On March 8, Big S posted on the social platform: "Life is impermanent, I cherish the happiness of the moment." Thanks for everything that allowed me to get to where I am now. He announced his marriage to South Korean singer Gu Junye and attached a marriage statement to Gu Junye, calling him "Oba".
The former lovers contacted again after more than twenty years, fell in love again, "online love" two months later in order to get a visa to enter Taiwan under the epidemic prevention regulations, get together as soon as possible, Gu Junye issued a marriage proposal request to Big S to "become a family", I don't know if it is because of love to the top, Big S also agreed.
At first glance, this message looks like onion news, but when you think about it, it's not surprising that the protagonist of these dramatic bridges is Big S. This is not the first time that Big S has flashed marriage, her last marriage that just ended for 100 days is also amazing, less than 50 days of knowing, after meeting 4 times, Big S decided to get a license with Wang Xiaofei.
Some people say that the big S "love brain", once her "chivalrous bones" and "wolf nature" have disappeared, but counting the several feelings of the big S, can not be said to be vigorous, but at least it is generous and courageous, decent and frank. At the age of 46, she is still crazy about love.
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Love is in front of "Xiyuan"
Who is Gu Junye?
Idols and "fans"
"No, he is still the same as he was then, disillusioned, because raw rice has been cooked to maturity, can not manage so much, first love and then say." 」 Judging from big S's response to the words of the Taiwan media, she is very confident in her choice and will not regret it.
Let's turn the time back to 1998, Gu Junye's "Cool Dragon" group is just popular, the popularity in Taiwan is not bad, there are several songs have been covered as Chinese, everyone is more familiar with Xu Huaiyu's "Miaomiao" and "Rush Forward", Grasshopper Group, Sun Yue and Du Dewei have also covered their songs.
According to Gu Junye's narration in the talk variety show "Golden Fishery" after 2009, Su Huilun wrote a song for "Cool Dragon" and invited them to Taiwan as concert guests. Although they did not know whether there were any performance restrictions in Taiwan, they thought that they would not come back later, so they tore their clothes and threw hats on the stage. At that time, Big S was in the audience offstage and was attracted by Gu Junye.
A love affair that ends without a hitch
The two have been dating for about a year, and Big S still loves tattoos and wants to put Gu Junye's "with" text at his ankle, but Wen has become a homophonous "nine". It is said that at that time, Big S not only studied Korean for this relationship, but also flew to South Korea every week to meet her boyfriend, and often helped "Cool Dragon" promote "Cool Dragon" in the "Entertainment 100%" hosted by himself. And Gu Junye, because he is already famous, often "disguises" to Taiwan for dating, and both of them have paid a lot for this long-distance relationship.
But soon there were rumors of the two falling in love, and the media exposed a photo of Da S and Gu Junye dancing together in clothes. As an idol, the man was pressured by fans and agencies to deny the relationship. After this, he pushed back the "Entertainment 100%" announcement that had been finalized as early as a month ago, and the show S angrily exclaimed, "What do you know?" The really pathetic is the Big S! "The manly man doesn't dare to say it clearly" "I don't even want to be a friend!" Big S burst into tears on the spot.
The relationship ended in no uncertain terms. On the day of the official announcement of the wedding, Gu Junye explained the reason for the breakup in an interview, because the company was strongly opposed to open love at that time, so he did not dare to admit love, "Everyone knows that the artist's love at that time will not be welcomed, plus I debuted for a period of time, the popularity is very high, the company learned about it and opposed, after a long time of distress, I took the initiative to break up." ”
Career gap
If it is said that when in love, big S is still a little girl's worship of big stars, then after breaking up, the situation of the two has changed. In 2000, an accident ended Gu Junye's career in full swing, his teammate Jiang Yuanlai suffered a car accident and had amputation, and Gu Junye refused the company's solo offer, saying that he would take care of him with Jiang Yuanlai's parents. Gu Junye pushed the wheelchair and Jiang Yuanlai to participate in many activities, and also released an album, which can be called sentient and righteous. And big S because of starring in "Meteor Garden", the popularity of all over Asia, the coffee position has risen sharply. Therefore, when Gu Junye later admitted to the relationship, he was said by many netizens to "rub the heat".
In 2018, Gu Junye participated in a reality show called "The Taste of Love", which is intended to help bachelors in the entertainment industry find love. He revealed on the show that his last relationship was 20 years ago, and pinching his fingers is not the relationship with Big S? The reason why there has been no love for many years, Gu Junye also gave the answer through this opportunity, "There is no better person than her, maybe she really has her place in my heart, Xiyuan is a very good woman, leaving me with a lot of good memories." ”
"Continuing the leading edge"?
