In a relationship, one-sided dedication alone cannot touch the other person's heart.
After falling in love, most people have a mood of "suffering from gains and losses". They are afraid of losing everything they have, they fear that everything will come to naught, so they want to give more. This is a common phenomenon, because love is too precious, and the loss of it can bring irreparable regret. In love, we should give more and give more to make it better.
In fact, this behavior does not make the other partner love you deeply, but over time, it may cause him to be disgusted and bored.
To get a woman to fall in love with you, there are a few techniques you can employ to pursue her. Among them, the "abandoned cat effect" is one of the most suitable methods for women, so that they can't resist your charm.
The "abandoned cat effect" is often heard about, which refers to cats that are rescued after being abandoned behave particularly well-behaved because they are afraid of being abandoned again. This phenomenon is not only sad, but also reminds us to love animals and give them warm homes and love.
In relationships, the "abandoned cat effect" refers to the fact that once they are dumped, if they have the opportunity to be with the other person again, they will try to behave like the other person. This phenomenon seems to be widespread, probably because the pain of falling out of love makes people not want to lose their loved ones again.
If you want to attract women, you need to master the "abandoned cat effect".
Wei Hang (not his real name) and his girlfriend met in college, and although people around him always called him a "licking dog", he believed that sincere dedication would make his girlfriend single-minded.
Now they have been together for four years, but his girlfriend doesn't seem to have a positive attitude towards him. Except for being spoiled when he needs money, he will hardly take the initiative to contact him at other times. This unenthusiastic attitude bothered him, but he still wanted to be able to continue the relationship.
After being treated indifferently every day, Wei Hang decided to break up with his partner. After leaving, he began to live his life and gradually moved on from the pain of falling out of love.
My girlfriend couldn't handle it, and after the breakup, she felt like she had lost the benefits of Weihang. She began to regret her decision and took the initiative to contact Weihang to get back together.
After the two reconciled, Weihang no longer loved his girlfriend unconditionally as before. His efforts were more restrained and reserved.
Although the actor's feelings for his girlfriend have become colder, his girlfriend is more enthusiastic and proactive, caring about his big and small affairs, and hoping to take care of all aspects of him. This is a common occurrence in emotional stories in general.
Because his girlfriend was very worried that Wei Hang would leave her again, she has now become very worried and is no longer Wei Hang.
Do you get the idea? Unilateral giving does not make a woman truly aware of your feelings for her. You might consider using the "abandoned cat effect" to make her deeply obsessed with you. This will allow you to manage your relationship with her more smoothly.
01. Stay away from her and let her take the initiative to rely on you
If a man sticks to a woman all the time, the woman will feel that she doesn't care about his attitude because he never seems to leave. Don't let a woman think that you can't live without her, but let her know that you can live well on your own. In this way, women will value you more.
Conversely, if you use the "abandon cat effect" to leave a woman for a while, she will start to realize that you are not very obedient to her. It's an effective way for a woman to see your self-worth and charisma.
Even, when women live without you, they feel unaccustomed and sad. This emotion does not easily disappear because love and dependence are important elements in life. It takes time for a woman to adjust and adjust to a new lifestyle.
Since there is an emotional basis between you, women feel fear after leaving you, and they always want to be able to take any opportunity to return to the original feeling. This phenomenon does not only apply to this person, but also occurs in other situations.
Once you reconcile, the woman will become more dependent on you, desperate to please you, and afraid of being abandoned by you. Gradually, she will be willing to be conquered by you.
02. A woman who has been abandoned will cherish you more
Sometimes, the relationship is too smooth, and the woman will forget about your strengths.
You keep giving it to her, and yet she takes it for granted. She thinks you'll never leave her.
In real life, many women are spoiled by male indulgence. When you give in too much and tolerate them, you will unconsciously reinforce their willfulness and brutality. When dealing with women, you must know how to properly maintain your own bottom line and principles.
Now you should use the "abandoned cat effect" to distance herself a little bit and stop being obedient to her like you used to. It's a way to deal with relationship issues, but it needs to be used sparingly.
Women naturally feel uncomfortable when you start to be apathetic, and they crave those good times when you are pampered.
Driven by these emotions, she will take the initiative to please you, always sticking to you, afraid of you leaving. Gradually, she changed from the high side to cherishing you more and more reluctant to you.
03. A hot and cold attitude will make a woman realize your charm
Many men are constantly trying to please women but still can't get their hearts because you think too low of yourself and women can't feel your charm. To attract women's attention, you need to do this: maintain confidence and self-esteem, and show your strengths instead of trying to please them.
Whether you're courting women or getting along with women, you can try to give up the "cat effect" and adopt a hot and cold attitude towards women. It will be a simple and effective way to help you communicate better with women emotionally.
When you feel that a woman is not so enthusiastic about you, you can take a certain distance, which will make the woman curious about you and take the initiative to approach you.
In the process of getting along, the inner game between the sexes is inevitable. When you grasp the softness of a woman's heart, you will be able to control her firmly. It's an important skill, but you need to learn to practice it the right way.
We need to remember that women sometimes need some stimulation to challenge themselves and feel their inner weakness. In this way, you can help her trust you and feel your charm.
Conclusion:
In relationships, the use of skills is not an unspeakable topic. If you want a woman to be fascinated by you, it is very necessary to arouse her innermost emotions. This doesn't mean that you have to make excessive efforts to cater to her, but rather be good at grasping her heart and impressing her in the right way.
Especially when you feel a woman's enthusiasm fading away, boldly try to abandon the cat effect and let the woman take the initiative to miss the days you cherish. That way, she will be very eager to come back to you.
Moreover, the twists and turns of this experience will prompt her to reflect deeply and think seriously about what you mean to her. The process will be meaningful and growing.
To conquer a woman, patience and time are required, and it is a long process that needs to be handled with care.
Be careful not to be courting women when courting them. Sometimes, moderate distancing and coldness are more attractive and make women more attached to you. Hope you understand.