Take the initiative for a long time will be tired, care for a long time will collapse!
Every girl's rose-colored dream lives a Prince Charming, although there is always a certain gap between dreams and reality. But it is undeniable that most girls fall in love with the boy they want, and they will pay no regard for the return, but in the end it is not the other party but themselves.
Admittedly, a lot of men like women who love him single-mindedly. But such women often lose themselves, can't grasp the love and can't be cherished!
So girls immersed in love must know,
No matter how much you love him, you have to give him some pain!
"Please Give More Advice for the Rest of Your Life" is nearing the end, and Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue's relationship has also shifted from "underground" to "aboveground". I am about to see my parents and talk about marriage. However, the plot has undergone a big reversal, and Gu Wei has fallen to the bottom because of "medical disputes". Negative news ensued, losing the trust of patients, canceling opportunities to study abroad, and suspending their jobs. Gu Wei felt that the aura on his body had dimmed!
When love meets reality and life, there is no material security but a castle in the air.
Gu Wei flinched, but he didn't want to impose this pressure on Lin Zhixiao. Because this is not the time, Lin Zhixue will be sent to Germany by the company to become a contracted artist, and the future is bright. He wants Lin Zhixue to live the life he likes, not to compromise for other reasons!
The hardest thing for two people to get along is not to face the difficulties together, but one party silently bears everything but you don't know why you broke up.
Saying that he wanted to see his parents, Lin Zhixue was full of expectations. However, Gu Wei lost his soul and had no way to answer his future father-in-law's question. Teacher Lin issued an eviction order, and the parents ended in failure. Gu Wei's unforeseen change overwhelmed Lin Zhixue, sandwiched between lovers and relatives, and Lin Zhixue was confused, sad, lost, and embarrassed. It wasn't until Xiao Du's appearance that he knew that something big had happened to Gu Wei.
Gu Wei wanted to carry everything alone and let Lin Zhixue pursue his dreams. But he ignored lin zhixue's idea, just as Lin zhixue said, "Going abroad is a matter for two people to discuss, why should you decide alone?" "Falling in love is a matter of two people, and separation cannot be decided by one person!"
After Scolding Gu Wei, Lin Zhixue turned away and watched Gu Wei desperately chase the car and cried all the netizens in front of the screen. The difference between this scene of abuse is not Gu Wei but the heart of tens of millions of young girls, many netizens may be blaming Lin's school, why is dr. Gu abusing us like this? You must know that Gu Wei is a wonderful man in the world, the dream lover of tens of thousands of young girls!
Lin Zhixiao's words woke up Gu Wei and gave him the courage to regain his confidence. Back at his job, Gu Wei no longer dwelled on other people's views and once again solved the problem with strength.
After rescuing the patient again, Gu Wei got the understanding of the patient and his family. Seeing that everything was about to return to the original track, Gu Wei found that there was no heroine in his life.
Many netizens believe that there is a gap between the conditions of Lin Zhi School and Gu Wei, and Lin Zhi School, which is in a weak position, should understand him more and tolerate him. Maybe this is also the way many girls in love deal with their feelings, although Gu Wei's machismo did hurt people before, but he has realized his mistake, and Lin Zhixue should choose to forgive!
Indeed, Lin Zhixue felt that Gu Wei was better than himself from the beginning, so when dating, he would deliberately wear clothes that were not suitable for him to please Gu Wei. Make an appointment to watch a movie together, and even if you wait for three hours, you won't blame him. When I hear him say that he is "cute", he is afraid that the other party will feel that he is immature and angry. Gu Wei said that couples also need their own private space, so he thought that Gu Wei borrowed other people's things to say that he was too clingy. In short, in getting along with Gu Wei, she has always been cautious, afraid that she has something to make the other party resentful. But it is precisely because of this understanding that it is easy to make the other party think that everything she does is deserved.
Always let one party take the initiative, and after a long time, you will feel tired. Caring about a person for too long will collapse sooner or later! No matter how much you love him, you have to make him suffer a little!
After the "medical dispute", Lin Zhixue began to calm down and examine herself, although the sweet scenes of the past remained in her memory, although Gu Wei had always loved her. But she wanted more than that, she wanted to be the other half who could support Gu Wei. Instead of coaxing you when you need to, you can always give up when you don't need to exist!
Love is not about taking, calculating who pays more, but the spiritual fit of two people. The reason why Lin Zhixue refused to get along with Gu Wei was because she felt that her position in Gu Wei's heart was not so important, and the fit between them did not reach the kind of fit she wanted.
Few girls are willing to snub their beloved for this dispensable fit, but what they don't know is that it is precisely because of your reluctance that you reduce your weight in his heart. It is precisely because you care that you give the other party the opportunity to hurt you.
Love can be fully devoted, but you must retain the courage to climb out. When the other party can't give you the commitment you want, can't give you the security you want, please remember to climb out, even if it is a body full of scars, it is better than humble love!
Falling in love is easier than getting along! The difficulty is to expose your own thorn to the other party, and use your own sincerity to smooth the other party's thorn. This kind of run-in requires two people to work together, if it can be successfully overcome, it is a lifetime of happiness, if it cannot be solved, separation is also a kind of fulfillment!