■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, see through the red dust, not necessarily a monk.
What is red dust? Red dust, in fact, is divided into red and dust. Red is joy, red is rich, red is desire, red is temptation. These joys, riches, temptations, are what we call the real world. And dust, that is, dust, regards the temptations and desires of the world as dust, fleeting, in order to see through the meaning of red dust.
There are clouds in the Buddhist family: "The green veil is lonely and the Buddha worships before the lamp, and the red dust is far away from the state of mind." What does this sentence mean? The meaning of this sentence is that once a person enters a monastery and goes to worship the Buddha in such a pure and lonely environment, he will feel that everything in the world is far away, and he will have a state of mind that is out of the ordinary. And this kind of state of mind that is out of the ordinary is actually a state of mind that sees through the red dust.
So, does it mean that people who see through the red dust will choose to escape into the empty door and become monks and nuns? In fact, seeing through the red dust is not necessarily a monk, many people who see through the red dust will truly understand that "the red dust comes and goes in a dream". Especially a person who has reached fifty, when they see through the temptation of red dust, they feel that red dust has gradually left them. Why?
02, man reaches fifty, enters the year of knowing the destiny.
Gradually, gradually, our post-70s group entered the age of fifty. Confucius said, "Thirty and standing, forty without confusion, fifty and knowing the Mandate of Heaven." "Yes, when man reaches fifty, we have entered the year of knowing destiny. The so-called "knowing the Mandate of Heaven" is actually a natural meaning, but also a sense of relief and letting go. Yes, when people reach fifty, we have entered the second half of life, and for the rest of our lives, we must know how to cherish everything we have now, especially the relatives around us. When people reach fifty, we must understand that many things must go with the flow.
At such an age, our work has stabilized. At such an age, it is very difficult to change your work, and we must know how to cherish and do a good job in the current work. When we reach fifty, we have entered the year of knowing our destiny, and those new friendships are no longer suitable for us; those who call on friends to eat, drink and have fun in the past, we must also know how to let go. Perhaps, cherishing three or five confidants, when we have time, chatting and drinking tea, is the most important time for us at this age. Well, when the man reaches fifty, let these red dusts be right and wrong, and slowly leave us.
03, people to fifty, learn to give and let go.
A person who reaches fifty is a person who has matured in both physical and psychological age. At such an age, we must understand the excessive pursuit of interests and personnel disputes in the red dust, and have a clear positioning. We have "come naked into this world and will leave this world naked," and at this age, we need to be clearer about such a simple truth. In fact, when people live, many things are not brought by life or brought with them by death.
When people reach the age of fifty, learning to give up and let go, learning to say goodbye to the excessive materialistic pursuit in the red dust, is a kind of wisdom, but also a kind of relief after experiencing vicissitudes. A person, only when he truly learns to give up and let go, will gradually get away from those excessive interest pursuits and troubles in the red dust, and the rest of his life will be more pure and natural, and he will become more high and cloudy.
04, when people reach fifty, don't talk about love lightly.
I used to think that love was infinitely romantic and beautiful. However, after entering marriage, many people understand that "marriage is the graveyard of love", although it is a bit one-sided, but in fact, there is a certain truth. Some people say that true love is childish, and the final destination of love is actually a mature family affection. When people reach fifty, we will slowly understand that the once romantic love in the red dust has left us. Therefore, when we reach fifty, we should no longer talk about love lightly.
Yes, fifty-year-old people, after the ups and downs of life, are no longer naïve. When people reach fifty, we must understand that at such an age, "talking about love is old, talking about death is too early." Fifty-year-old people, want to talk about love again, most of them want to mess with flowers and weeds, which will inevitably cause great harm to the current family, or go home well with their lovers and children. When we reach fifty, we have begun to grow old, and at such an age, we will understand that only our lovers, only stable affection, are the most reliable. Therefore, when people reach fifty, we must understand that the love in the red dust has gradually left us. For the sake of our own family, for the rest of our lives, we should not talk about love lightly, and it is the most correct thing to keep our homes and love our families.
05, people to fifty, to know how to enjoy loneliness.
When we were young, we were afraid of loneliness, and we longed for the bright life in the city. Because, when we were young, we liked to go to the lively city and fight for our own country. Yes, for the sake of ideals, what teenager is not crazy? After years of struggle, after large and small setbacks in life, we are slowly erased by the years, and our sideburns slowly have the wind and frost of the years. At this time, we begin to learn to be quiet and learn to think about the direction of our lives.
When we reached fifty, we began to enjoy the night of the blue lights and yellow rolls, and we began to become interested in loneliness and loneliness. Perhaps, this is the age of ours, who begin to abandon impetuosity and begin to use our hearts to approach a life of pure heart and widowhood. And this, in fact, is a mentality of seeing through the red dust and preparing to stay away from the right and wrong in the red dust. Although we live, many times, involuntarily. However, we live, and there are more times, let ourselves precipitate, let us learn to use our hearts as if we are not alarmed by the water, to enjoy our own pure loneliness.
06, the people reached fifty, and the red dust gradually disappeared.
Friends, "Red dust comes and goes a dream". When people reach fifty, we will slowly learn to see through the red dust, learn to slowly move away from the right and wrong in the red dust, and use our mentality of "not being insulted, idly watching the flowers blossom and fall before the court; to leave unintentional, wandering with the clouds outside the sky", to accept the "dust out of the world" in the second half of our lives. People say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, the major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.