People often talk about the three views. The so-called three views are the world view, values, and outlook on life. It's different now than it was in the past. In the past, because of the pressure of survival, people's attention was mostly focused on the material level, and whether the three views were compatible or not was generally acceptable. Now it's different. Now that the material conditions are better, people's education level is higher, and human nature is gradually awakening and becoming more and more independent. It is difficult for people with unsociable "three views" to be together, nor can they keep in touch for a long time, let alone become friends. Reluctantly. No one wants to force it.
In fact, from ancient times to the present, people rely on the same hobbies to become friends. The so-called like-mindedness refers to the closeness of each other's positions and views on things, the common interests and hobbies and even the pursuit of ideals, the clustering of things, and the division of people into groups. On the contrary, it is what the ancients said, "The Tao is different and not conspiratorial", in today's words, it is "the three views are not in harmony, not for friends".
In fact, people whose thinking is not in a channel, it is difficult to intersect what they say, let alone have sparks, greet each other, and want to communicate deeply, just like chickens and ducks talking, donkey lips are not right for horse mouths, they all feel bored, and may even hurt each other. Second, what is important is to be the same way, that is, to combine the "three views." Although the human heart is separated by only one layer of belly, it is sometimes separated by more than 18,000 miles. Therefore, it is not easy for people to understand each other, and it is even more difficult for people with different ideas. Greedy people can't understand how some people see money as a floating cloud, snobbish people can't believe that some people can treat others equally, and narrow-minded people can't admit that others can be broad-minded. It is easy for people to judge others by their own inner thoughts. If someone's words and deeds do not match their own inner standards, and they think that others are pretentious and hypocritical, then they are really self-righteous.
There are very few people in this world who have the same and similar views. There are always some people who don't like you, and there are also people who don't like you. It doesn't matter, he goes his own way, you cross your canoe bridge, and it's okay to be safe. It was hard to pull together, wronged yourself, and worked hard for others. Forget the airtight heart, don't bother to think about it; the one who can't see clearly is far away, don't bother to guess. Life is short and energy is limited. For people with different ambitions and different ways, we can choose to leave quietly. Don't invite too many people into your life. What's more, the ancients have long warned: interests intersect, interests are scattered; with potential intersection, potential failure leads to tilting; intersecting with power, losing power, give up; intersecting with love, love is broken, hurt; only by meeting with the heart can it become distant.
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