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Some time ago, a friend gave birth to the second eldest, I went to see her and saw her mother-in-law making milk powder for the baby.
We talked, I said that when the eldest was breastfeeding, how to get to the second is milk powder feeding, is not enough breast milk? The friend said: "There is milk the next day after the birth of the baby The milk is still quite sufficient, but I don't want to breastfeed, and I don't want to experience the bitterness of breastfeeding in a child." Later, I endured the swelling pain and drank back to milk tea, and now there is no milk. ”
As her friend spoke, her mother-in-law heard it too. Just say: "Breast milk is good for the baby, there is no breastfeeding, you have to feed milk powder, purely spend more money." Friends say I want to feed as much as I want, and the milk powder doesn't make you spend money. Her mother-in-law didn't say anything anymore. ”
It is said that breast milk is the best food for the baby, breastfeeding is also particularly convenient, and the elderly parents who have breast milk let breastfeed. The Authority of the World Health Organization recommends that breast milk is best fed until the age of two. From the family side, breast milk can save a lot of money, after all, the current milk powder is not cheap.
But now more and more young mothers choose to feed with milk powder, even if there is enough milk. Why do many mothers have enough breast milk but still choose to feed with formula? The reason is too real.
Breast milk is more likely to cause out-of-shape
Although once a woman is pregnant, she cannot avoid losing shape, and after pregnancy and childbirth, it is difficult for women's figure to return to the original. If you add breastfeeding, in order to ensure that there is milk, you can't have the idea of losing weight Every meal must be eaten more, otherwise it is easy to be hungry. Although breast milk is conducive to weight loss, but eat more, do not exercise and take care of the child's tiredness, hard work and pressure, breastfeeding mothers can only go on the fat road. There are also some mothers who, in order to be afraid of being fat, do not eat, slowly there is no milk, and they want to breastfeed.
Breast milk only traps the mother alone, which is very unfair to the mother
Many of the mothers around me who have enough breast milk and wean ourselves to feed milk powder have this idea. As a nursing mother, I also experienced the kidnapping of my mother by breast milk.
Breast milk only traps the mother alone, what should others do, breastfeeding only binds the mother to death at home, even going out has become a luxury, time is not free or a small matter. The point is that as long as the child is slightly uncomfortable, everyone else says that the mother eats randomly Every day someone chases you behind and tells you that you can't eat that you can't eat, but when there is no milk, you say that you eat less. This kind of mental pressure is the most torturous for breastfeeding mothers.
More importantly, breastfeeding, it is easy to take the baby as the responsibility of the mother. Getting up at night is the mother, feeding is the mother, taking the baby is still the mother! Others can stand by, especially many dads. Not to mention the pain when the first feeding, in addition to their own others can not feel, the pain of the milk, fever others can not replace.
Don't morally kidnap mothers who must breastfeed, it seems that now mothers have more choices, and insisting on mixed feeding is also an option. Others have no right to interfere, let alone to kidnap the mother with the child's health, and don't take other mothers are not the same, on your pretentious words a new mother, unwilling is unwilling, the greatness of the mother is by no means whether she personally breastfeeds the child.
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