Guan Hanqing's "Four Pieces of Jade": Walk as you like, sit at ease, drink when you are thirsty, eat when you are hungry, sing when you are drunk, and lie down to Sha Yin when you are sleepy. The sun and the moon are long, the sky and the earth are wide, and they are idle and happy!
Life is a practice, and bitterness is all in the state of mind.
We must regard happiness as a habit, and when we are happy, we can have a better state of mind and face the life that comes to us.
01
Have a self-deprecating and forgiving heart.
Life is like the sea, and it is destined that life will not be peaceful.
Hurt and tears are the proper meaning of life, so you must have a self-deprecating and relieved heart, so as not to let yourself fall into pain and cannot extricate yourself.
02
Have your own mind.
A person is different because he not only has different appearances, but also different thoughts.
No matter how outstanding the appearance is, if there is no thought, what is the difference between the world and the worm?
03
Always keep a childlike heart.
The ancients said that "ten years old is not worried", and when people were childhood, they were full of curiosity about the world, full of love, and eager to explore the world.
Happy all day, playful, free, not knowing what sorrow is.
The reason why the childlike heart is pure is because of simplicity, and simplicity is the source of happiness, if you want to keep yourself away from sadness, let yourself keep a childlike heart.
04
Remember to live for yourself.
Any mature and independent person should first be a self-pleasing person.
To live is not to cater to others and flatter the world, but to please yourself and enjoy yourself.
Many people have lived half their lives without understanding one thing: life is for themselves, and has nothing to do with others.
Even if people win the whole world, what is the point if they lose themselves? So remember to live for yourself.
05
Put your health first.
In this life, the body is the most important, the body is 1, the other is 0, there is no 1, no matter how many 0s, it is useless.
When you fall, your work will be done by others, but your home will collapse from then on.
All workplace glory, all work achievements, in the face of health, are not worth mentioning.
06
Take good care of yourself and make beauty last.
No matter what age you are, your love of beauty cannot disappear.
To make yourself beautiful and spiritually spirited every day is the greatest affirmation of yourself.
07
Know how to let go at the right time.
Love is not a lottery, it is a prize redemption.
Love is not the source of our happiness, let alone the whole of life.
Although love is beautiful, it is not necessarily long-lasting, if you cry more than laugh, then let go.
08
Stay away from people who are obsessed with taking
In this world, no one owes anyone. Many times, it is a love that others are willing to help, and it is a duty not to help.
In life, those who blindly ask for it, refuse when they should refuse, turn their faces when they should turn their faces, and do not let goodness consume meaninglessly.
Your kindness and true affection must be left to those who deserve it.
09
Consumption cannot be blind.
Vanity and comparison are weaknesses of human nature, which often make people lose their minds.
So remember to stay awake and buy what you want to buy, buy what you want to buy.
10
Don't suppress bad feelings.
When you are unhappy, use effective methods as soon as possible to drain it, and don't let it stagnate for too long.
Bad emotions always lead to bad life.
11
Occasionally make yourself transparent and don't hesitate to comment on others.
Some things, stuffy will only make us more bored, find someone to talk to, is also a good way to solve.
12
Treat friends, gentlemen's friendship is as light as water, plain is true.
True friends are sincere and do not cheat each other; Heart for heart, not negative.
The "Thousand Character Text" says: Make friends and score points, cut and sharpen the rules.
The real strong never want to be gregarious on the surface, but to be loyal to their hearts and beneficial to each other.
13
Treat the person who hurt you and don't forget it, but don't hold a grudge either.
When you hold a grudge, you carry a heavy burden, resentment of others, in fact, you are hurting yourself.
Tolerance is the best salvation for oneself, but it is not forgiveness for the enemy.
It should be remembered that no matter what kind of injury, it is not the whole of life, to live in the present moment and live your current life.
14
For those who do not speculate, treat them with courtesy and stay away.
Everyone has their own understanding, do not speculate for more than half a sentence, there is no need to quarrel, there is no need to forcibly melt, each is fine.
15
For those who slander themselves, contempt and ignorance are the best counterattacks.
"The Legend of Relying on the Sky and Slaying the Dragon": He is strong by him, and the breeze blows the hills; He crosses by him, and the bright moon shines on the great river; He hated himself, he hated himself, and I was really angry with myself.
You don't have to take the words and opinions of others to heart, live your own life, and in the long run, facts will speak.
16
For the pain, let time slowly heal, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed.
There is no pain that cannot be forgotten, no river that has stepped into the past, please believe that time is the best antidote.
17
For pleasures, try to keep them and let them stay longer.
There is an old saying that life is not as good as it should be in the world; What we can do is to think about one or two things and not think about eight or nine.
Since ancient times, the immortals have no other way but to be happy and not worried.
18
For work, work hard but not go crazy.
If you want to be successful, you must give it your all;
Do your best, resign yourself to fate, don't let anxiety and troubles occupy our hearts, it's not worth it.
19
For hobbies, be as broad as possible, but do not lose your mind.
A person is terrible if he does not have a hobby of entertainment; It is sad for a person to have only hobbies.
20
For the family, be faithful but not rigid.
Family is love, tolerance, and harbor, and we must be loyal to the family;
More importantly, learn to operate, bring happiness into the home, and leave the good temper to the loved ones.
21
For money, pursue but not keep money.
Western Jin Dynasty Lu praised "The Theory of the God of Money": Dear as a brother, the word is Kong Fang. If you lose it, you will be poor, and if you gain it, you will be rich and strong.
Money is not everything, but no money is impossible.
The key is to be the master of money, not the slave of money.
Money is a good thing, but not the best thing, and you can't sacrifice the best for the next best thing.
22
For enjoyment, do not miss, but do not indulge.
Life must be proud, do not make the golden bottle empty against the moon.
People live a lifetime, grass and trees in autumn, enjoy in time, don't let time pass in a hurry, but regret and sigh.
Life has a degree, and living is a disaster, and indulging in pleasure is often more than worth the loss.
In this life, people must always have loose and tight, and life can have taste.
Be happy, don't worry too much about gains and losses, you will find in the future that life is not about gains and losses, but about experiences.
Be happy, don't care too much about fame and fortune, when you are old, you will find that the most important label for a person is health.
Be happy, there is nothing to worry about, there is food, clothing, a road, life and death, nothing major.