Even when he goes to action, he only has a general framework, specific details, he has not yet thought clearly, he does not want to think clearly before acting, only to act first, and then slowly improve.
Because he knows very well that opportunities will not wait for him, too many opportunities, that is really fleeting, a little later, everything may become no longer the same, he may already be a lot behind.
Most people who have become mediocre are unwilling to do anything on the one hand, and they have never done anything, and real success has always belonged to people who have really done it.
The goal is clear, and the more setbacks can be overcome, the braver.
I like a saying that people without goals are just wandering, and people with goals are getting a little closer to their dreams.
In life, if we don't have any goals, don't know what we want to do, where we want to go, then of course it is difficult for us to achieve anything, we will only be confused, unconsciously is a lifetime.
And if we have a goal, and can start towards the goal little by little, when moving forward, no matter how many setbacks we encounter, it should not be taken seriously at all, just fall down again and again, and stand up again and again, our life will really be different.
No one has ever been able to succeed casually and achieve an impressive career casually.
All the people who can achieve great things and all the career successes, before people really see him, before he really succeeds, he has actually experienced a lot of frustration and tasted a lot of heartache.
However, even if he always encountered various difficulties, even if he was always bullied by life, he never thought of conceding defeat.
Every day, every month, even if it is just a small step toward the goal, he will feel very happy and meaningful.
He will not be too anxious, nor will he be easily overthrown, but will always be particularly determined, no matter what happens, he will still forge ahead, do not reach the goal, and vow not to give up.
Good at learning, know how to continuously improve.
As we all know, this is a very fast-growing era. For this era, for many industries, even if it is the industry we are in, we may not be able to understand how much, can just walk in the forefront of the industry, not abandoned by the industry.
Therefore, if you want to succeed, your career has always been relatively smooth, just behind closed doors, of course, that is not OK.
In fact, all successful people are often more receptive to new knowledge and have always maintained learning.
Will continue to improve their own capabilities, so that they have not been left behind, will always introduce more advanced technology and ideas, so that they can be in the industry, always be able to stand in an invincible position, in a leading position.
Not only will you learn by yourself, but when you have a career, you will also let the company's more important people learn and make progress together.
I am the leader, but only myself and the people of my company can maintain the same frequency and keep the same pace, the development can be more rapid, the cause will not wither, and it will really be able to endure for a long time.
People, after all, cannot understand everything, and always need to absorb from others and use the strength of others to achieve themselves.
A person's strength, after all, is very limited, and can not be how powerful, know how to borrow power, everything will be compared with half the effort.
Life is a lifetime, if we are destined to be more ordinary, then be ordinary, settle for the ordinary, and enjoy the ordinary.
It's actually good to be able to live your life in peace.
This is much better than tossing and turning, than letting yourself be in debt, and not being able to guarantee your life.
If you are not willing to do this, and you are indeed more capable, then you can really do something well. To achieve your own career, to do something for the world, to enjoy success, to feel that sense of accomplishment.
Of course, if you really have such an idea, you must have the ability to act, understand decision-making, and be able to bear the consequences.
There are actually many people who do something seriously, but success does not belong to everyone.
Have courage, but also do what you can, know what you really are like, and how much you can pay for it.
Text/Tan Meng
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