Write at the beginning:
Time will always be a little cold, just like the surface of the water, the fog is steaming, and it is impossible to see the other shore;
There will always be a thin coolness in the years, just like the alleys of Jiangnan Water Town, drizzling rain, and there is no end in sight.
The time of spring will always bring a hint of laziness to people, and bring a hint of joy, "laziness" is because of the warmth of the spring wind, and "joy" is because the cold winter has finally dissipated.
In the depths of time, there will always be a hint of fatigue, stained with dust, and there will always be a heart that is immersed in ups and downs, unable to extricate itself.
People, it seems to like loneliness, but if they are lonely for a long time, they still want to come to a hilarity; people, seemingly very strong, but if they are strong for a long time, they still want to find a reliance.
Flowers blossom and fall, year after year, come and go, there are regrets and harvests.
In each of our hearts, there will be some corners that others cannot reach. In that little corner, there were some wounds and pains lingering, and some wandering and loss lingering.
Mr. Su Dongpo once said: The taste of the world is Qing Huan.
In today's epidemic situation, perhaps, we can better appreciate the deep meaning. The day is really not Guangsha tens of millions, nor is it a delicacy, but a warm family, a friend's well-being, a green vegetable tofu, and a good night's sleep.
Life is a long road, don't think too much, life is only once; the rest of life is a long road, let the heart have a clear joy, in order to have warm years.
There will always be "unexpected warmth" that soothes you
Time rushes, let how many years pass, never to return.
The sea of people is vast, so how many people, and you pass by.
However, in the comings and goings, there will always be some people who bring you some warmth and let you feel the goodness of people's hearts on a cold day.
A few days ago, I encountered some problems in writing, when I was troubled, I chatted with a teacher, although I was never masked with him, and I rarely communicated with him, but he patiently helped me analyze, and also dispelled my inner anxiety, and deeply felt the warmth and kindness of a person's heart.
The hustle and bustle of the world makes it difficult for us to see through people's hearts, but many times, the more small a thing, the easier it is to make you feel the healing of the heart.
Every time you calm down, think about the people and things you encounter, those that make you irritable, annoy you, make you angry... Whenever you meet someone who understands you, he gives you strength, which will certainly dilute your negative emotions and make you calm down.
My father had a mantra: there is no knot that cannot be untied.
Every time I complained to him about something, he always comforted me in this way. When you were young, you didn't understand, and now that you are getting older, you can understand the old man's thoughts more and more: yes, time is a good medicine, always can dilute your scars; you meet people who can warm you, it is your secret recipe, he will make you feel human love.
Therefore, the rest of your life is a long road, don't worry, there will always be unexpected warmth, ironing you.
There will always be "the joy of the world" that will make you live a safe and pure life
The city where I live is very close to the sea, more than twenty minutes by car.
Every summer, tourists from all over the world are endless, and every time, they and their families will always dress up as tourists and shuttle through the crowds, this feeling is wonderful, as if they have forgotten the earthly world of wind and dust servants and found the joy of ordinary days.
Just because, days, always need us to find something new.
If you are accustomed to eating fish and shrimp, you will want to taste the beef and mutton stuffed on the side; you are used to drinking coffee, and occasionally you want to have a cup of milk tea; you live in a tall building, you will long for the tranquility of the countryside; you live in a quiet deep alley, you will want to go to the noisy city center...
Just like Su Dongpo, on holidays, go to the mountains to eat wild vegetables, drink small wine floating with snow foam, "into HuaiQingluo gradually spread, snow foam milk flowers floating noon." Try the spring plate of artemisia annua shoots, and the taste of the world is qing huan", how cheerful!
This kind of joy, like the flowers in the spring, is red and willow green, which makes people envious, and this state of mind, like a pot of charcoal in winter, makes people feel relieved.
And, the deceitfulness and deception we experience in our daily lives, in front of these, it seems that we will not be able to lift our heads, and that sense of alienation, simplicity, will make you extremely eager and make you grateful.
Yes, I still remember when I was a child, I would always see the uncle in the alley, carrying a bird cage every day to go out to walk the birds in the morning, wherever I went, I would chat with people and tease the birds, and now, it is difficult to see this kind of situation again, that kind of leisurely, safe posture, which makes people miss it incomparably.
Nowadays, most people go out early in the morning and return drunk at night, although it is not to pay attention to material conditions, but it is difficult to get spiritual taste.
Man, less affection, more earthly tackiness.
Therefore, the rest of your life is a long road, don't be impatient, put Qing Huan, pick up, you can live out your own pure nature.
There will always be "going through vicissitudes and suffering" to usher in a light cloud and a light wind
Life is heavy, because sometimes, even we don't know what will happen in the next life;
Life is very light, because sometimes, even we ourselves do not know that we have carried so many responsibilities and burdens on our shoulders.
When we were young, we always looked forward to growing up quickly, and now think about how stupid it is, at that time, we can not worry about life is difficult, do not have to worry about children learning, do not have to worry about parents getting old, can sleep night and night, every day smile often.
At present, we are always distressed and worried at the same time, and we always feel that the good life is often joking with us. But, thankfully, no matter what life is like, everyone is trying to live as they like.
Therefore, we will always be accustomed to putting our troubles in the wind, turning pain into flowing water, turning big things into small things, and making small things small... No matter what kind of situation he encounters, if a person has the heart to delete complexity and simplify, he will certainly be able to live a very relieved life.
People, always experienced, in order to grow, always encounter setbacks, in order to expand their own pattern, will always encounter some rotten people and bad things, more and more can expand their own bosom.
When one day, you can look back with a shallow smile and face the bittersweet and bittersweet; use it to leave no intention, to face the criticism of others. Then, you will definitely be able to break through the wind and rain, run through the big waves, usher in the calm of the wind and waves, and see the blue sea and blue sky.
Therefore, the rest of your life is a long road, don't worry, you must believe, you always have to experience some vicissitudes and sufferings, in order to live out your own clouds and light wind.
Remember a sentence in "Human Disqualification": If she can avoid the violent ecstasy, naturally there will be no grief.
It can be seen that many helplessness, loneliness, pain, trouble, anger, sorrow in life... These so-called "bitterness" are nothing more than paper tigers.
When your heart is strong enough, when you have been "hot" in boiling water, "stepped" in ice and snow, and "sunk" in the mud, you will find that all of this constitutes the background of your life, so that no matter what you experience in the future, you can find your own happiness and leisure.
The joys and sorrows of the world, happiness and sorrow, are just a thought.
If you have a wide state of mind, then everything is beautiful, and if you have a narrow state of mind, everything is full of ditches and bumps.
Therefore, live simpler, live more freely, live more thoroughly, portray calmness and calmness on the face, precipitate the joy and tranquility in the bottom of the heart, and leave the "cloud light" and "light wind" in the coming years.
Don't think about it too much, this is only once in your life.
Life is long, may everyone be able to find their own simplicity, happiness, happiness in the hustle and bustle of the world.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!