I was surprised to hear that my high school table mate was divorced recently. What's even more surprising is that their marriage only lasted for half a year, and they just got married in the middle of last year. This news is indeed regrettable and regrettable.
My friend couldn't help but sigh that marriage seemed to be the end of love. This perception is widespread in modern society.
Why? This is because my high school classmate was very affectionate with her partner in the circle of friends before she got married, and she often shared their sweet moments.
Some say the reason for the couple's divorce was that the man was having an affair, not other quarrels.
I'm not sure if it's entirely for this reason, but there's no denying that an affair can quickly disintegrate a seemingly intimate marital relationship. This is a very serious issue that needs to be taken seriously.
What does marriage mean to young people today? This is a question worth exploring.
Couples who get married immediately after a period of time are prone to problems in their married life.
Perhaps, most people think that the reason why an affair occurs is that one of the parties is too indulgent in his or her own desires.
In fact, the breakdown of a marriage is not caused by unilateral reasons, but by the common problems of two people.
It is important to remember that there are traces of extramarital affairs for both men and women.
Mr. Qiu and his wife have been married for more than half a year, but now they seem to have no relationship with each other, like a house shared by a stranger of the opposite sex.
Mr. Qiu and his wife met through a blind date, and they didn't know each other well before they got married. But after getting married, they found that each other's personalities and three views were completely inconsistent, which made them feel confused. After all, the choice of a life partner is a crucial matter that needs to be approached with care.
Gradually, Mr. Khoo became reluctant to share his thoughts with his wife, and communication between the two became less and less. Eventually, he couldn't control himself and went to find another woman for love.
In real life, some people get married for the sake of getting married without thinking carefully about whether the parties are suitable or not. However, when such men and women come together, they often encounter countless problems, and eventually divorce is an inevitable result. We need to think more carefully about the important matter of marriage and ensure that the two of us are suitable in order to achieve long-term marital happiness.
Marriage is not just about love, it requires both parties to run in with each other, and they also need to invest time to care for the family and work hard to manage life. Concise and to the point, it is both relaxed and formal.
Under such pressure, it is easy for both parties to feel dissatisfied and dissatisfied with each other, which in turn leads to cheating.
In order to reduce conflicts after marriage, it is very necessary to understand each other and run in together for a period of time before marriage. Only by doing so can you ensure the smooth running of your marriage.
Husband and wife are separated from each other
Xiao Tan and her husband have been married for many years, and not long ago due to the separation of the family, the husband and wife had a lot of disagreements and contradictions.
The root cause of this conflict is that the husband's sister wants to divide a part of the family property, and the mother-in-law supports this idea. However, Xiao Tan firmly objected, believing that it was unfair. This dispute led to frequent quarrels between the husband and wife, and family harmony was broken.
Although the issue has been resolved, Xiao Tan realizes that a rift has appeared in her relationship with her husband.
The two of them are still lying in the same bed, but their minds are different from each other, and they can no longer face each other calmly.
In the cold atmosphere, Xiao Tan and her husband began to have some ambiguities with other members of the opposite sex, and no longer seemed to care about their marriage.
If you only think about your own interests, and even pursue your own interests in ways that hurt each other, then continuing to maintain this marriage has lost its meaning of existence.
Both men and women are considered "single" once they are separated from their partners, and they no longer consider themselves married. This is a common perception because people want to start over after a divorce, but it can also be for reasons of shame or self-esteem. In any case, the married label will only make sense if people are truly interdependent.
When he is in the outside world, he will also be interested in all members of the opposite sex and look for new hunting targets.
You should be cautious when you perceive the distance between you and your partner. If these issues are not addressed in a timely manner, they can have serious consequences.
Both sides resisted communication and spoke in a perfunctory manner
If your partner wants to have a long and happy marriage with you, then he will be willing to communicate and communicate with you. At the same time, you are willing to share your joys and sorrows and build a better future with your partner.
When you find that you have nothing to say when you have nothing left to eat with your friends, you should be alarmed.
At this time, your marriage is in a negative state, reluctant to talk to each other and no longer showing your true selves. Despite the contradictions, both sides chose to keep them in their hearts and digest them for themselves. This situation is neither conducive to the improvement of the relationship nor to the release of personal feelings. We should be brave enough to face the difficulties and communicate openly in order to complete the restoration and thrive.
By the time these problems arise in your behavior, the marriage signals have become less optimistic.
Even if you want to save the situation and take the initiative to ask, the other party may not want to pay attention to your efforts, and will only answer a few words perfunctorily, and then never communicate with you face-to-face.
In a marital relationship, if your partner's attitude towards you has become so cold, then there is a good chance that he has become centrifuged. Further, he may have been in a relationship with someone else on the outside.
Both men and women can sometimes suddenly feel disgusted or perfunctory towards their partners. This attitude is likely to be a sign of infidelity. Therefore, we should be vigilant against this phenomenon and increase our attention and care for the other half.
Conclusion:
Starting an affair is often hidden in these tiny pieces of evidence.
If you can detect the problem early, you will have a chance to save it; If you choose to turn a blind eye to the problem, you may find yourself in an irreparable situation.
Please note that marriage is not just a matter for one person, and it cannot be left to your senses. When you have the idea of cheating, you need to think more about your partner and family to avoid making big mistakes. Hopefully, you understand these and face your life partner with a smile.
A good marriage doesn't come naturally, it needs to be shaped by husband and wife. Please be more tolerant and understanding of each other, solve conflicts together when they arise, and never give up easily.