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Miyazaki said: If you like a person, then take the initiative to take two steps toward him, if he sees you coming over, but does not mean to greet you, then you stop, because you have to understand that many things can be obtained by hard work, but only love can not.
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If a person does not mean to greet you, it is actually a manifestation of not wanting to take the initiative to contact you. A man who is unwilling to take the initiative to find you, do you feel that you have to do something more proactive than he does? Do you still have to go to him all the time?
If a person steps on the dirt to love someone, but still does not get his love, then can you have anything better? Are you going to give him your life? Do you think it's all worth it?
Indifference is a kind of contempt; indifference is a kind of disgust. So, a person who doesn't initiate interactions with you in a natural situation, someone who is warm and cold in the face of you, won't really like you. Because the person who really likes you is not willing to let you be snubbed for a long time, and will not ignore you, he will only desperately squeeze into your world.
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In this world, if we, as men, can't have the courage to take on something, then what will it be like for them to be women? Can they feel grounded? Will they still think we're as cute as we used to be? Unless their maternal feelings are inflated. But in the face of love, true love is always greater than worthless hypocrisy.
Some people may say: love, can not only be pursued by men, why do women not take the initiative?
On such issues, I solemnly state that I should agree with them. However, I would not agree.
In the man's world, women only occupy half of the sky, and it is also the half that men take the initiative to give up. Giving it away is mainly because of respect. In the world of husband power, men are inferior to women, and what is wrong with us pursuing big men, and hurting self-esteem?
A man once said that God created men to pursue women.
Once, the owner of a bookstore said to three boys who bought books on how to pursue love skills: If you want love to succeed, it is useless to read books. The main thing is to have the courage to pursue women, that is, to put down the face, the face should be thick...
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Some boys on the Internet said: Excessive performance of likes will only make the other party feel their superiority.
I just want to tell him that if you want to get love, don't worry about the attitude of the person you pursue. Because the people you pursue are not just for you, there will be other suitors. At the same time, the other party also has its own right to choose.
The two-way rush of love is not selfishly waiting for the other party's payment. Two-way rushing is based on one party's efforts for love, and then the other party's return or response, which has achieved the popular quote today: two-way rushing love.
If you understand, the meaning of two-way rushing. So do you still have to worry about your careful thinking? The key to saying what is the purpose of taking those two steps is to deliberately let the other party see and observe the other party's reaction, and then do the next action. I go, you're so smart.
So if the other person is not active, then what else are you going to go? The two steps taken in vain, are you also at a loss? In addition to the pursuit of love, love must also be cherished. If it is someone you truly love, can you take the initiative at all times!
—— Conclusion ——
Life is inseparable from the pursuit. Dare to pursue, not only a kind of courage, but also a kind of maturity, a kind of true maturity of thought and heart. Life is the process of pursuing happiness, and in the process of pursuing happiness, we must experience the tempering of loneliness and loneliness.
In life, we must always have a heart for the pursuit of happiness. Unremittingly pursue the value of life, the pursuit of the meaning of life, and the pursuit of life's love. Because in the days of pursuit, you overcome the self, overcome loneliness and loneliness, and know yourself.
The difficulties and hardships of life are not terrible, the terrible thing is that in the hardships and hardships of life, you have lost your ideals and beliefs, and you are addicted to the decadence and depression of drunken dreams and dreams in loneliness and loneliness.
So, when you are surrounded by hardships and hardships, you must not forget your ideals and goals. Because when you are decadent and depressed, in the depths of your soul, there will be a strength to support you, that is, your life pursuit.
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