Snacks will expire, fruits will spoil, and feelings will burn out. Two people just started together, maybe a message from each other, an emoticon can light up your stars throughout the day. But the so-called world's everything has its growth law, will rise, will also have the possibility of falling. So even if you and him are at the apex of their relationship, there will still be moments of falling. When it comes to the run-in period, you will find that your other half is not perfect, he also has flaws, and it turns out that you have not reached such a liking in his eyes. Gradually, I began to find that there was not only sweetness in your feelings, but also many difficult problems to solve. When the other party has this kind of burnout, and you can't understand each other, it is easy to have explosive conflicts and problems. So, how do we get through it?
First, correctly understand the burnout period. The reason why your relationship is worse is because you have not communicated effectively, because you do not communicate, so that one party is under great psychological pressure. The other party is not aware of the other person's state, but thinks that the other party is intentional. So two people have a worse attitude towards each other and enter a vicious circle. If you want to live smoothly, don't hold on to this period, as long as you don't say it, there will be no problem ideas, and make it clear that what you want, what you want to do, plus your real feelings.
Second, self-improvement. Don't think that he is not so good, why should I try to improve myself? Sometimes, it may be that men's conditions are really not much different from yours and don't make you feel good enough that you need to work hard. But you have to know that the two of you are going to live the rest of your days. People can influence each other, and you can now use your own excellence to bring him a sense of crisis and make him spontaneously become better. Instead of waiting until later when you are at home all day complaining that the other person is not motivated, and the other party attacks you, you are not very good.
Third, give each other time to calm down, because you are in a state of intimate relationship now, so basically problems are also in front of your face. The space for independent thinking not only helps us to look at things rationally, but also avoids making regrettable decisions when we are emotionally attached.
Instead of taking the time to wait for your partner to change, you should find a way to guide the other person through yourself.