Zi Yue: The threesome will have my teacher! After reading this sentence, I also doubted, how can the threesome ensure that the other two in my peers are better than me and can be my teacher? If there is a rogue or even a criminal next to me, is it also my teacher?
In fact, most of us have only read the above, and if you read the following in the Analects, you will understand.
Zi Yue: If you are a threesome, you will have my teacher. Choose what is good and follow it, and change it from the bad.
Teacher Kong said that when three people walk together, there must be one of them who can be my teacher.
Being better than me is certainly my teacher, and I want to learn from him;
My teacher is not as good as myself. Because the shortcomings and deficiencies seen in him are just used to reflect on themselves, to change them, and to encourage them if they do not; so they are all my teachers.
Therefore, Confucius's words are discounted, and its core essence is that not only three people, as few as one person to a hundred people, everyone around you can become your teacher.
Research and learning is not only to work books, but also to learn to observe in work and life:
These two sentences look very plain, but in fact, it is not easy to do.
On the one hand, seeing people who are inferior to themselves, most of them are arrogant and do not put others in their hearts;
On the other hand, if you really see people who are better than yourself, it is not easy to say that you can really learn from others from the heart.
There are many people who are jealous if they don't get it right.
Therefore, it is really not a matter of saying that there must be a teacher in the threesome; a person must be both confident and humble, and only by grasping this balance point can it be possible to take people as teachers and people as mirrors! Read the Analects well and you will find more of the light of wisdom!