And this show has become the biggest reason why netizens are not optimistic about the marriage between the two. Gu Junye, who is more than half a hundred years old, lives with his mother, who is more than seventy years old, and everything in the family is handled by his mother, and he reaches out to open his mouth, so he almost picks out the fish bones for him. It can be seen that the mother is also very worried about her son's marriage and often hangs up on the marriage. But her picky posture makes people uncomfortable, dissatisfied with the divorce of the female guests, jealous of her son and her own shopping for the female guests to choose clothes... When meeting and eating with the female guests, she did not give any face, questioning why she refused her son's surprise confession, and also hinted that the woman was not worthy of her son.
Netizens believe that Gu Junye is a "mother treasure man", the new mother-in-law is not a good stubble, and the degree of turtle hair of big S is also more than enough, coupled with the language barrier (the two communicate in English with Chinese and Korean), there will definitely be great problems in getting along in the future. Netizens also pulled out that he was suspected of having "salty pig hands", and his classmate Cai Yan once said that "Brother Junye has the habit of touching my ass or thighs to speak."
This time to Taiwan, Gu Junye is expected to stay for two months, and then take big S back to South Korea. Some people speculate that Big S is going to settle in South Korea? Xiaomei, the mother of size S, has clearly objected to this, "No! Impossible, to put it bluntly, Xiyuan would not do such a crazy and exaggerated thing, who will take care of the child? "Xiao S also spoke for her sister, it is impossible to go to South Korea, but the man may stay in Taiwan."
Gu Junye talked about his concept of love in the show, saying that he grew up in a single-parent family, so he was very cautious about marriage and had been secretly determined not to divorce if he got married. So, can this wish really come true?
"Princess disease" "love brain"?
It's a warm and sane big woman!
Blue Dragon
"Low self-esteem and stress"
When filming "Meteor Garden", big S, who played Shancai, fell in love with Lan Zhenglong, who was a cameo cousin of The Dominion Temple, at first sight, and she did not shy away from her love for Lan Zhenglong's appearance, and publicized everywhere that "recently there is a new actor in the group, so handsome!" She said that when she and Lan Zhenglong looked at each other, she could feel the continuous love in her eyes. Just as the red big S began to take the initiative regardless of the disregard, the two soon fell in love.
At that time, Lan Zhenglong was still a fledgling small actor, and Big S was already a big star, wanting to cover his boyfriend and help him push away the scenes he didn't like. He also lives in Big S's home and only contacts Big S's family and friends. Lan Zhenglong talked about his inferiority and pressure in this relationship in his breakup letter to Big S: "When you were a shancai, there was a little girl snuggling next to me, but your light was too dazzling. Honey, you should know, in fact, the ordinary is the most attractive place. ”
Big S offered to break up, "The way he treated me let me know he didn't need me anymore." Very determined, she told Lan Zhenglong: "When I say break up, I mean that after I hang up the phone, I will not call you again, and I will delete your phone from the phone." ”
After four years of relationship, Big S did not tell his family and friends, and even Little S knew it when he recorded "Entertainment 100%". Originally just wanted to gag gossip about the sister's love situation, casually asked, did not expect to accidentally harvest an entertainment news, big S calmly said to the camera "broke up", and then continued to broadcast, leaving only Little S alone stunned.
Zhou Yumin
"Don't dare to open your mouth"
In July 2005, Zhou Yumin had a car accident, and Big S went to the hospital to visit, was photographed by the media, and the relationship was exposed. Big S and Zhou Yumin fell in love, and were ridiculed by Little S as watching idol dramas, and Big S also exposed himself because Zai Zai was too handsome, often thinking that he was filming, and he couldn't help but shout "card". During the love period, Zhou Yumin also suffered from depression for a while, and it was Big S who accompanied him to help him get out of the trough. And it is also the big S that stops the "big boy love".
Many people do not encounter too many obstacles in their feelings, they will choose to continue to walk, go to the end of the world, become old husbands and wives, and then complain to each other. Big S don't, if a relationship can no longer let each other grow, then she will choose to end, "I think the other party must not dare to open this mouth, but I feel it, and I dare to open this mouth, I dare to bear this pain." 」 And there is no going back, there is no compound word in the dictionary of the big S. When she was in pain, she shut herself in the toilet and cried for three minutes, then told herself that she could keep her tears until she was filming. Big S's self-control is to restrain even crying.
After two consecutive failed relationships, Big S went through a long period of empty window and decided to stop, and in Hou Patzen's talk show, she dissected: "I used to think that I could always help and take care of someone, I would feel very happy, but I failed." Right now I don't know what kind of person I'm a good fit for. So I'll pause now, and one day I'll know myself better, or learn a little more from someone else, and I'll probably fall in love again. ”
Wang Xiaofei
"Not comfortable to get along with"
When meeting Wang Xiaofei, Big S should be ready. After eating vegetarian for ten years, she because her mother-in-law Zhang Lan was not good at getting pregnant with a vegetarian diet, and began to dip into the meat with a bowl of chicken soup; the beauty king who produced at an advanced age and maintained a weight of 42 kilograms all year round was fat like "a sea dog" during pregnancy; Wang Xiaofei's business had problems, she took the initiative to give her portrait authorization and advertise for the product; after 2012, she did not shoot again...
