Not forgetting the form, frustration is not out of shape, human nature has a weakness, that is, overwhelmed, frustrated and out of shape.
If we are to succeed, we must overcome this weakness of human nature. That is to say, when you are proud, you must be indifferent, do not forget, and treat it with a peaceful heart.
Otherwise, behind the pride is often frustration. When you are frustrated, you must have a firm fighting spirit, not afraid of darkness and obscurity, and firmly believe that it will be a sunny day after surviving.
In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is said: "In the bitter heart, we must always have pleasure in the heart, and when we are proud, we must guard against the sadness of frustration." ”
This means that in the midst of hardships and hardships, you can often feel the infinite joy of your heart, and only this joy is the true joy of life; if you are arrogant in your words and deeds when you are proud, you will often sow the seeds of misfortune and lead to future pain and sadness.
Full of ambition and proud of the spring breeze, it is the realm of life that everyone yearns for.
However, when you are proud, you must not forget the form, if you are carried away by a momentary pride, you will be self-contained and stagnant; if you are self-righteous because of a momentary pride, no one in sight, and you are on top, then you may not be far from failure.
In the early 1980s, Mr. Luo made a fortune selling jeans.
In 1992, he opened more than a dozen companies in Taiwan and the mainland, involving seven or eight industries such as clothing, catering, schools, and construction. At that time, Luo Tian'an's assets quickly soared to several hundred million.
Therefore, when he was in his thirties, he drove around the Cadillac, and there were many assistants, secretaries, and friends around him, spending thousands of dollars every day, and At this time, Luo Tian'an was arrogant and arrogant.
However, due to the excessive diversification of investment, after the Asian financial crisis in 1998, Luo Tian's capital chain broke, and he went bankrupt overnight and became almost nothing.
At this time, Luo Tian'an was discouraged and desperate, and he was extremely distressed. He often shut himself in a hut to reflect...
In 1999, impoverished, he came to Shanghai alone to retake the only remaining "Christine Cake Shop" in all his investments.
At 6 o'clock the next morning, Luo Tian'an came to the company, took the initiative to take off his suit, changed into work clothes, changed his usual toes, spoke sincerely to the workers, led colleagues in the production department to clean toilets, cleaning tools, and solicited business with the clerks to personally promote products.
Luo Tian'an secretly warned himself: We must treat everyone as equals and subdue people with virtue.
A year later, Christine went from loss-making to profitable, and her popularity grew day by day. Soon, Luo Tian'an used the money he earned to expand and acquire 6 production bases, and the total production base has been expanded to 10,000 square meters.
His company has become a well-known enterprise nominated by Forbes, and many Fortune 500 companies hope to become strategic partners with him.
Later, in an interview with the media, Luo Tian'an said with deep feeling: "The thing I regret the most is that when I was at the most beautiful, I was arrogant and proud, so that I lost my way." ”
Although he once had regrets in his life, he continued to struggle after strengthening his faith and reshaped his brilliant life.
In people's lives, there are always times of frustration, people are prone to lose their attitude when they are frustrated, and once they are frustrated, they will take advantage of the gap and despair, and it is easy to make people depressed, self-destructive, and lose the motivation to move forward.
Therefore, when you are frustrated, you must stabilize yourself with inner concentration and be frustrated without losing your attitude.
When frustrated, we must laugh at life with an optimistic attitude, summarize and reflect with our hearts, and continue to struggle with full enthusiasm until we win a new world.
People are most likely to be oblivious and lose their vigilance when they are in good times, and once they forget all kinds of evil thoughts and evil deeds, they will take advantage of the gap, so they will often fall behind.
Therefore, being a person is expensive to look at your own gains and losses with a detached heart, and you must not forget your form when you are proud, and do not lose your attitude when you are frustrated.
Kazuo Inamori has been in business for more than 40 years, and his achievements are extraordinary, he single-handedly created two Fortune Global 500 companies, and after he retired, he took refuge in Buddhism and concentrated on improving his mind.
He believes: "Life is the process of constantly improving the mind. With such detachment and pursuit, people have a vision of overlooking life. ”
He said with deep feeling: "It is not only failure that is a test, success is also a test." Some people always feel that they are great after success, and their attitude becomes arrogant and rude, which means that their human nature has degenerated; but others have succeeded and can realize that they cannot achieve such achievements on their own, so they work harder and further improve themselves. Whether it succeeds or fails, the true winner can be treated with peace of mind, thus tempering the mind. ”
In life, if you look down on the proud things and keep a normal heart, you can calmly face frustration, and when bad luck suddenly comes, you can have the courage to overcome it.
Look away from the frustrated things, treat them indifferently, face the new life without humility, start everything from the beginning, and maybe there will be a better ending.
Gain without joy, loss without sorrow, this is a kind of realm. People who are not humble, no matter when and where, can get the respect of others and the peace of mind.
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