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Tagore said, "Love is a full life, like a glass of wine." ”
Love can light up life, make life wonderful, people in this life, if you have never experienced love, it is quite boring, because you have not felt, put a person on the tip of the heart of the taste, your world from beginning to end is just a person, less warmth, less color.
Love is an indispensable bright color in life, no love, in the end, I feel that something is missing, even if you have a lot, but there is always a little gap in your heart, this defect is no matter how much family affection and friendship can not be filled.
But love is not the whole of life after all, it is just the icing on the cake, not indispensable. There are many people who have no love in this life and live happily and happily.
Attitudes towards love change significantly as we get older and over time. When you are seventeen or eighteen years old, you will see love as bigger than the sky, and you will not be able to live without the person you like.
Later, it was found that without love, a person's life can also be colorful. Love is not bigger than the sky, it is just a cloud in the sky, and the lack of one will not affect anything.
The further back you go, the more you don't need love, especially when people reach middle age, life is filled with all kinds of things, and love will become dispensable.
When people reach middle age, there is no love.
When people reach middle age, they don't need love
When people reach middle age, they often don't need love.
At this stage, life has gone through most of the process, many things have been very open, the more experienced, the more people will become indifferent, no longer full of obsession, the whole person will appear a lot more peaceful.
For the things that have passed, no longer clinging to what you want to get, the people and things that have been lost will become indifferent, and the attachment in your heart will gradually fade, and you will focus more on what you have already got.
When people reach middle age, many things have been settled. For the career, all the previous efforts have begun to bear fruit at this time. At the age of more than 40 years old, the career is stable, the life is stable, and the mood will become mature and calm.
In the past, when encountering a little thing, I would feel that I couldn't pass, crying and crying, but now it seems that no matter how big things are, they will not let themselves stir up ripples, and people have long been commonplace.
Beginning to understand that compared to love, having a career that you like, and seeing the days visibly getting better with the naked eye is undoubtedly more important. Love can't be eaten as a meal, but money can, see small love, and understand the primary and secondary order of life.
Before the wrong faith in some people, by some people to let down, experienced some ups and downs, saw through the sinister nature of human nature, and slowly understood that no one in this world will accompany you forever, only yourself is the ultimate dependence. Learned to love yourself and began to focus more on yourself. Love yourself more than you love. After seeing through this, it is no longer important whether there is love or not.
When people reach middle age, it is more about weighing the pros and cons
By middle age, love has long since become less pure, mixed with too many realistic considerations.
In the past, love could drink enough water, as long as it was with the person you liked, then everything else was no longer important. It doesn't matter whether they will be together in the future, and it doesn't matter whether the other party loves themselves or not. As long as you like it, everything else becomes indifferent.
At that time, I could see that the people I liked were happy, and I felt satisfied in my heart, no matter how much I paid, I would feel very happy. Will put the ego very lightly, single-mindedly only want to be good for the other party.
At that time, love can resist all difficulties, as long as there is love, as long as you can see him every day, you can stay with each other, you are willing.
After people reach middle age, the word love is gradually weakened, and instead it is a trade-off between the pros and cons and the consideration of interests. Choosing whether to be with a person or not, more important is some realistic factors, and it will be embarrassing to talk about love.
What are his conditions, whether he will be good to the children, whether his family is dragging down, and begin to consider this person in all aspects, after being together, it is difficult for both sides to put their hearts together, they will maximize their own interests, money is full of calculations, obviously under one roof, both sides are thinking about themselves.
At this time, each other is using their hearts on the closest people, such a relationship has long violated the love itself, and it is too tiring to be with such people, but it is better to live quietly alone.
When people reach middle age, their families are healthy and their careers are smooth, they are the greatest happiness
When people reach middle age, whether they have love or not has already become indifferent, it is more important than love and love, whether the family is healthy, and whether the career is smooth.
When people reach middle age, everyone is relatively clear, will not put their hearts on some insignificant people and things, and begin to understand who is really good to themselves in this world.
Begin to know which is more important than the other, no longer hurt yourself for the sake of small love, let your life fall into a difficult situation. When I think of the way I used to die and live for someone, I still think it's ridiculous and too childish to hate that time.
In the past, the relationship with the family was always very stiff, trying every means to stay away from the family, and even fell out with the family for someone, and after the passage of time, I found that only the family was the one who had been with me.
In the past, I would give up my career for love, and then I found that love would disappear anytime and anywhere, and only the cause that I worked hard to get my hands on and the money I earned was the most reliable.
People slowly understand the importance of physical health in middle age, and will no longer consume their bodies at will. The whole person became transparent, saw a lot of things, and understood what was really important in this life.
As long as the family is healthy and the career is smooth, nothing else matters.
When people reach middle age, the whole talent can be regarded as living and understanding. A lot of things are seen and figured out.
No longer waste time on people who are not worthwhile, no longer cling to some things that are not available, do not want to waste brains because of some people and things, and will not be wronged for anything.
I am fully capable of taking on the rest of my life, and love or anything is not so important. If you are with a person, but it will make yourself tired, then it is better to be more down-to-earth and comfortable.
When people reach middle age, they don't need love, there is no love, few people will be good to you without reservation, everyone is calculating gains and losses, and want to get something from you. If love becomes less pure, it is better not to have it.
As long as you are healthy, your family is safe, and your career is smooth, it is enough, and love does not matter.