As for why this marriage ended, in the variety show "Happiness Trio", the relationship between Big S and Wang Xiaofei can also see some clues. When he can't find a husband, Big S will be anxious and extremely sensitive; Wang Xiaofei is also trembling with his wife, and once there is no response, he will feel that he has done something wrong. There is not much contradiction, but in the eyes of the audience, such a relationship is uncomfortable and tiring.
Speech may just be a fuse, the problem has a long history, in the matter of divorce, big S also did as decent as possible, she said, "I chose this time to divorce, because Xiaofei's career is rising again, handsome and not old, it is easy to find a girlfriend with better conditions." The focus of everyone's attention is more on the fact that after the divorce, she enjoyed a white truffle feast alone, and the rich woman's behavior of "continuing to plan without shouting stop".
The initiative of each relationship is in the hands of Big S, love should be warm, if you don't love, you will say goodbye and always face it with reason, as she said, "My feelings are vigorous, but the end is also nail-cut." ”
Repeated predecessors
As soon as the explosive news of the big S flash marriage came out, the Xu family was busy answering the reporter's questions, there were media who made 7 consecutive phone calls to harass Xiaomei, and Xiao S, who was promoting the new album, even called out directly, "Their new programs and new albums have been snatched up by this Cheng biting gold halfway!" "Even the lesser-than-seen aunt was interviewed. It is understandable to ask about the family, but the Taiwan media has come up with the posture of asking all the people who know big S over and over again, and whenever people ask what their views are, Lin Xinru, Jia Jingwen, Wang Weizhong, Huang Ziyou, etc. are all questioned when they appear in public.
The voices of family and friends have been heard, how can the Taiwan media of good things miss the predecessors of Big S? Lan Zhenglong took the lead in congratulating the agent generously "Blessings! That's great! Zhou Yumin's agent refused to respond on the grounds of "filming". Wang Xiaofei heard the word "Xiyuan" and immediately hung up the phone, and on the 12th, she posted on Weibo that she "wished Xu Xiyuan happiness", but more to clarify her own rumors of cheating.
Divorce but a hundred days to remarry, the object in terms of fame and fortune are a big difference in their own, which makes the big S by netizens spit "love brain", once the "cruel person" is no longer, to know that she is known as a "wolf" woman ah! But think about it, cut first and play later, the family only knows a day earlier than the netizens, and puts Xiaomeiqi to swallow antihypertensive drugs... This style is very "big S". Looking at her several relationships, Big S's attitude towards love has always been active, enthusiastic, decisive and resolute, and her reason and opinion have always run through.
The conclusion can be appreciated, but it is not recommended to follow suit
Big S's strength is not only in feelings, she is the main backbone of the Xu family's daughters, is the leader of the sister group, Xiao S said, and Big S is "accompanied by the king like a companion tiger", not at all correct. She is used to standing in the center as the protagonist, the people around her should take her as the most important, will be on the show to carry an old bag of more than ten years, there are differences between girlfriends, she will start to point out "XXX to say a word" "XXX is pretending to be stupid", as well as the famous "eat shrimp theory", "must be a man to help you peel", no one to peel will not eat.
Big S's "turtle hair" to others actually stems from her "cruelty" to herself, she calls herself an "ascetic", not afraid of suffering, not afraid of difficulties. In order to maintain her weight, she only eats one breakfast all year round, and when she is too hungry, she will eat a mouthful of white rice or drink sugar-free Coke; in order to become beautiful, she can try all beauty methods, especially obsessed with whitening; cutting the navel with her bare hands...
Little S also said that Big S is a wolf, and she is always at the forefront, protecting her family and friends. She has the chivalrous spirit of "a roar when the road is uneven", and when she hears the sound of children crying, she rushes up to ring the doorbell and tells the other party that she has called the police; she picks up stray dogs in filming, takes pains to treat the dogs, takes them home and adopts them; when she goes to school, she goes out for the teacher and is retaliated against...
Big S's pride, wisdom, righteousness, courage, strength, and assertiveness constitute her now, even if she really loves blindly, she has extreme rationality and enough willpower to pull herself back, just as the end of each of her relationships is decent. Big S is used to thinking of everything in the worst direction, so there is nothing to be afraid of, and what she pursues is "every day to be less afraid of than the day before." "So don't worry, don't have to evaluate, forty-something crazy, it's rare.
But in real life, it is still not recommended to easily follow the practice of big S, and it is still prudent to treat marriage and think twice. The Big S is obviously a special case that can be appreciated, but not worth referencing. Counting the time, Gu Junye has lifted the isolation, and the newlyweds will be reunited. Dear viewers, just sit back and wait for the Xu family's "reality show" to update.