People always feel that as long as a man is willing to have a relationship with you, then the man is absolutely in love with you.
In fact, many men are willing to have a relationship with a woman even if they don't love a woman, and at this point, men and women are different.
So women don't feel like you're having a relationship with a man, so the two of you can be long-lasting. Sometimes after two people have a relationship, it is the moment when the relationship comes to an end.
Men love a woman very much and no longer have a relationship, some of the above men just want to have a relationship with this woman, just to satisfy their own selfish desires, and there are also people who have never loved this woman in their hearts.
If a man gives you these three things, he loves a woman more than he just wants to have a relationship with her.
01.
care
The reason why a lot of love fails is because this man does not care enough about women, and women need others to pamper, especially a man to pamper.
If a woman is cared for by the other party, the woman will also be very moved, and the girl is still easy to feel the warmth of the other party.
Many women do not feel that men care about themselves when they are with men, so this woman will be separated from each other.
Nowadays, this social pressure is very large, when we face the darkness of society outside, when we return home, we always think that there is a person who cares about themselves, when we face the pressure of study, our object must also know how to care for us, so that our hearts are not so lonely.
Therefore, the most important thing for a woman is to get the care of the other party.
If a man gives you care, it means that the man loves you in his heart.
If a man is with you just to have some relationship with you, it means that the man is only trying to satisfy his own inner thoughts and never cares about your feelings.
If a man is more concerned about you, when he has a relationship with you, he should respect you enough and do not want to cause you psychological harm, so he will not force you, if a man does this, it means that this man is a real man, and it also shows that this man really has you in his heart.
Some men pretend to care about this woman when they need a woman, but when they don't need this woman, they disappear without a trace, and when a woman wants to find this man, the man disappears, but when a man needs a woman, the woman must be by the man's side.
Love is often two-way, not a person silently paying, if a man is not so concerned about women, then this relationship should not be left.
02.
accompany
The most important thing in love is companionship, and I once watched a movie that really brought people to tears.
The birth of the two people is not very good, so the two people went to the big city to work hard, and then the two people's careers became bigger and bigger, but the two people separated.
In "Passing Through Your World", there is such a sentence:
"There is a place called Daocheng, and I want to go there with my most beloved, to see the blue sky, to see the white snowy mountains, to see the golden meadows, to see an autumn fairy tale. I'm going to tell her that if you don't live in your heart, you're dead! I want to tell her that the thing of falling in love is to be together forever. ”
Some love is missed to know how to cherish, so just like the above sentence, when you know how to cherish, you will think of leaving the best things to the next person, because you have lost the previous relationship, so you have to firmly grasp it in this relationship.
The most important thing in love is the companionship of a person, and nowadays, the means of transportation in this society are more developed, but the time spent with each other is getting shorter and shorter.
We have been working hard all our lives, trying to make ourselves better, so we will not hesitate to lose some time with our loved ones, and we will lose some things to accompany our loved ones, and use these times to do some things that we have worked hard to struggle for, and we do not know that we are losing.
When I was in elementary school, I did this multiple choice question:
In the beginning, you are allowed to choose beauty, money, power, status, health, and feelings. Asking you to cross out one at the beginning, cross out another one later, and finally only leave you with one left.
In fact, sometimes if a man really cares about this woman, he will save other time and put it on this woman, because this woman is the most important, and the last one is the most important.
03.
Single-minded
Today's society is really mixed, you have been with a person for a long time, but you have not found that this person and other people also have a leg.
Some girls are still relatively simple, always feel that this person is good enough for themselves, so they will feel that this person may only have himself in his heart, in fact, this person is a sea king, but also a central air conditioner, good for everyone.
In this society, everyone hates the kind of people who go around picking flowers and weeds, and in the end no one wants them, but there are many people who are indeed like this.
Wilde said:
"Hearts are broken."
In the middle of being together, we will also be heartbroken, and in the end, we will not believe in others, so we hastily find someone to marry, in fact, at the beginning we still have the love in our hearts, and later the reason why we have such a choice, on the one hand, is because we are not strong enough in our hearts, but more is the influence of the outside world on us.
If a man just wants to have a relationship with you, then the man may still want to have sex with other women, but if the man is particularly single-minded to you, then after the man has a relationship with you, he will only love you alone, and will not be half-passionate about you because he has a relationship with you.
When a woman has a relationship with a man, she must understand the man's attitude towards love, and if the man is not single-minded about love, she must know how to think twice, otherwise, the regret is yourself.
Some love needs to be felt by the heart, and people in this life are looking for someone who hurts themselves. Find someone who knows cold and knows hot, and you will feel that the world is warm.
Maybe women will sometimes compare, always feel that their half is not as good as their friend's other half, so there will be some gaps in their hearts.
In fact, sometimes, as long as a person is good enough for you, it is enough, and a man who has done the above three points for you is enough to show your position in the other person's mind.
Compared to women who have been cheated on by men in their relationships and lost their hearts and bodies, you will find that the person next to you is still good enough to have you.