The so-called "love does not know what to do, always deep", falling in love with a person does not need a reason, is to want to be with her, this is what many men love to say in pursuit of the women they like.
It is not so easy to pursue women, some men come to catch, girlfriends change one after another, as long as he wants to chase, there is no one who can't catch his hand.
Some men have a hard time meeting a woman they like, no matter how to show kindness, it is like kicking to the iron plate, you can chat, but always feel that the relationship can not go any further, the man is in a hurry, do not know whether to give up or continue.
People who give up on what they like are unwilling, and they always feel that if they insist on it, there may be hope. However, there is no hope in continuing to get along, and there is no motivation to persevere.
Feelings need to be responded to, if it is always a man in a unilateral effort, in the end it is impossible to hold the beauty back.
Some women enjoy the process of being pursued, do not refuse, do not give a reply, nothing more than want to use men as spare tires.
In fact, a woman never shares these three things with you, then she does not love you, you can not catch up.
Not sharing the relationship between two people, but leaving you immediately.
Women who long for love will be like the Zixia Fairy in "Journey to the West", hoping that their "favorite person is a hero of the world, and one day he will step on the seven-colored clouds to marry me." ”
This kind of vision will make many women set their mate selection goals very high, after encountering a good man to pursue her, she enjoys the man's kindness to her, but this man and the goal in her heart are too far away, she can't accept it in her heart, she can't fall in love with this man.
However, she enjoys the process of being pursued, which can satisfy her vanity, but she knows that this man is not what she wants, and she will not give affection in getting along, and she is vain and snake with men.
When a man clearly confesses that he wants to establish a relationship, she will find an excuse to refuse, but will give the man a little hope, for example, I don't know if I like how you feel, and the man thinks that he still has hope when he hears it, and then continues to pay.
If the man pursues her for a few months, she is still willing to leave, unwilling to share the relationship between the two people, and always deliberately keep a distance, then there is no need to continue.
She doesn't share her personal "privacy", but always likes to change the subject.
Pursuing a woman, you definitely want to know everything about her, and in the process of getting along, you will inevitably ask some questions about work, family, life, preferences and so on.
This is the process of understanding each other, but many men will find themselves saying a lot, only to not explain their ancestors clearly, but only to know the basic information of women, and even where the other party's hometown is.
In the process of each chat, the man can feel the woman's defensive psychology, she does not say personal privacy (referring to detailed personal information and real inner thoughts), and always shifts the topic.
Men will feel that the relationship between two people has not developed further, always stuck at a point, and cannot move forward.
Such a woman will wrap herself into a "rice dumpling", will not analyze her own heart, nor answer men's questions positively, but always like to throw away some questions that men do not know how to reply, just want to see men bother and work hard for her.
As long as the man says or does something that makes her dissatisfied, she will immediately get angry and express her dissatisfaction, let the man make up for her, nothing more than wanting more gifts or making the man pay more.
Such a woman is very good at games, and men with no emotional experience are not her opponents at all, and it is easy to be tricked by her.
Does not share her love plan, but always implies that she longs for love.
Such a woman, like an angler, always loves to put a long line and let the man see a little hope, but does not give a clear answer.
When a man asks her standard for her future partner, she will not answer positively, either saying that she believes in feelings, or saying that she is good for herself, as for what it feels like, what is good, she will not say anything, love to let the man guess her mind, but do not say it.
It's easy for a man to get along with such a woman, not knowing what she wants, and even if she is given what she wants, she will not feel good because she does not like him as a person and just enjoys the process of being pursued.
Although many women like to let men guess their own minds, women who really like a person, she will take the initiative, even if it is implied that the man or she takes the initiative to guide the man, the man can feel that she is working hard for the relationship.
A woman who does not share a love plan, but only targets people she does not like, and in the face of people she likes, she will all kinds of visions for the future of love.
Let people not see the future of getting along, it will make people disappointed, pay more will feel unworthy.
Psychologist Sternberg's "love triangle theory" says: passion, intimacy, and commitment are the three cornerstones of love.
A woman always gives men a feeling of seeing flowers in the fog in their relationships, and they cannot establish intimate relationships and have no passion, because women's estrangement always makes men feel that there is an irrevocable distance between each other.
Without passion, without intimacy, and without commitment, this person doesn't love you and you can't chase it.
If a woman falls in love with a person, her heart is very eager, especially in the case of deep love for each other, she will take the initiative to establish an intimate relationship.
Gu Qingyu in "Heart Residence" has always been obsessed with her first love, and since she re-met her first love, her heart has been chaotic. She took the initiative to go to him, even if she was blocked by him, when she met again, she took the initiative to ask him to be sorry, listen to musicals together, plan to watch movies, etc., she can't wait.
Another suitor, Zhan Xiang, no matter how to give her a courtesy gift, she never considered it, always hinting at keeping her friends away.
When feeling the fact that women don't love themselves, men have to learn to turn around, don't waste time and energy for someone who doesn't love themselves, people who don't love you, you can't get into his eyes, let alone his heart, then learn to let go.
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