Truly beautiful feelings are based on mutual need and dependence.
If the person you love doesn't need you, your presence is dispensable to him, thinner than air, and he doesn't love you at all.
Love is a light in the dark night, a comfort when you are lost, an encouragement when you fall, and an outstretched hand after a disaster.
For women, if a middle-aged man really loves you, he will give you more tolerance and kindness, kindness and kindness.
Because he loves you, he will silently give you love and sincerity, always think from your point of view, and give you meticulous care and considerate care.
In fact, whether a middle-aged man really cares about you, there is no need to test, there is no need to ask, just need to feel with your heart to know the answer.
When he really likes you, he will even show infinite tenderness and love in his eyes, and will be extra dependent on and trusting you.
If he is usually too cold and selfish to you, neither willing to spend time with you, nor willing to spend time and energy for you, then you should know that he may not care so much about you, and he may end this useless relationship at any time.
Middle-aged feelings are like an old house on fire, and the fire of love is burning more and more vigorously, and it cannot be extinguished.
So, what are the signs if a middle-aged man loves you more and more?
1, living habits and you are more and more similar
When a middle-aged man has feelings for you, he will try to cultivate a tacit understanding with you, whether in terms of living habits or hobbies, he will try to be consistent with you.
The more middle-aged men who love you, the more they will carefully observe the details of your life.
Because he cares about you, he can't wait to fit into your world.
When you like to eat chili peppers, even if he can't eat too spicy food, he will try to eat chili peppers with you.
When you love sports or travel, although he is more homely and usually does not love sports, he will try to accommodate you and accompany you out to exercise or travel.
Love is mutual tolerance, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding.
When he is more and more similar to you in terms of living habits, he has cultivated a lot of tacit understanding between you, and there are always endless topics between you, indicating that he really loves you.
Judging whether a man loves you more and more depends on whether he is willing to maintain similar lifestyle habits and rhythms with you, and whether he can keep up with your pace.
If he lacks the necessary care and attention to you, he will not integrate into your world, nor will he refuse you to enter his emotional world, indicating that he does not really love you.
The middle-aged man who loves you deeply is willing to start from the details, give you more space and freedom, know how to grasp the distance and measure of the two people, so that you can navigate the relationship with ease and unrestrained.
2, can fully tolerate your shortcomings
No one is perfect, and everyone will have some shortcomings and deficiencies to a greater or lesser extent.
If a middle-aged man loves you more and more, he may put himself in your shoes, knowing how to appreciate the shining points in you and knowing how to tolerate your small shortcomings and small problems.
Because he loves you, he won't be preoccupied with you or forced you to be what you don't like.
Many times, the collapse of feelings stems from a variety of seemingly inconspicuous small things, these small things or small problems if not solved and cured for a long time, it may make the relationship fall apart.
For example, every time he squeezes toothpaste, he likes to squeeze from the bottom to the front, while you squeeze anywhere, resulting in a lot of marks on the toothpaste tube, making him feel very annoying.
When he has a heated argument with you over the small matter of squeezing toothpaste, you may feel inexplicable, thinking that he is making a big fuss and borrowing the problem.
As everyone knows, sometimes the feelings of two people are not resolved in time and effectively because of these tiny contradictions and conflicts, resulting in a relationship that cannot go to the end.
Therefore, when a middle-aged man is willing to fully tolerate some of your shortcomings and deficiencies, know how to seek common ground while reserving differences, never worry about you, and will not be aggressive and aggressive with you, it shows that he really loves you.
Only when he loves you more and more will he become more and more tolerant of you.
3, more and more dependent on and trust you
Truly beautiful feelings are built on the basis of mutual honesty and trust.
If a middle-aged man loves you more and more, he may become more dependent and trusting of you.
On the one hand, he will be reluctant to be separated from you for a long time.
On the other hand, he will not easily doubt your sincerity, and he will not doubt you.
Even if there is a misunderstanding between you, he will clarify the misunderstanding in time, explain the ins and outs of the matter to you, and completely dispel your doubts.
Because he loves you more and more, he will become more and more like a child, full of infinite trust and affection for you.
If he usually ignores you and ignores you, especially when you need him, he is indifferent to you, ignores you, or even turns you away, then it is obvious that he does not really like and care about you.
As Zhang Chu sang in "Arrival": "I rely on the sea and believe in mountains, it is best that you pass by me, and you like my simplicity." ”
The attitude of middle-aged men to their feelings is both the warmth of the sun and the comfort of the breeze, both the firmness of sharing weal and woe, and the appropriate distance.
His love for you is like water and grass relying on rivers, clouds relying on blue skies, and horses relying on grasslands.
At the same time, once a middle-aged man identifies you, he will trust you unconditionally, no longer hide and spit on you, and no longer hide and dodge you.
How much a middle-aged man loves you depends on how much he depends on and trusts you.
The more he loves you, the more he can't help but care for you, and before you are officially separated, he has already developed deep thoughts and concerns for you.
In short, to judge whether a middle-aged man loves you more and more, it depends on the various details of his usual relationship with you.
When he is full of dependence and trust in you, can stand firmly by your side, and become your strong pillar and unique backing, it shows that he really loves you.
If he's lukewarm and moody to you, it's a sign that he probably doesn't like and care about you that much.
A middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply, looks at your eyes and will glow, he will prioritize your interests, and be considerate of your mood everywhere.
If he is usually too cold or arrogant to you, and he refuses to take the initiative to share anything with you, it is almost difficult for you to hear half a sentence of truth from his mouth, indicating that he lacks the minimum sincerity and respect for you.
Love is a beautiful word, and it is precisely because we are wrapped in love that we are full of expectations for the world and are willing to actively sow the seeds of love.
If you don't feel love and care from a middle-aged man who is too selfish and indifferent to you, then you don't have to be deeply in love with him.
In any case, we should believe in love, love life, and cherish life.
Life is impermanent, may you know how to cherish the person in front of you, cherish everything you already have.
For the rest of your life, may you have love in your heart, light in your eyes, calm and calm, and be frank all the way.